大学生对于幸福的定义,对幸福的理解,幸福是什么

What’s happiness?

What’s happiness? At childhood, mother’s embrace is the most beautiful paradise. If the whole world has abandoned you, at least you mother will not. Some people think this is happiness. When you gradually grow up, falling in love is a happiness. Some say l ove is a cup of tea, a long time to light out. When you’re old, I say love is more like a pot, the longer the taste.

Maybe someone says happiness is having a lot of money. But in fact, There are a great many people who have all the material conditions of happiness, such as health and enough money, but who, nevertheless, are profoundly unhappy. And some people who are poor feel life is joyful.Some girls may think they will be happy when they get beautiful clothes, and some students may believe they will be happy when they get a high score. Everyone has different opinion about happiness. There isn’t a theory to define and lead it. Happiness is a thing. You can’t see it , touch it ,but you can feel it by your heart. Happiness is an attitude, not a condition.While you are walking home with a head full of problems, try to notice the sunsets, the trees, listen to the shouts of kids playing games, and feel your spirits rise, just from having paid attention.

There is no doubt that happiness is the most precious thing in the world, without it, life will be empty and meaningless. So, how to get happiness?In my opinion, there are three points.

Firstly, I think every one should have goals and dreams, he works hardly to achieve it, and then he will get happiness. American president Franklin said: “Happiness lies not in the mere possession of money; it lies in the joy of achievement , in the thrill of creative effort .”

Secondly, I think we should have optimistic attitude. We should love people and every thing around us at heart. I exactly believe that the happiest people are those who love many things. They love children, family and friends. They love sunrises and sunsets. They love life. They have even learned to love pain and despair rather than viewing them as the opposite of happiness.

Thirdly, I think health is very important, only a strong man can enjoy the

pleasure of life. So I believe an unhappy man would be better to choose walking or taking exercises instead of thinking about how to get happiness by day and night.

Our time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, you should have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

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