面试时如何用英语自我介绍

面试时如何用英语自我介绍

2006年10月13日星期五05:40 P.M.

对形形色色的问题，而最令人哑口无言的，往往是一些最简单和最常见的题目，比如"请你自我介绍一下"。大多数应征者的反应是--我应该如何作答呢？其实要懂得应对此问题，就要先做好准备You'll have a better chance of impressing the interviewer if you think about this question before the interview. The first thing to realize is that the question, "Tell me about yourself," provides you with a great chance to promote your strong points. This is particularly important when applying for a job that is different from what you have done in the past. You need to show the interviewer that your previous jobs provide you with skills that can be used in the new job. WHAT TO TALK ABOUT 如何介绍？你可以选择三个重点来介绍自己，但避免重复履历中曾提及的资料。Around this skeleton should be the meat of your answer; your less obvious, but important skills. Here are some of the skills that you might want to mention. 你可以介绍自己是：Problem solver 解决问题能手Creative thinker 充满创意Accurate 小心谨慎People person 与人相处融洽Team player 合群Organized 组织力高This doesn't mean that you just say, "I'm a great problem solver." Instead, explain how you used your problem-solving skills at your previous job. 事例比自我夸耀更能说明问题。

自我介绍的时间不要过长，最好是一至三分钟。最初你可能会觉得时间太长，但当你真正要介绍自己三项特质时，你就会发现时间不够用了。WHAT TO SAY 应说什么？What you actually say, in terms of the words you use, is something that you have to decide. You need to create an answer that sounds natural and, at the same time, interesting. 背答案估计没有人愿意听。The way to determine whether your answer is natural is simply by writing a first draft of the answer and then read it out loud. When you do this, you'll probably spot things that you have to change. 当你构思答案时，你要想想应该如何说出，内容要令人感兴趣，不沉闷，避免滔滔不绝地只说自己的强项。Here are some final things to think about when answering the question "Tell me about yourself." Mention major awards or accomplishments that relate to your career; 阐述工作上的重要成就或奖项Promote your strengths, but do not mention any of your weaknesses; 推销自己的长处，但不要提及自己的弱点Try to be funny if you can, but don't force it; 可以的话，尽量说得幽默有趣Summarize your career and education, but don't recite a list; 概括说出你的工作经验和学历，但切勿背诵Don't start with your date of birth; 不用提及你的出生日期Avoid information that is not career-related. The fact that you own a dog won't get you a job 避免说一些与职业无关的事，例如：你有一只狗，这并不能为你争取到工作Always answer this question 经常思考和解答这条问题Try to sound natural 对答要自然Relax and enjoy yourself! 放松心情，尽力而为。祝你面试成功！

pesonel statement(introduction)

good morning,my dear teachers,my dear professors.i am very glad to be here for your interview.my name is song yonghao,i am 22 years old .i come from luoyang,a very beautiful aicent city.my undergratuade period will be accomplished in chang'an university in july ,2004;and now,i am trying my best for obtaining a key to tongji university.

generally speaking ,i am a hard working student especially do the thing i am interested in. i will try my best to finish it no matter how difficult it is. when i was sophomore, i found web design very interesting, so i learned it very hard . to weaver a homepage for myself, i stayed with my pesonel computer for half a month.,and i am the first one in my class who own his homepage. forthermore,i am a person with great perserverence. during the days preparing for the first examination,i insist on running every day, no matter what

the weather was like.and just owning to this,i could concentrate on my study and succeeded in the end.

well ,in my spare time ,i like basketball, tennis and chinese chess. also english is my favorate.i often go to english corner to practise my oral english on every thursday,and write compositions to improve my witten ability .but i know my english is not good enough ,i will continue studying.

ok, that is all,thank you for your attention.

my hometown------luoyang

i am from luoyang,a beautiful city in henan province. it is famous as the "capital of nine dynasties " and enjoy yhe honer that luoyang peony is the best in the world.

luoyang played a very important role in chinese history. so it has a profound cultural background and many great heritagesites have been well reverved. such as longmen grotto, one of the three grottoes in china ang white horse temple, being regarded as the cradle of chnese buddhism.

luoyang peony is world-famous. every year, many tourists travel to luoyang to see the beauty of peony .the people in my hometown are friendly, they welcome the travellers from all over the world.

i like my hometown very much.

Good morning !

It is really my honor to have this opportunity for a interview,

I hope i can make a good performance today. I'm confident that I can succeed.

Now i will introduce myself briefly

I am 26 years old,born in shandong province .

I was graduated from qingdao university. my major is electronic.and i got my bachelor degree after my graduation in the year of 2003.

I spend most of my time on study,i have passed CET4/6 . and i have acquired basic knowledge of my major during my school time.

In July 2003, I begin work for a small private company as a technical support engineer in QingDao city.Because I'm capable of more responsibilities, so I decided to change my job.

And in August 2004,I left QingDao to BeiJing and worked for a foreign enterprise as a automation software test engineer.Because I want to change my working environment, I'd like to find a job which is more challenging. Morover Motorola is a global company, so I feel I can gain the most from working in this kind of company ennvironment. That is the reason why I come here to compete for this position.

I think I'm a good team player and I'm a person of great honesty to others. Also I am able to work under great pressure.

That’s all. Thank you for giving me the chance.

Good morning !

I'm very happy to come here to study with you. Now i will introduce myself briefly I am 16 years old,born in ShanHai province.I spend most of my time on study. and i have acquired basic knowledge of my course during my school time.

This class feels just like a big family to me. I'm interested in sport,pop music.I also enjoy playing games on net.I would love to play with you sometime. I hope I can become your friend soon and make our dreams come true together.

I think I'm a good team player and I'm a person of great honesty to others.

英语自我介绍必读（一）

1、Good morning/afternoon/evening, my name is . It is really a great honor to have this opportunity/chance to introduce myself. I would like to answer whatever you may raise, and I hope I can make a good performance today.

上午好/下午好/晚上好！我的名字叫……。今天有机会进行自我介绍深感荣幸。我乐意回答你们所提出来的任何问题。我希望我今天能表现的非常出色。

2、I am years old, born in province/Beijing, northeast/southeast/southwest…… of china, and I am currently

a freshman（大一新生）/sophomore（大二学生）/junior（大三学生）/senior（大四学生）student at Capital Institute of Physical Education.

我今年……岁，出生在……省/北京，它位于中国的东北/东南/西南……等部。我目前是首都体育学院大一/大二/大三/大四的学生。

3、My major is sports training of basketball/voellyball/football/badminton/pingbang/tennis/

我主修篮球/排球/足球/羽毛球/乒乓球/网球/田径/游泳/跆拳道等运动训练专业。在我毕业以后，我将会获得学士学位。

4、In the past 1/2/3 years, I spend most of my time on study. I have passed CET3/4/6 and I have acquired basic knowledge of sports training both in theory and in practice.

在过去的1/2/3年中，我把大量的时间用在学习上。我已经通过了大学英语2/3/4/6级。而且，我已经从理论和实践二方面对运动训练专业的基础知识有了一个大致的了解。

5、Besides, I have attended several sports meetings held in Beijing. I am also the volunteers of China Tennis Open, Chinese Badminton Masters…… . Through these I have a deeply understanding of my major—sports training.

除此以外，我还参加了在北京举行的许多运动会。我还是中国网球公开赛，羽毛球大师赛……的志愿者。通过这些，我对运动训练专业有了一个更深刻的了解。

6、I have lots of interest, such as singing, dancing, drawing and so on.

我有很多兴趣爱好，如唱歌、跳舞、画画等。

7、Thank you!

谢谢大家！

<<英语自我介绍>>

自我介绍；面试中一般都会要求考生先做简单的自我介绍，自我介绍的时间一般为2-3分钟左右。自我介绍是很好的表现机会，应把握以下几个要点：首先，要突出个人的优点和特长，并要有相当的可信度。特别是具有实际管理经验的要突出自己在管理方面的优势，最好是通过自己做过什么项目这

样的方式来验证一下；其次，要展示个性，使个人形象鲜明，可以适当引用别人的言论，如老师、朋友等的评论来支持自己的描述；第三，不可夸张，坚持以事实说话，少用虚词、感叹词之类；最后，要符合常规，介绍的内容和层次应合理、有序地展开。最后，要符合逻辑，介绍时应层次分明、重点突出，使自己的优势很自然地逐步显露，不要一上来就急于罗列自己的优点

英文自我介绍的范例

一：

Autobiography

My name is ________. I am graduate from ________ senior high school and major in ________. There ar e ________ people in my family. My father works in a computer company. And my mother is a housewife. I am the youngest one in my family.

In my spare time, I like to read novels. I think reading could enlarge my knowledge. As for novels, I coul d imagine whatever I like such as a well-known scientist or a kung-fu master. In addition to reading, I also like t o play PC games. A lot of grownups think playing PC games hinders the students from learning. But I think PC games could motivate me to learn something such as English or Japanese.

My favorite course is English because I think it is interesting to say one thing via different sounds. I wish my English could be improved in the next four years and be able to speak fluent English in the future.

二：

Autobiography

I am . I was born in . I graduate from senior high school and major in English. I sta rted learning English since I was 12 years old. My parents have a lot of American friends. That’s why I have no problem communicating with Americans or others by speaking English.

In my spare time, I like to do anything relating to English such as listening to English songs, watching E nglish movies or TV programs, or even attending the activities held by some English clubs or institutes. I used t o go abroad for a short- term English study. During that time, I learned a lot of daily life English and saw a lot o f different things.

I think language is very interesting. I could express one substance by using different sounds. So I wish I could study and read more English literatures and enlarge my knowledge.

英语面试自我介绍范文

good morning, my name is jack, it is really a great honor to have this opportunity for a interview, i would like to answer whatever you may raise, and i hope i can make a good performance today, eventually enroll in this prestigious university in september. now i will introduce myself briefly,i am 21 years old,born in heilongjiang province ,northeast of china,and i am curruently a senior student at beijing XX uni.my major is packaging engineering.and i will receive my bachelor degree after my graduation in june.in the past 4 years,i spend most of my time on study,i have passed CET4/6 with a ease. and i have acquired basic knowledge of packaging and publishing both in theory and in practice. besides, i have attend several packaging exhibition hold in Beijing, this is our advantage study here, i have taken a tour to some big factory and company. through these i have a deeply understanding of domestic packaging industry. compared to developed countries such as us, unfortunately, although we have made extraordinary progress since 1978,our packaging industry are still underdeveloped, mess, unstable, the situation of

employees in this field are awkard. but i have full confidence in a bright future if only our economy can keep the growth pace still. i guess you maybe interested in the reason itch to law, and what is my plan during graduate study life, i would like to tell you that pursue law is one of my lifelong goal,i like my major packaging and i won't give up,if i can pursue my master degree here i will combine law with my former education. i will work hard in thesefields ,patent ,trademark, copyright, on the base of my years study in department of p&p, my character? i cannot describe it well, but i know i am optimistic and confident. sometimes i prefer to stay alone, reading, listening to music, but i am not lonely, i like to chat with my classmates, almost talk everything ,my favorite pastime is valleyball,playing cards or surf online. through college life,i learn how to balance between study and entertainment. by the way, i was a actor of our amazing drama club. i had a few glorious memory on stage. that is my pride.

内容：

大家好！我叫林天钇，我的英语名字叫露茜，我今年11岁了，我有一个快乐的家，我的爸爸妈妈非常疼爱我．

我喜欢弹钢琴和游泳．我的好友张宵玥也喜欢游泳．

我喜欢吃鱼．有一次我竟然把一条鱼都吃掉了！

在周末，通常我去看望外婆，有时我和爸爸妈妈去爬山．

这就是我，一个开朗的女孩！

谢谢．

Hello, everybody!

I am Lin Tianyi, my English name is Lucy. I am 11 years old, I have a happy family, my parents love me very much.

I like play piano and swimming, my good friend Zhang Xiaoyue like swimming too.

I like to eat fish, I have finished one fish once.

At weekend, I am used to look in my grandmother, sometimes I will go to climb with my parents.

That's me, a lovely girl.

Thanks!

自我介绍用语大全之问候类

1.Good morning everyone.

大家早上好。

2.Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen.

先生们，女士们下午好。

3.Good evening, teachers and fellow students.

老师们，同学们晚上好。

4.It’s my great honor to introduce myself to you here.

很荣幸在这儿向大家作自我介绍。

5.It’s my pleasure to introduc e myself to you here.

我很高兴在这儿向大家作自我介绍。

6.I’m very happy to introduce myself to you here.

我很高兴在这儿向大家作自我介绍。

7.I’m very glad to introduce myself to you here.

我很高兴在这儿向大家作自我介绍。

8.I feel very honored to introduce myself to you here.

我感到很荣幸在这儿向大家作自我介绍。

9.It is a great pleasure for me to introduce myself to you here.

我是如此的高兴在这儿向大家作自我介绍。

10.It is a privilege to be speaking to you today.

今天能跟你谈话真是我三生有幸。

11. I am very proud to be addressing you this evening.

今晚能在此应邀讲话我深感荣幸。

个人简历中如何用英语自我赞美

Mature，dynamic and honest．思想成熟、精明能干、为人诚实。

Excellent ability of systematical management．有极强的系统管理能力。

Ability to work independent1y，mature and resourcefu1．能够独立工作、思想成熟、应变能力强。

A person with ability plus flexibility should app1y.需要有能力及适应力强的人。

A stable personality and high sense of responsibility are desirable.个性稳重、具高度责任感。

Work well with a multi-cultural and diverse work force.能够在不同文化和工作人员的背景下出色地工作。

Bright，aggressive applicants.反应快、有进取心的应聘者。

Ambitious attitude essential．有雄心壮志。

Initiative，independent and good communication skill．积极主动、独立工作能力强，并有良好的交际技能。

Willing to work under pressure with leardership quality．愿意在压力下工作，并具领导素质。

Willing to assume responsibilities.应聘者须勇于挑重担。

Mature，self-motivated and strong interpersonal skills.思想成熟、上进心强，并具极丰富的人际关系技巧。

Energetic，fashion-minded person.精力旺盛、思想新潮。

With a pleasant mature attitude.开朗成熟。

Strong determination to succeed．有获得成功的坚定决心。

Strong leadership skills．有极强的领导艺术。

Ability to work well with others.能够同他人一道很好地工作。

Highly-motivated and reliable person with excellent health and pleasant personality.上进心强又可靠者，并且身体健康、性格开朗。

The ability to initiate and operate independently.有创业能力，并能独立地从业。

Strong leadership skill while possessing a great team spirit.有很高的领导艺术和很强的集体精神。

Be highly organized and effecient．工作很有条理，办事效率高。

Willing to learn and progress．肯学习进取。

Good presentation skills.有良好的表达能力。

Positive active mind essential．有积极、灵活的头脑。

Ability to deal with personnel at all levels effectively。善于同各种人员打交道。

Have positive work attitude and be willing and able to work diligently without supervision。有积极的工作态度，愿意和能够在没有监督的情况下勤奋地工作。

Young，bright，energetic with strong career-ambition.年轻、聪明、精力充沛，并有很强的事业心。

Good people management and communication skills. Team player.有良好的人员管理和交际能力。能在集体中发挥带头作用。

Able to work under high pressure and time limitation.能够在高压力下和时间限制下进行工作。

Be elegant and with nice personality.举止优雅、个人性格好。

With good managerial skills and organizational capabilities.有良好的管理艺术和组织能力。

The main qualities required are preparedness to work hard, ability to learn, ambition and good he alth.主要必备素质是吃苦耐劳精神好、学习能力优、事业心强和身体棒。

Having good and extensive social connections.具有良好而广泛的社会关系。

Being active, creative and innonative is a plus.思想活跃、有首创和革新精神尤佳。

With good analytical capability.有较强的分析能力。

Good morning, everyone.Today I’d like to introduce myself to you.As you all know,my C hinese name is XXXand English is X which means easygoing.I was born in A ,which is known for the B,C province.

Next,I’ll say something about my personality.Just as the English name says,I think I am a n easygoing guy and like making friends.Sometimes I’m optimistic and outgoing.But some times I’ll be moonstruck.Although with many shortcoming,I’m confident in myself.Above all,I think love of life is my principle.

Next then,I want to tell you something about my interests.Well,I’m crazying about rollerbl ading.In my opinion,playing rollerblade is not only a kind of exercise but also a way of relaxing,making friends and communicating.Also,I took participate in the Roller skating ass ociation in our school last year.Most of all,I can enjoy every second in playing rollerblad e.

If you won’t laugh at me, I must say that I’m also very very love cartoons especially th e opuses of Hayao Miyazaki(宫崎骏) who is known as a manga master. His works,includi ng 《Spirited Away》（《千与千寻》）《The Castle in the Sky》（《天空之城》）《Howl's Movi ng Castle》（《哈尔的移动城堡》）《The Cat Returns》（《猫的报恩》）《Pom Poko》（《百变狸猫》）《Mononoke Hime》（《幽灵公主》），force me to think deeply about many things such

as the ture love, what the meaning of life and the relationship among human beings,ani mals and nature.

Finally, what I wanna say is that I also like soft music such as《kiss the rain》（《雨的印记》）《The street where wind settles》(《风居住的街道》)《Songs From A Secret Garden》(《神秘园之歌》）and《the rain》which was composed by Joe Hisaishi(久石让),a melodist I love most.

That’s all what I want to say. Thank you again for listening.

Good morning everyone!

I'm Nickole. I'm 24. I graduated from Hunan Normal Universaty on Shuda Campus. My major is English Education. After graduation, I have worked for one year in Li Yang听K id's Engish. My students are between 5 and 12 years old.

I'm outgoing and open-minded. In my spare time, I have broad interests. Such as reading, surfing the internet, listening to music and even chatting with foreign friends online if p ossible. I like children very much. I think children are active, innocent and pure. With th em, I feel very relaxed, plesant and younger. Therefore, I learned a lot from my one yea r working experence.

Teaching children English is very interested but it is also challeging. Because children are always active, even sometimes very naughty. So teachers need a lot of patience to deal with children. The most important that I have learned from my one year teacing experenc e is that a teacher should have the kind of听the mind that always wants to go on learni ng. Teaching is a job at which one will never be perfet. If I have the chance, I will try my best to be a good primary English teacher.

good morning, my name is xx, it is really a great honor to have this opportunity for a i nterview, i would like to answer whatever you may raise, and i hope i can make a good performance today, eventually enroll in this primary school.

I am a third year master major in automation at Shanghai Jiao Tong University, P. R. Ch ina. With tremendous interest in Industrial Engineering, I am writing to apply for accepta nce into your Ph.D. graduate program. In 1995, I entered the Nanjing University of Scien ce & Technology (NUST) -- widely considered one of the China’s best engineering schoo ls. During the following undergraduate study, my academic records kept distinguished amo ng the whole department. I was granted First Class Prize every semester, and my overall GPA(89.5/100) ranked No.1 among 113 students. In 1999, I got the privilege to enter the graduate program waived of the admission test. I selected the Shanghai Jiao Tong Unive rsity to continue my study for its best reputation on Combinatorial Optimization and Net

work Scheduling where my research interest lies.

At the period of my graduate study, my overall GPA

now i will introduce myself briefly,i am xx years old,born in xx province ,and i am curr uently a xxxx.my major is xxx..in the past 4 years,i spend most of my time on study,i h ave passed CET4/6 with a ease. and i have acquired basic knowledge of packaging and p ublishing both in theory and in practice. besides, i have attend.

i will have Patience on all of the children, and my hard work will be improved if you e nroll me

英语面试时，我们会面对形形色色的问题，最令人哑口无言的，通常是一些最简单和最常见的题目，所以面试英语需要注意如何自我介绍。比如"请你自我介绍一下"。大多数应征者的反应是--我应该如何作答呢？其实要懂得应对此问题，就要先做好准备You'll have a bet ter chance of impressing the interviewer if you think about this question before the interv iew. The first thing to realize is that the question, "Tell me about yourself," provides you with a great chance to promote your strong points. This is particularly important when a pplying for a job that is different from what you have done in the past. You need to sho w the interviewer that your previous jobs provide you with skills that can be used in the new job.% D# |: d& H6 M. A

WHAT TO TALK ABOUT 如何介绍？你可以选择三个重点来介绍自己，但避免重复履历中曾提及的资料。Around this skeleton should be the meat of your answer; your less obvious, but important skills. Here are some of the skills that you might want to mention.你可以介绍自己是：Problem solver 解决问题能手、Creative thinker 充满创意、Accurate 小心谨慎、People person 与人相处融洽、Team player 合群、Organized 组织力高。This d oesn't mean that you just say, "I'm a great problem solver." Instead, explain how you use d your problem-solving skills at your previous job. 事例比自我夸耀更能说明问题。* N$ n8 j4 y5 n: Q* M9 t4 S- S4 l

( O7 p! ~5 t# y7 p# s% S! L1 P6 n- x

自我介绍的时间不要过长，最好是一至三分钟。最初你可能会觉得时间太长，但当你真正要介绍自己三项特质时，你就会发现时间不够用了。WHAT TO SAY 应说什么？Wh at you actually say, in terms of the words you use, is something that you have to decide. You need to create an answer that sounds natural and, at the same time, interesting. 背答案估计没有人愿意听。The way to determine whether your answer is natural is simply by writing a first draft of the answer and then read it out loud. When you do this, you'll probably spot things that you have to change.

当你构思答案时，你要想想应该如何说出，内容要令人感兴趣，不沉闷，避免滔滔不绝地只说自己的强项。Here are some final things to think about when answering the ques tion "Tell me about yourself." Mention major awards or accomplishments that relate to yo ur career;阐述工作上的重要成就或奖项、Promote your strengths, but do not mention any

of your weaknesses;推销自己的长处，但不要提及自己的弱点、Try to be funny if you can, but don't force it;可以的话，尽量说得幽默有趣、Summarize your career and education, b ut don't recite a list;概括说出你的工作经验和学历，但切勿背诵、Don't start with your da te of birth;不用提及你的出生日期、Avoid information that is not career-related. The fact t hat you own a dog won't get you a job避免说一些与职业无关的事，例如：你有一只狗，这并不能为你争取到工作、Always answer this question经常思考和解答这条问题、Try to sound natural对答要自然、Relax and enjoy yourself!放松心情，尽力而为。希望以上的面试英语介绍能给你带来帮助，祝你面试成功！

.

严歌苓说，人之间的关系不一定从陌生进展为熟识，从熟识走向陌生，同样是正常进展。

人与人之间的缘分，远没有想像中的那么牢固，也许前一秒钟还牵手一起经历风雨，后一秒就说散就散，所以，你要懂得善待和珍惜。

人与人相处，讲究个真心，你对我好，我就对你好，你给予真情，我还你真意，人心是相互的。

两个人在一起，总会有人主动，但主动久了，就会累，会伤心，心伤了就暖不回来了，凡事多站在对方的角度想一想，多一份忍耐和谦就，就不会有那么多的怨气和误解，也少了一些擦肩而过。

做人不要太苛刻，太苛无友，人无完人，每个人都有这样或那样的缺点，重在包容。包容是一种大度，整天笑呵呵的人并不是他没有脾气和烦恼，而是心胸开阔，两个懂得相互包容的人，才能走得越久。

人与人相处，要多一份真诚，俗语说，你真我便真。常算计别人的人，总以为自己有多聪明，孰不知被欺骗过的人，就会选择不再相信，千万别拿人性来试人心，否则你会输得体无完肤。

人与人相处不要太较真，生活中我们常常因为一句话而争辩的面红耳赤，你声音大，我比你嗓门还大，古人说，有理不在声高，很多时候，让人臣服的不是靠嘴，而是靠真诚，无论是朋友亲人爱人都不要太较真了，好好说话，也是一种修养。

俗语说，良言一句三冬暖，你对我好，我又岂能不知，你谦让与我，我又怎能再得寸进尺，你欣赏我，我就有可能越变越好，你尊重我，我也会用尊重来回报你，你付出爱，必会得到更多的爱。

与人相处，要多一份和善，切忌恶语相向，互相伤害就有可能永远失去彼此，每个人心中都有一座天平，每个人心中都藏一份柔软，表面再强势的人，内心也是渴求温暖的。

做人要学会谦虚，虚怀若谷。人人都喜欢和谦虚的人交往，司马懿说：“臣一路走来，没有敌人，看见的都是朋友和师长”.这就是胸怀。

有格局的人，心中藏有一片海，必能前路开阔，又何愁无友。

人与人相处，开始让人舒服的也许是你的言语和外表，但后来让人信服的一定是你的内在。就如那句，欣赏一个人，始于颜值，敬于才华，合于性格，久于善良，终于人品。

人这一生，遇见相同的人不容易，遇见正确的人更不容易，只有选择了合适的相处方式，带上真诚与人相处，才会走得更长，更远更久。

人与人相处，要多一份真诚，俗语说，你真我便真。常算计别人的人，总以为自己有多聪明，孰不知被欺骗过的人，就会选择不再相信，千万别拿人性来试人心，否则你会输得体无完肤。

人与人相处不要太较真，生活中我们常常因为一句话而争辩的面红耳赤，你声音大，我比你嗓门还大，古人说，有理不在声高，很多时候，让人臣服的不是靠嘴，而是靠真诚，无论是朋友亲人爱人都不要太较真了，好好说话，也是一种修养。

俗语说，良言一句三冬暖，你对我好，我又岂能不知，你谦让与我，我又怎能再得寸进尺，你欣赏我，我就有可能越变越好，你尊重我，我也会用尊重来回报你，你付出爱，必会得到更多的爱。

与人相处，要多一份和善，切忌恶语相向，互相伤害就有可能永远失去彼此，每个人心中都有一座天平，每个人心中都藏一份柔软，表面再强势的人，内心也是渴求温暖的。

做人要学会谦虚，虚怀若谷。人人都喜欢和谦虚的人交往，司马懿说：“臣一路走来，没有敌人，看见的都是朋友和师长”.这就是胸怀。

有格局的人，心中藏有一片海，必能前路开阔，又何愁无友。

人与人相处，开始让人舒服的也许是你的言语和外表，但后来让人信服的一定是你的内在。就如那句，欣赏一个人，始于颜值，敬于才华，合于性格，久于善良，终于人品。