A Comparison of Differences in wedding culture between East and Western countries
中西方婚礼差异对比 英语论文
A Comparison of the Wedding Culture between China and Western Countries in Modern Times IntroductionThe 21st century is dominated by science and technology, which makes the whole world develop quite rapidly. With the constantly increasing economic globalization and international exchange, the cultures of different regions are gradually spread and fused, such as the wedding cultures of China and Western Countries.It is clear that Chinese wedding and Western wedding differ from each other in many aspects: custom, ceremony procedures, styles and dress, marriage media and place.This thesis discusses the differences between Chinese and Western wedding cultures. It is extremely important to understand the different cultures between China and Western countries, which will help us to correctly understand the words and deeds of Westerners in the intercultural communication, fully understand each other, and respect each other's customs so as to get the best effect of communication.1. Chinese and Western Different Wedding Cultures1.1 Custom1.1.1 Three Papers and Six EtiquettesAccording to Chinese wedding customs, the first etiquette is Three Papers and Six Etiquettes, which is as important as the engagement at Western wedding.Three Papers consists of the paper of engagement, the list paper of the presents to the bride’s and the paper of fetching the bride. They are going to be used on the day of engagement, the bridegroom’s giving the presents of marriage to the bride’s an d going and fetching the bride.Six Etiquettes includes asking for engagement, asking for the name and births of the newlyweds, showing some presents for engagement to the bride’s, giving the presents of marriage to the bride’s, choosing a good date for the wedding and going and fetching the br ide on the day of the wedding. All these etiquettes must be completely in proper order before thewedding, and then the formal wedding can be held.1.1.2 EngagementIn Western countries, people always engage first and then they can hold the formal wedding. Many etiquettes and symbols need to be paid much attention to, especially the diamond ring at the engagement ceremony. Diamond is considered as the best symbol of forever love. The diamond is produced by heat energy and press, which makes it the hardest material discovered by human beings so far. Thus, the bridegroom must send a diamond ring to his bride to show his promise of forever unchanged love at their engagement ceremony. 1.1.3 Other Etiquettes and CustomsEtiquettes and Customs at the Chinese WeddingIn China, the parents always prepare some dowry for their daughter. The dowry means a good wish for their rich and nice life. At the bridegroom’s home, there are also many things to be prepared. At the same time the bridegroom must prepare some money packaged in red paper bags to thank some people on the day of the wedding, such as his bride’s brother and people who helped him. People think the money in a red paper bag from the bridegroom will bring them good luck and nice life.Etiquettes and Customs at the Western Wedding“Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and a Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe”.Each item in this poem represents a good-luck taken for the bride. If she carries all of them on her wedding day, her marriage will be happy. “Something old” symbolizes continuity with the bride's family and the past. “Something new”means optimism and hope for the bride's new life ahead. “Something borrowed”is usually an item from a happily married friend or family member, whose good fortune in marriage is supposed to carry over to the new bride. The borrowed item also reminds the bride that she can depend on her friends and family. “Something Blue”dates from the ancient Rome time, brides wore blue to symbolize love, modesty, and fidelity, as evidenced in proverbs like “Marry in blue, lover be true”. And finally, a silver sixpence dates back to a Scottish customs of a groom putting a silver coin under his foot for good luck, today it represents wealth and financial security.1.1.4 TaboosTaboos at the Chinese WeddingOn the day of the wedding, people can’t say bad words. People say it will bring something bad if they don’t follow the customs. Everything prepared for the wedding must be in pairs.When the bride arrives at the b ridegroom’s, she can’t touch the threshold when she goes across, or she will bring bad luck.The pregnant women and the women who lose a parent or her husband recently can’t attend the wedding, and they can not touch the bride’s new clothes and all of the items in the bridal chamber. If they did this, she had to crawl through the new couple’s unmarried brother’s legs before she can go out.Taboos at the Western WeddingThere are also many taboos at the Western wedding, especially concerning the bride’s wedding dress. White wedding dress must not be matched with red shoes, because red shoes means to jump into the fire pit. Red flower, red belt and other red things mustn’t be matched with white dress, either, since white symbolizes pure while red is the opposite. White wedding dress should match white, golden or silver shoes.The bride must cover her face with a veil at the ceremony, for it is not only a decoration but also representing a dividing line, and it can’t be exposed by other people except the bridegroom. The bridegroom always stands on the right of his bride, in order to avoid others from grabbing his bride away. When the new couple goes back to their bridal chamber, the bridegroom must hug the bride into the house and put her on the bed, avoiding her getting into the house with her left foot first, for they think that may bring bad luck to the new family. 1.2 Ceremony ProceduresCeremony Procedures at the Chinese WeddingThere is a certain order in Chinese wedding. Generally speaking, the whole process of the wedding includes a series of details.( 1 ) Going and Fetching the BrideOn the day of the formal wedding, the bride is dressed up by the elders at her home, waiting for the bridegroom. When the bridegroom meets his bride, they are to say goodbye tothe bride‘s family members after worshipping the bride’s ancestors. They bow down before her parents, after which the newlyweds can set off after the bride’s mothe r drapes kerchief over for her.( 2 ) Performing the Formal Wedding CeremonyIn China, people will select a good date very carefully for a big event, especially for one’s marriage or death, for there are many taboos to avoid and they think a good date may bring good luck. Usually, they consult professional Mr. Fengshui(The one who studies the geomantic omen professionally) for advice.People paste congratulatory couplets and large red Chinese character on the doorframes and walls. And they also lay out red blanket on the ground. The bride and bridegroom will be led across the red blanket, the colorful paper strips and one kind of spray stuff will be setting off above the new couple’s heads. They walk shoulder by shoulder to the front of their parents who have already sat in a row of chairs at the end of the blanket. They bow down before their parents three times, and then they bow to each other three times, too. After that they formally become a couple.( 3 ) Disturbing the NuptialAfter the wedding feast, some of their close friends will plan to make fun of the new couple in their bridal chamber, and usually they play games. The new couple can’t have a rest until all the friends stop to left, and the whole wedding ends.( 4 ) Going back to the Bride’s Three Days LatterOn the third day after the marriage, the bride must go back to her parents with her husband with roasted meat and some other gifts. There, they worship her ancestors again, and they can even stay for a period of time before they return their own home.Ceremony Procedures at the Western WeddingMost Westerners are Christians, so Western wedding is always held in the church, presided by the priest. On the day of the wedding, the new couple’s relatives and friends gather at the church to celebrate their wedding and to be the witnesses of their marriage.As the ceremony begins, the bridegroom and his groomsmen stand with the priest, facing the audience. Music signals the entrance of the bridesmaids, followed by the beautiful bride, and the bride will be led into the church by her father. Then the priest will ask the new coupleand all people to present several questions one by one, beginning with the bridegroom, and then they give their promises of marriage to each other “for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health.” After that they can exchange their rings and kiss each other. Finally, the priest will declare their marriage, which means the end of the wedding.1.3 Styles and DressA Chinese wedding is a very special occasion filled with bright red color everywhere. That's because red represents happiness and prosperity, and also it is a symbol of good luck, indicates the days after marriage is booming.Western wedding trends to be romantic. The whole wedding is full of romantic atmosphere. The bride usually wears a beautiful, long white wedding dress, because white means jubilation in the West. The bridegroom wears a formal suit or tuxedo. For example, in the Andaman Islands, white was the representative of the status change. Traditional white wedding dress was the privilege of nobility in the early days. In Liberia times, most of the brides can only wear the traditional national costumes, and only the upper class can wear white dress at the wedding, which was the symbol of power and identity. Until modern times, after the privilege of nobility disappears the bride can wear white wedding dress ordinarily. 1.4 Marriage MediaIn Chinese wedding, matchmaker is the compere of the wedding. Listening to matchmaker’s proposals is the rule that people must abide by. They usually were women. The bride and bridegroom were directed by her to finish the ceremony.But in Christian’s opinions, wedding ceremony is considered as an important way to get god’s save and wedding ceremony is a very important part of marriage. Priest plays an essential role in it. And marriage is not valid, unless the ceremony is hosted by priest.1.5 PlaceChinese wedding is usually held in the bridegroom's house. The bride and bridegroom worship the heaven, the earth, their parents and each other in the hall of the house. The relatives and friends have dinner in the courtyard.Most of the Westerners are Christians and they believe in God and regard him as the only master of the universe, so Western wedding takes place in church.2. The Reasons for Differences2.1 Social SystemsChina's emperors treat themselves as the Son of Heaven, but “No one is born noble.”Ancient China's political system is Centralized system that the autocratic centralization of power as the core. Despotic centralized system in China continuities 2000 years, and it had a profound impact on the China's reunification and development.While in the West, the emperor and his people are in accordance with the sanctity of contracts under the name of God, and the emperor in accordance with God's will to control the country.2.2 Thought PatternsChinese ThoughtsChinese people are always more conservative, and they like to gather together enjoying the jollification and they have a relatively rigid mind. Thus there is not much change in the wedding customs in the thousands of years’ Chinese history. Many traditional wedding customs and etiquettes remain alive. And the Chinese people’s character of loving jollification is fully manifested in the Chinese traditional complicated wedding ceremony. In the end of the wedding, the couple will be disturbed by friends and family in their bridal chamber, and people think that the more serious the new couple is disturbed, the happier they will be in their life. Therefore, their friends and family use various methods to make things difficult for the bride and the bridegroom.Westerner’s ThoughtsWestern people are more open-minded, and their requirement for the wedding is relatively lower. The climax of their wedding is in the church. With the sacred “Wedding M arch”, th e bride is led by her father with a bouquet of roses in her hand stepping onto the red carpet, walking slowly to the bridegroom. The bride's father will put her daughter's hands in the hand of the bridegroom, entrusting her daughter's life to him. There sounds their oath in the sacred church and both the bridegroom and the bride exchange their marriage rings. After the priest declared the marriage, the bride and the bridegroom may go to the wedding banquet or to take their honeymoon without the complex etiquettes of the Chinese traditionalweddings.2.3 Value OrientationChinese Value OrientationP eople’s marriage is relatively stable because Chinese people always consider marriage as one of the most important things in one’s life. They choose it carefully, and once they decide to get married it will be not easy to change. And as Chinese people always regard marriage as something serious as well as moral; they think it’s immoral to destroy other’s marriage.Chinese people’s marriage is much more a rational choice and it is doubtful how much love there is in such a rational choice of marriage. Therefore, the Chinese people's marriage is much less roma ntic than the Western people’s. Of course, Chinese people have love, too. But there is no inevitable connection between love and marriage. Love and marriage are two entirely different matters, Chinese people can marry someone they love or they do not love. Westerner’s Value OrientationWesterners believe that marriage is purely a private matter, and no one can interfere. They have the right to choose a favorite person to live together, and they will have a second choice once they find the existing marriage is a mistake.It can be said that the Westerners’ marriage is in more need of love, and love is the basis of marriage. What’s why there are the categories of “Golden Marriage”,”Silver Marriage” and "Honeymoon", which look so romantic. In the Western countries, love is the most sacred part of human being’s emotion, which can never be sullied. And this makes it as sacred and absolute as the religious idols. At the same time, it is the extreme emotion of human beings. That’s why they make a life promi se to each other at the wedding and exchange the diamond rings to witness their love.2.4 Religious ViewsChinese Religion and Its Influence on the Wedding CustomsIn China, the traditional moral and religious beliefs are always the most important cornerstone of marriage and stable family.The most popular religion in China is Buddhism whose teachings greatly influence people’s thought. This is reflected in Chinese customs, such as the wedding customs.The Buddhism teaches the common people to enjoy a reasonable arrangement of a good secular life, and to be good people. For example, they prepare things for the wedding in pairs, and they decorate the whole wedding with red items that means goodness. Therefore, Chinese people pay much attention to the etiquettes at the wedding, they stress much and they have many taboos. The Buddhism also tells people to respect the heaven, the earth, the King, their parents and the persons who teach them, that’s why Chinese people must bow down before them at the wedding ceremony. At the same time, religion teaches people how to be a good wife or husband, how they should respect their elders and grow their kids, and the way of making a harmony marriage. Thus, Chinese people always treat marriage as one of the most important things in one’s life, and they can keep a steady family.Western Religion and Its Influence on the Wedding CustomsMost of the Westerners are Christians, they believe in God as the only master of the universe. Christians pay serious attention to marriage. According to the Bible, the Christians have two views: firstly, marriage is sacred, because the origin of marriage is the creation of god himself; secondly, marriage should insist on the principle of monogamy, that’s why God created Eve for Adam. Christians traditionally believe that the premise of divorce is one of the couple committed the crimes of lascivious or one leave voluntarily for different believes, mentioned in the Bible.3. The Measures of blending Chinese and Western Wedding Cultures3.1 Changing Teachers’ Way of Thinking and Improving Teaching MethodsIn China's current education system, foreign language teaching has only been carried out in the classroom and teachers play a leading role. If the teachers will only focus on grammar and vocabulary teaching, the students can not learn the practical application of language, but lack of cross-cultural communication capabilities. Therefore, teachers must be taught to change their concepts, practical understanding of the importance of cross-cultural communicative competence.For a long time, the teaching of English in universities are placed emphasis on teaching knowledge of the language at the expense of cross-cultural communication abilities. In order to change this situation, we must improve teaching methods, both in the aspects of quantitative and qualitative to control the culture of teaching in classroom, and to make fulluse of modern teaching methods to mobilize the enthusiasm of students, teacher can let students to play the bridegroom and the bride in the wedding ceremony. In addition, we must make the new content and language knowledge in close contact, and communication practice must be closely integrated with the language.3.2 Emphasizing on Non-verbal Communication AbilityNon-verbal communication is also an important means of communication, referring to a particular context of using of non-verbal behavior in the process of information exchange and understanding the knowledge. They are not really the units of language, but sometimes it was able to make people communicate better in culture than the language itself. Some specific non-verbal behavior often represents a specific meaning, which must pay attention to cross-cultural communication. To know more about non-verbal behavior is good for understanding the wedding cultures, such as the ceremony procedures.3.3 Extensive Contact with Western Culture MaterialsPeople should make good use of their leisure time reading the West English literary works, newspapers, magazines and current affairs comments and other materials to learn wedding culture and improve cross-cultural communicative competence. In addition, people can go to the English corner to discuss the wedding culture.ConclusionMarriage is an important part of social life, we can make the wedding culture as a breakthrough point to know more about the differences between Chinese and Western culture. In the Chinese and Western weddings, the custom, ceremony procedures, styles and dress, marriage media and place are different and there are many reasons causing the differences such as social system, thought pattern, value orientation and religious views.It is extremely important to know and understand the differences between them, so that we can understand the words and deeds of Westerners correctly and respect each other's customs in the communication, and then we can get the best effect of communication. In conclusion, the Western and Chinese culture is a vast field for Chinese and English learners to explore and study. We still have a long way to understand it deeply.References[1] JiaYuxin.Intercultural Communication Research [M]. Shanghai Foreign Language Education Press, 1997[2] Linell Davis. Doing Culture: Cross-Cultural Communication in Action [M]. Foreign Language Teaching and Research Press, 1999[3] Ma Xiao-na. 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中印婚礼对比英语作文
Title: A Comparative Analysis of Chinese and Indian Wedding CustomsWeddings are a universal celebration of love and union, yet each culture brings its unique flavors and traditions to this momentous occasion. The weddings in China and India, two ancient and vibrant civilizations, are particularly rich in symbolism and ceremony. This essay delves into the fascinating contrasts between Chinese and Indian wedding customs, highlighting their similarities and differences.Let's begin with the preliminaries. In both cultures, weddings are preceded by a period of intense preparation, involving the selection of a auspicious date, the invitation of guests, and the decoration of the venue. However, the specific rituals and beliefs surrounding these preparations vary. In China, for instance, the date is often chosen based on the zodiac compatibility of the bride and groom, while in India, astrological charts are consulted to ensure a harmonious union.Moving on to the attire, both cultures have their own distinctive styles. Chinese weddings often feature the bride in a traditional red qipao or cheongsam, symbolizing luck and prosperity. The groom, on the other hand, wears a suit or traditional Mao suit, reflecting a blend of modernity andtradition. In contrast, Indian weddings are renowned for their vibrant colors and intricate details. The bride typically wears a lehenga choli, a vibrant ensemble consisting of a skirt, blouse, and matching veil, often adorned with intricate embroidery and jewelry. The groom wears a sherwani, a long, tailored coat, often in a matching color to the bride's attire.The ceremony itself offers a fascinating contrast. Chinese weddings typically follow a set order of events, including the giving of gifts, the exchange of vows, and the toasting of the newlyweds. There is often a strong emphasis on family and community, with extended families playing pivotal roles in the ceremony. In India, weddings are often grander affairs, with elaborate rituals and traditions that can span several days. The ceremony itself is often divided into several parts, including the baraat (the groom's procession to the wedding venue), the pheras (the circling of the sacred fire), and the saptapadi (the seven steps representing the seven vows).Food also plays a significant role in both weddings. Chinese weddings feature a banquet of delicious dishes, often reflecting the regional cuisine of the bride and groom. The menu is carefully chosen to symbolize prosperity, fertility, and union. Indian weddings, on the other hand, are renowned for theirfeasts, often featuring a variety of curries, rice dishes, and sweetmeats. The preparation of these dishes is often a community effort, with relatives and friends pitching in to create a celebration that is both delicious and heartwarming.Another notable difference lies in the role of music and dance. Chinese weddings often have live bands or DJs playing traditional and modern music, creating a festive atmosphere. Dance performances, while not as common, can be a highlight of the reception. In India, music and dance are integral to the wedding celebrations. From the vibrant drum beats of the baraat to the graceful dances of the bride and groom, music and dance are used to express joy and celebrate the union of two families.Lastly, we come to the post-wedding traditions. In China, the newlyweds often visit relatives and friends after the wedding, receiving their blessings and gifts. There may also be a series of smaller gatherings and celebrations in the following days and weeks. In India, the post-wedding period is marked by a honeymoon and the gradual settlement into married life. There are also various rites and rituals that the couple may undertake to ensure a prosperous and harmonious married life.In conclusion, Chinese and Indian weddings, while sharingthe universal theme of love and union, are distinctly shaped by their respective cultures and traditions. From the attire and ceremony to the food and music, each culture brings its own unique flavors and symbols to this momentous occasion. As globalization continues to blur cultural boundaries, it is perhaps more important than ever to cherish and celebrate these differences, allowing each culture to shine in its own unique way.。
中西婚礼文化对比英文版
Between China and Western Countries
Wedding Culture
Differences
Wedding Color ♥ Wedding Dress ♥ Wedding Location ♥ Wedding ceremony ♥ Wedding Music
bows(heaven and earth, parents, bride)
拜天地（一拜天地，二拜父母，夫妻对拜）
The bridegroom lift the bridal veil新郎掀新娘的盖头
Drink the nuptial wine 喝交杯酒
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Minister addressed 主婚人致辞 New vow to marry rings 交换戒指
Candles ceremony
Flowers ceremony
点蜡烛仪式
鲜花仪式
Wedding chant 婚礼诵读
Sign engagement written 签写婚约
Declared married 宣告成婚
♥ Wedding Music
The difference between Chinese wedding music and Western wedding music.
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黑白礼服 Bride: white gown , white veil(头纱) Groom: black dress. （庄严）
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C: the entire wedding's main colors are red.(中国红;吉祥如意happy event festival;) W: bride‘s dress white; groom’s black (festivity 欢庆; riches and honor; sanctity)
Going to church to hold a matrimony rites. (sanctity)
Addressed to the new pastor（牧师）, new oath（誓言）, the exchange of rings, signing the marriage certificate（证明）.
Chapter4 . The Reasons of Differences
Social System (C: Ancient China's political system W: political civilization, Greece and Rome)
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东西方婚礼对比英语作文
东西方婚礼对比英语作文以下是一篇关于东西方婚礼对比的英语作文，采用了一些网上下载最多的范文的参考，但同时也添加了一些原创的内容，以确保高质量的仿写：Title: A Comparison of Eastern and Western Weddings。
Introduction:Weddings are significant cultural events that symbolize the union of two individuals in love. While the essence of marriage remains the same across cultures, the customs and traditions surrounding weddings vary greatly between Eastern and Western societies. In this essay, we will explore the similarities and differences between Eastern and Western weddings, highlighting the unique rituals and practices that make each ceremony special.Eastern Weddings:In Eastern cultures such as those in China, India, and Japan, weddings are often steeped in centuries-old traditions and rituals. One of the most notable differences is the emphasis on familial and communal involvement in the wedding preparations and ceremonies. In Chinese weddings, for example, the entire extended family plays a significant role in the planning process, from selecting auspicious dates to arranging elaborate banquet feasts.The wedding ceremony itself is a colorful affair, with symbolic rituals that vary depending on the region and cultural background. For instance, in Indian weddings, the bride and groom participate in intricate ceremonies such as the exchanging of garlands and the circling of the sacred fire. These rituals are deeply rooted in religious and cultural beliefs and are meant to signify the couple's commitment to each other and their families.Western Weddings:Western weddings, on the other hand, are often characterized by their romantic and individualistic nature.While there are some traditional elements that are common to most Western weddings, such as the exchange of vows and rings, there is also a great deal of room for personalization and creativity. Couples often choose unique venues, themes, and decorations that reflect their personalities and preferences.One of the most iconic features of Western weddings is the white wedding dress worn by the bride. This tradition dates back to Victorian times and symbolizes purity and innocence. In addition to the bride's attire, Western weddings also typically feature elaborate floral arrangements, live music or DJs, and a formal sit-down dinner or buffet reception.Comparison:Despite these differences, there are also some striking similarities between Eastern and Western weddings. For example, both traditions place a strong emphasis on the exchange of vows and the declaration of commitment between the couple. Additionally, weddings in both cultures areoften accompanied by festive celebrations involving family and friends, with food, music, and dancing being central elements of the festivities.However, there are also some key differences in the underlying symbolism and cultural significance of certain wedding customs. For instance, while Western weddings tend to focus more on the individualistic expression of love between the couple, Eastern weddings often emphasize the importance of family harmony and societal obligations. In Chinese weddings, for example, the concept of "filial piety" is central, and the couple is expected to honor and respect their parents throughout the marriage.Conclusion:In conclusion, while Eastern and Western weddings may differ in their customs and traditions, they both serve as important cultural rituals that mark the beginning of a new chapter in the lives of the couple. Whether it's thevibrant colors and intricate rituals of an Eastern wedding or the romantic ambiance and personal touches of a Westernwedding, each ceremony is a beautiful celebration of love, commitment, and unity. Ultimately, no matter where in the world they take place, weddings remind us of the universal desire for connection and partnership that transcends cultural boundaries.。
东西方婚礼对比英语作文
When it comes to weddings, the world is a vast tapestry of diverse traditions and customs. The East and the West, though separated by oceans and continents, both hold the celebration of marriage in high regard, yet the ways in which they do so are as different as the cultures themselves. Having attended both Eastern and Western weddings, I can attest to the unique charm and significance each has to offer.In the East, particularly in countries like China and India, weddings are often grand affairs that can last for days. The ceremonies are steeped in tradition and are deeply symbolic. For instance, in a traditional Chinese wedding, the bride and groom are adorned in red, the color of prosperity and good fortune. The ceremony might include a tea ceremony where the couple serves tea to their elders as a sign of respect and gratitude. This act is not just a ritual but a profound expression of filial piety and the continuity of family lineage.Contrastingly, Western weddings, especially in countries like the United States and the United Kingdom, tend to be more intimate and focused on the couple. The bride typically walks down the aisle to meet her groom, surrounded by the gaze of loved ones. The ceremony is often held in a church or other sacred place, symbolizing the sanctity of the union. The exchange of vows and rings is a pivotal moment, signifying the couples commitment to one another.One of the most striking differences between Eastern and Western weddings is the role of the family. In Eastern cultures, the family plays a central role in the wedding process. From the initial matchmaking to thedowry and the wedding banquet, the familys involvement is integral. Its not uncommon for entire villages to come together to celebrate the union, making it a community event as much as a family one.On the other hand, Western weddings often emphasize the couples autonomy. While family is certainly important, the focus is on the love and commitment between the bride and groom. The wedding is a celebration of their decision to join lives, and the ceremony is a personal and intimate affair.Cultural symbolism also varies greatly. In Eastern weddings, rituals are laden with meaning. For example, in a Hindu wedding, the couple circles a sacred fire while reciting vows, symbolizing their commitment to walk together through lifes journey. In contrast, Western weddings often include readings, prayers, and hymns that reflect the couples spiritual beliefs and the sanctity of their union.The reception, too, is a point of divergence. Eastern receptions are typically large, festive gatherings with an abundance of food, music, and dance. Its a time for joyous celebration and communal feasting. In contrast, Western receptions are often more structured, with speeches, the first dance, and cutting of the cake as highlights of the event.Despite these differences, there is a common thread that runs through all weddings, East and West: the celebration of love and the coming together of two hearts. Whether its the exchange of vows under a floweradorned arch in a Western church or the intricate rituals of an Eastern ceremony,the essence of the occasion remains the same.In my experience, attending a wedding is not just about witnessing the union of two people its about immersing oneself in the rich tapestry of a cultures traditions. Each wedding Ive attended has been a lesson in the diversity of human expression of love and commitment. Its a reminder that, despite our differences, we all share the universal desire to celebrate love and form lasting bonds.In conclusion, while Eastern and Western weddings differ in many ways, they are both beautiful expressions of the joyous occasion of marriage. Each has its own unique charm and significance, and to experience both is to appreciate the richness of our global community. As we continue to share and learn from one anothers customs, we enrich not only our understanding of different cultures but also our own lives.。
中国和美国婚礼的相同处和不同处英文作文
中国和美国婚礼的相同处和不同处英文作文When comparing Chinese and American weddings, there are both similarities and differences in the customs and traditions. Let's take a closer look at the similarities and differences between the two.Similarities:1. Celebration of love and commitment: Both Chinese and American weddings are a celebration of the love and commitment between two individuals. They mark the beginning of a new chapter in the couple's life and are a time for family and friends to come together in support of their union.2. Wedding attire: In both cultures, the bride typically wears a white wedding dress, symbolizing purity and innocence. The groom usually wears a suit, although the style and color may vary between the two cultures.3. Exchange of vows and rings: Both Chinese and American weddings involve the exchange of vows and rings between the bride and groom. This symbolizes their commitment to eachother and their promise to love and cherish one another for the rest of their lives.4. Wedding banquet: In both cultures, it is customary to have a wedding banquet or reception after the ceremony. This is a time for guests to enjoy a meal together and celebrate the newlyweds.Differences:1. Traditional customs and rituals: Chinese weddings are often steeped in traditional customs and rituals that have been passed down through generations. These may include the tea ceremony, where the couple serves tea to their parents as a sign of respect and gratitude. American weddings, on the other hand, may incorporate customs such as the exchange of vows and the throwing of the bouquet.2. Guest list and size: Chinese weddings tend to have a larger guest list compared to American weddings. It is not uncommon for Chinese weddings to have hundreds of guests in attendance, while American weddings are often more intimate affairs with a smaller number of guests.3. Wedding venue: In China, it is common for weddings to take place in banquet halls or restaurants, where the focus is on the wedding banquet. In the United States, weddings may take place in a variety of venues, including churches, gardens, beaches, or even destination weddings in exotic locations.4. Wedding gifts: The tradition of giving wedding gifts differs between the two cultures. In China, it is customary for guests to give monetary gifts in red envelopes, symbolizing good luck and prosperity. In the United States, guests often give gifts from a wedding registry or choose to give cash or checks.中文：当我们比较中美两国的婚礼时，可以发现在习俗和传统上既有相似之处，也有不同之处。
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A Comparison of Differences in wedding culture between East and WesterncountriesThis article is to explore the different wedding customs between the East and the West. On the basis of analyzing the different wedding etiquettes, this paper is to find out the interior factors that lead to the causes and different historical backgrounds. There are four aspects: religious views, value orientation, behavior standards and thinking pattern. The most important one is the religious views. Because of the different society cultural backgrounds and historical evolutions, these differences have existed between these two areas. Along with development of the global tendency, these differences will become the prevention factors, so we should adopt measures to reduce: cultural blending, improve teaching method, change teacher ideas and so on .However, it has significant meanings to both the East and the West.Chinese Style WeddingRed is Customary for a Chinese Wedding; A Chinese wedding is a very special occasion filled with bright red color everywhere--tablecloths, favors, dresses, ribbons and more. That's because red represents happiness and prosperity. There are many Chinese customs, but many of today's Western-influenced brides prefer following more modern traditions such as wearing a white gown instead of a red one.The morning of the wedding day is filled with many activities. The homes are elaborately decorated in--you guessed it--red! The Groom and Ushers drive decorated cars to the Bride's home so they can escort the Bride to her new home. When the Groom and Ushers arrive, the Bridesmaids greet them and ask the Groom a series of sometimes-personal questions before being invited into the Bride's home. Sometimes the bridesmaids ask the Groom to sing or dance. All of this is in good fun. Once in the house, the Bride and Groom formally serve tea to the Bride's relatives in return for gifts. The wedding party and the bride and groom then drive to the Groom's home. The Bride and Groom formally serve tea to the Groom's parents in return for gifts.The traditional Chinese ceremony involves mostly close relatives and friends and is not a high-profile event. It includes worshipping the heavens, the earth and the groom's ancestors. The reception is the highlight of the Chinese wedding where the feast is considered highly symbolic. The Chinese Bride and Groom must be on their toes at all times throughout the reception. The wedding party plays many "tricks" on the couple--again just for fun!Additional Chinese traditions are practiced today. Some include composing The Three Letters and the Six Etiquette's, arranging for a good fortune person to comb the Bride and Groom's hair, and preparing red silk sheets on the bridal bed.African-American Theme WeddingInterest in African-American theme weddings has been growing in the last two to three years. It is inspired by a combination of the African heritage, the African-American culture, and a Western-style ceremony. What's unique about an African-American wedding? It is truly a celebration of the marriage and the couple's roots. Its symbolism can be expressed in different ways: in the selection of the music (such as a gospel choir), in colorful attire for the wedding party, in the display of the table decorations, and by providing an ethnic feast, including the cake decorations. The wedding party can wear tunic gowns, ethnic jewelry and head wraps with colorful patterns symbolizing the African heritage. The popular colors are red, yellow, orange and green. The newlyweds can even ask their guests to dress in colorful ethnic attire by adding a note in the wedding invitation. Entertainment for the guests can include African dancers at the reception while the guests are waiting for the arrival of the wedding party (who are busy taking photographs) or right after dinner.A popular African-American tradition is known as "jumping the broom" signifying that after the couple exchanges their wedding vows, they jump over, or step into their new life together, and it usually takes place at the end of the ceremony. There are many creative ways tocelebrate this tradition. The guests can sign the broom with well wishes before entering the chapel. Or, a basket containing colorful ribbons can be placed at the door of the chapel and the guests can tie a ribbon on the broom as a personal contribution to its decoration. Arrange to have the decorated broom delivered to the altar by one or two special people at a specified time during the ceremony.An African-American theme wedding is very stimulating! The colors, music, food and history all mix into a unique celebration of both marriage and the African heritage.Western WeddingLadies and Gentlemen, get ready fur one heck of a wild west wedding! Behold the bride in her blue jean skirt and colorful shawl being escorted off the decorated horse. She joins her groom at the makeshift altar consisting of bales of hay and tins of wild flowers and straw. You can't miss the groom with his big cowboy hat, rattlesnake boots and suspenders (not to mention his silly grin).A Wild West theme wedding is guaranteed to be a kick in the pants. Invitations can look like they were delivered by pony express. A chuck wagon, fat cigars, sheriff badges, dried flowers and an old wishing well can help set the tone. The ceremony is usually quite short--but not lacking spiritually--and is surrounded by the beauty of the majestic mountains and the open prairie. After the ceremony, when shadows start to fade and coyote' howling is heard at a distance, a mighty fire is lit.Soon the guests gravitate towards the aroma of BBQ beef and pork ribs, corn-on-the-cob, baked beans and other fine fixing’s. The guests dine on picnic benches with checkered tablecloths while listening to the violin and banjo play. If the weather turns for the worse, a barn makes a nice alternative for the reception and dance. Once the champagne is flowing and the country band gets on stage, it's time to grab your partner and start some good old' fashioned square dancing, followed by bluegrass and folk music.A Wild West wedding can be as creative as seen on a Roy Rogers or John Wayne movie or the TV series Little House on the Prairie. Let your guests spit in the fire, clap their hands, and kick up some dirt. In no time they will be wondered what happened to the bride and groom. If they look yonder, they might catch the newlywed's silhouette on the hay wagon trotting down the winding road.By studying the differences between Chinese and Western wedding, I understand their characteristics: Western wedding is pure romantic, and China is happy wedding; Western wedding is feeling valued, and China values the ceremony. Though, have different customs, but no matter where the wedding was all full of blessings and laughter.。