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新编大学英语2第二册课文翻译

新编大学英语2第二册课文翻译

新编大学英语2第二册课文翻译Unit 1 善良之心,久久相依当时我没有意识到,是爸爸帮我保持平衡奥古斯塔斯 J 布洛克1 随着我渐渐长大,当别人看见我和爸爸在一起,我会觉得很尴尬。

他身材矮小,走起路来跛得很厉害。

我们一起走时,他要把手搭在我的肩上才能保持平衡,人们就会盯着我们看。

对这种不必要的注意我觉得非常难堪。

他也许曾注意到,或着觉得烦恼,但他从来没有流露出来。

2 要协调我们的步伐并不容易,他(的步子)一瘸一拐的,我(走起来)则缺乏耐心。

因此,我们走路的时候并不怎么说话。

但出发时,他总是说:“你定步伐,我会尽量跟上。

”3 我们通常在家和地铁之间来往,这是他上班的必由之路。

不论生病还是碰到恶劣的天气他都去上班,几乎没有旷过一天工。

即使别人无法上班,他也要去办公室。

对他来说这是一种自豪。

4 当地上有冰或雪的时候,即使有人帮忙他也无法走路。

这时,我或者我的姐妹就用孩子玩的雪撬拉着他,穿过纽约布鲁克林的街道,直到地铁的入口处。

一到那儿,他就能紧紧抓住扶手一直走下去, 地铁道里比较暖和,下面的楼梯不结冰。

曼哈顿的地铁站正好是他办公楼的地下室,因此除了从布鲁克林我们去接他的地方到回家为止,他都不用再出去。

5 一个成年男子要有多少勇气才能承受这种屈辱和压力,我现在想来惊讶不已。

他从没有痛苦或抱怨,他是怎么做到这一步的我感到不可思议。

6 他从不把自己当作同情的对象,也从不对更幸运的或更能干的人表示任何嫉妒。

他在别人身上所寻找的是一颗“善心”。

如果他找到了一颗善心,那么有这么颗心的人对他来说就是一位大好人了。

7 由于年龄的增长,我相信那是一种用来判断人的恰当的标准,尽管我还不能精确地知道什么是一颗“善心”。

但是,当我自己没有的时候,我是知道的。

8 尽管很多活动我爸爸不能参加,但他还是尽量用某种方式参与。

当本地的一支棒球队发现缺经理的时候,他使它维持下去。

他是一个很懂行的棒球迷,经常带我去埃贝茨球场看布鲁克林的道奇队打球。

新编大学英语2第三版U3课文翻译及课后练习答案.doc

新编大学英语2第三版U3课文翻译及课后练习答案.doc

After-Class Reading迟做总比不做好1他躺在草从中,躲在那儿,同时思索着。

2他研究了这个小女孩的习惯。

他知道下午三点左右她会从外祖父的房子里出来玩耍。

3他为此举痛恨自己。

4在他悲惨的一生中,他还从来没有考虑过任何像绑架这样冷酷无情的事情。

5然而此时此刻他却躺在草丛里,被树木遮掩着,房了里的人看不见他。

他正等待着一个天真无邪、红头发、两岁人的小女孩向他走近。

6这是一次漫长的等待;有时间进行思考。

7可能在哈伦德的一生中,一切都太过匆忙。

85岁的时候,他那当农民的山地人父亲就去世了。

9 14岁的时候,他就从格林伍徳屮学辍学,开始到处流浪。

10他做过农场的临时工,但他不喜欢那工作。

11他尝试做过公共汽车的售票员,但也不喜欢那工作。

12在16岁的时候,他谎报年龄参了军——可他也不喜欢当兵。

在一年的服役期满后,他前往阿拉巴马州,在那儿试着做铁匠,但没有成功。

13 (后来)他成了南方铁路公司的恢路机车司炉工。

他喜欢那工作,以为自己找到了真正的自我。

14在18岁的时候,他结了婚。

谁知道没几个月,就在他说自己又被解雇了的那一天,他妻子说她怀孕了。

15接着,有一天,当他外出找工作的时候,他年轻的妻子散尽他们所有的家产回娘家去了。

16接下来就是经济萧条时期。

17正如人们所说的那样,哈伦德失去得太多,赢不回来了。

18他确实努力了。

19 一度,当他在铁路上不断地打各种零工的时候,他尝试过通过函授学习法律。

20但他也半途而废了。

21他尝试过卖保险、卖轮胎。

22他尝试过开渡轮,经营加汕站,但都没有用。

23面对现实吧——哈伦徳是一个失败者。

24他现在正躲在列吉尼亚州罗阿诺克郊外的杂草从里,筹划一次绑架。

25就如我所说的,他已经观察过这个小女孩的习惯,知道她下午玩耍的时间。

26但是,这一天,小女孩却没有出来玩,所以他那失败之链依旧没有中断。

27在他后来的生活中,他成了科尔宾一家餐馆的主厨和刷瓶工。

一切都挺好,直到冇一天新的公路绕餐馆而过。

最新新视野大学英语第二版第二册课文翻译Unit-3-Section-B

最新新视野大学英语第二版第二册课文翻译Unit-3-Section-B

Unit 3Section BRich Meeting His Future Mother-in-lawAfter much thought, I came up with a brilliant plan for Rich to meet my mother and win her over. In fact, I arranged it so my mother would want to cook a meal especially for him.One day, my mother called me, to invite me to a birthday dinner for my father. My brother Vincent was bringing his girlfriend, Lisa Lum. I could bring a friend, too.I knew she would do this, because cooking was how my mother expressed her love, her pride, her power, her proof that she knew more than any one else. "Just be sure to tell her later that her cooking was the best you ever tasted," I told Rich. "Believe me."The eve of the dinner, I sat in the kitchen watching her cook, waiting for the right moment to tell her about our marriage plans, that we had decided to get married next July, about seven months away. She was cubing garlic and slicing cabbage into small pieces and chatting at the same time about Auntie Suyuan: "She can only cook looking at directions. My instructions are in my fingers.I know what secret ingredients to put in just by using my nose!" And she was slicing so quickly, seemingly not paying attention to her sharp chopping knife, that I was afraid the tips of her fingers would become one of the ingredients of the purple vegetable and pork dish.I was hoping she would say something first concerning Rich. I had seen her expression when she opened the door, her forced smile as she surveyed him from head to toe, checking her judgment of him against that already given to her by Auntie Suyuan. I tried to anticipate what criticisms she would have.Rich was not only not Chinese, he was also my junior, a few years younger than I was. And unfortunately, he looked much younger with his curly red hair, smooth pale skin, and the splash of orange freckles across his nose. He was a bit on the short side, compactly built. In his dark business suits, he looked nice but easily forgettable, like somebody's nephew at a funeral. This was why I didn't notice him the first year we worked together at the firm. But, my mother noticed everything."So what do you think of Rich?" I finally asked, holding my breath.She tossed the garlic in the hot oil which bubbled in a loud, angry sound. "So many spots on his face," she said.I could feel the goose bumps rise on my back. "They're freckles. Freckles are good luck, you know," I felt compelled to defend on his behalf, a bit too heatedly as I raised my voice above the noise of the kitchen."Oh?" she said innocently."Yes, the more spots the better. Everybody knows that."She considered this a moment and then smiled and spoke in a Chinese dialect: "Maybe this is true. When you were young, you got the chicken pox. So many spots, you had to stay home for ten days. So lucky, you thought."I couldn't save Rich in the kitchen. And I couldn't save him later at the dinner table either.He had brought a bottle of French wine, something he did not know my parents could notappreciate. My parents did not even own appropriate glasses for wine. And then he also made the mistake of drinking not one but two frosted glasses full, while everybody else had a half-inch "just for taste."But the worst happened when Rich criticized my mother's cooking, and he didn't even have a clue about what he had done. As is the Chinese cook's custom, my mother always made negative remarks about her own cooking. That night she chose to direct it toward her famous steamed pork and preserved vegetable dish, which she always served with special pride."Ai! This dish not salty enough, no flavor," she complained, after tasting a small bite. "It is too bad to eat."This was our family's cue to eat some and proclaim it the best she had ever made. But before we could be so diplomatic, Rich said, "You know, all it needs is a little soy sauce." And he proceeded to pour a riverful of the salty black stuff on the china plate, right before my mother's shocked eyes. And even though I was hopeful throughout the dinner that my mother would somehow see Rich's kindness, his sense of humor and charm, I knew he had failed miserably in her eyes.Rich obviously had had a different opinion on how the evening had gone. When we got home that night, after we put Shoshana to bed, he said modestly, "Well, I think we hit it off A-OK." Words: 792。

新编大学英语第二版第三册第3单元课文翻译

新编大学英语第二版第三册第3单元课文翻译

新编大学英语第二版第三册第三单元课文翻译编著:浙江大学出版社:外语教学与研究出版社挂钥匙的孩子——笃、笃,家里有人吗?在过去的几十年中,美国的生活费用一直在持续增长。

食品价格。

服装费用、房子开销和学费都越来越高。

母亲们纷纷放弃传统的全职家庭主妇的角色,这一部分是由于经济需要,一部分是想通过工作取得成就感。

她们越来越多地从事家庭以外的有薪水的工作。

如此重大的角色转换影响着整个家庭,尤其是孩子们。

某些后果是非常明显的。

例如,晚饭时间推迟了。

而另一方面,这种转变对情感的影响就更微妙了。

母亲们早上带着愧疚感离开家,因为孩子放学回来时她们会不在家。

她们压抑着愧疚心理,因为她们相信她们的工作从长远来讲对大家有益。

她们的收入将能够使家庭存下钱来供孩子上大学。

度一次长假、买辆新车,等等。

孩子们在情感上所受到的影响是很大的。

通常,孩子会感到受伤和愤怒。

毕竟,他们一个人呆几个小时,他们感到他们的母亲应该“在那儿”等着他们。

他们可能需要有人帮他们完成作业,或者想把一天的活动说给母亲听。

然而,母亲们通常筋疲力尽地回到家,又要面临一个紧迫的任务——准备晚饭。

她们的首要任务是给全家人做晚饭,而不是轻松的聊天。

挂钥匙的孩子年龄从六岁到十三岁不等。

每天,他们放学回家,用挂在脖子上的钥匙打开门,独自一人,孤孤单单地呆在安静而空荡荡的屋子里。

对某些孩子来说,这段个人时间是很有所作为的,而对于另外一些孩子,却是令人害怕的孤单的空虚。

由于安全原因,很多父母不允许孩子出去玩,或带客人到家里来。

因此,孩子们感到一种被隔离的感觉。

被采访的挂钥匙的孩子们反应不同。

一些孩子说,每天自己呆上几个小时培养或激发了他们的独立意识和责任心。

他们感到被爱、被信任,并且这一感觉鼓励他们自信。

挂钥匙的女孩子通过观察母亲如何持家和工作,学习了职业母亲的行为榜样。

一些孩子称他们利用这段不受监督的自由时间来提高他们的运动技能,如打篮球。

还有一些孩子读书或练习乐器。

新视野大学英语第二版第二册课文翻译Unit3-SectionB

新视野大学英语第二版第二册课文翻译Unit3-SectionB

Unit 3Secti‎o n BRich Meeti‎n g His Futur‎e Mothe‎r-in-lawAfter‎much thoug‎h t, I came up with a brill‎i ant plan for Rich to meet my mothe‎r and win her over. In fact, I arran‎g ed it so my mothe‎r would‎want to cook a meal espec‎i ally‎for him.One day, my mothe‎r calle‎d me, to invit‎e me to a birth‎d ay dinne‎r for my fathe‎r. My broth‎e r Vince‎n t was bring‎i ng his girlf‎r iend‎, Lisa Lum. I could‎bring‎a frien‎d, too.I knew she would‎do this, becau‎s e cooki‎n g was how my mothe‎r expre‎s sed her love, her pride‎, her power‎,her proof‎that she knew more than any one else. "Just be sure to tell her later‎that her cooki‎n g was the best you ever taste‎d," I told Rich. "Belie‎v e me."The eve of the dinne‎r, I sat in the kitch‎e n watch‎i ng her cook, waiti‎n g for the right‎momen‎t to tell her about‎our marri‎a ge plans‎, that we had decid‎e d to get marri‎e d next July, about‎seven‎month‎s away. She was cubin‎g garli‎c and slici‎n g cabba‎g e into small‎piece‎s and chatt‎i ng at the same time about‎Aunti‎e Suyua‎n: "She can only cook looki‎n g at direc‎t ions‎. My instr‎u ctio‎n s are in my finge‎r s.I know what secre‎t ingre‎d ient‎s to put in just by using‎my nose!" And she was slici‎n g so quick‎l y, seemi‎n gly not payin‎g atten‎t ion to her sharp‎chopp‎i ng knife‎, that I was afrai‎d the tips of her finge‎r s would‎becom‎e one of the ingre‎d ient‎s of the purpl‎e veget‎a ble and pork dish.I was hopin‎g she would‎say somet‎h ing first‎conce‎r ning‎Rich. I had seen her expre‎s sion‎when she opene‎d the door, her force‎d smile‎as she surve‎y ed him from head to toe, check‎i ng her judgm‎e nt of him again‎s t that alrea‎d y given‎to her by Aunti‎e Suyua‎n. I tried‎to antic‎i pate‎what criti‎c isms‎she would‎have.Rich was not only not Chine‎s e, he was also my junio‎r, a few years‎young‎e r than I was. And unfor‎t unat‎e ly, he looke‎d much young‎e r with his curly‎red hair, smoot‎h pale skin, and the splas‎h of orang‎e freck‎l es acros‎s his nose. He was a bit on the short‎side, compa‎c tly built‎.In his dark busin‎e ss suits‎,he looke‎d nice but easil‎y forge‎t tabl‎e, like someb‎o dy's nephe‎w at a funer‎a l. This was why I didn't notic‎e him the first‎year we worke‎d toget‎h er at the firm. But, my mothe‎r notic‎e d every‎t hing‎."So what do you think‎of Rich?" I final‎l y asked‎, holdi‎n g my breat‎h.She tosse‎d the garli‎c in the hot oil which‎bubbl‎e d in a loud, angry‎sound‎. "So many spots‎on his face," she said.I could‎feel the goose‎bumps‎rise on my back. "They're freck‎l es. Freck‎l es are good luck, you know," I felt compe‎l led to defen‎d on his behal‎f, a bit too heate‎d ly as I raise‎d my voice‎above‎the noise‎of the kitch‎e n."Oh?" she said innoc‎e ntly‎."Yes, the more spots‎the bette‎r. Every‎b ody knows‎that."She consi‎d ered‎this a momen‎t and then smile‎d and spoke‎in a Chine‎s e diale‎c t: "Maybe‎this is true. When you were young‎,you got the chick‎e n pox. So many spots‎,you had to stay home for ten days. So lucky‎, you thoug‎h t."I could‎n't save Rich in the kitch‎e n. And I could‎n't save him later‎at the dinne‎r table‎eithe‎r.He had broug‎h t a bottl‎e of Frenc‎h wine, somet‎h ing he did not know my paren‎t s could‎not appre‎c iate‎. My paren‎t s did not even own appro‎p riat‎e glass‎e s for wine. And then he also made themista‎k e of drink‎i ng not one but two frost‎e d glass‎e s full, while‎every‎b ody else had a half-inch "just for taste‎."But the worst‎happe‎n ed when Rich criti‎c ized‎my mothe‎r's cooki‎n g, and he didn't even have a clue about‎what he had done. As is the Chine‎s e cook's custo‎m, my mothe‎r alway‎s made negat‎i ve remar‎k s about‎her own cooki‎n g. That night‎she chose‎to direc‎t it towar‎d her famou‎s steam‎e d pork and prese‎r ved veget‎a ble dish, which‎she alway‎s serve‎d with speci‎a l pride‎."Ai! This dish not salty‎enoug‎h, no flavo‎r," she compl‎a ined‎, after‎tasti‎n g a small‎bite. "It is too bad to eat."This was our famil‎y's cue to eat some and procl‎a im it the best she had ever made. But befor‎e we could‎be so diplo‎m atic‎, Rich said, "Y ou know, all it needs‎is a littl‎e soy sauce‎." And he proce‎e ded to pour a river‎f ul of the salty‎black‎stuff‎on the china‎plate‎, right‎befor‎e my mothe‎r's shock‎e d eyes. And even thoug‎h I was hopef‎u l throu‎g hout‎the dinne‎r that my mothe‎r would‎someh‎o w see Rich's kindn‎e ss, his sense‎of humor‎and charm‎, I knew he had faile‎d miser‎a bly in her eyes.Rich obvio‎u sly had had a diffe‎r ent opini‎o n on how the eveni‎n g had gone. When we got home that night‎, after‎we put Shosh‎a na to bed, he said modes‎t ly, "Well, I think‎we hit it off A-OK."Words‎: 792。

新编大学英语2口语考试材料及翻译

新编大学英语2口语考试材料及翻译

2012-2013-1 英语2口语考试材料第一部分:课文朗读,5篇。

1. Food and Culture (Unit 6)2. Bridging Cultural Gaps Gracefully (Unit 7)3. Consumer Behavior of the Youth (Unit 9)4. Shopping (Unit 9)5. The Secrets of Good Health (Unit 10)第二部分:句子翻译,均选自课内学习单元的课后练习。

Unit 1 Love1.他走得慢是因为腿有毛病。

He walks slowly because of his bad leg.2.他尽管病得很重,但还是来参加会议了。

He came to the meeting despite his serious illness.3.他确保同样的错误今后不再发生。

He saw to it that the same mistake didn’t happen again.4.现在他们之间的了解多了一些,他们相处得就好些了。

Now tha t they’ve got to know each other a little better, they get along just fine.5. 此时我发现自己被五六个男孩子围住了。

Then I found myself surrounded by half a dozen boys.6.在这幸福的时刻,我向你致以最美好的祝愿。

I send you my best wishes on this happy occasion. Unit 2 Communication Problem7.昨天我去牙科医生那儿将我的一颗蛀牙拔掉了。

I went to the dentist yesterday to have a bad/decayed tooth pulled out.8.事物的发展从根本上讲是由内因决定的。

(完整word版)Unit3BorntoWin新编大学英语第二版第二册课文翻译

(完整word版)Unit3BorntoWin新编大学英语第二版第二册课文翻译

Unit 3 Born to WinBorn to WinYou cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself.— Galileo[1] Each human being is born as something unique , something that never existed before. Each person is born with what he needs to win at life. A normal person can see, hear, touch, taste, and think for himself. Each has his own unique potentials —his capabilities and limitations. Each can be an important, thinking, aware, and creatively productive person in his own right — a winner.[2] The words “winner” and “loser” have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who defeats the other person by dominating and making him lose. Instead a winner is one who responds genuinely by being trustworthy and responsive , both as an individual and as a member of a society. A loser is one who fails to respond genuinely.[3] Few people are winners or losers all the time. It's a matter of degree . However, once a person has the capacity to be a winner, his chances are greater for becoming even more so…[4] Achievement is not the most important thing for winners; genuineness is. The genuine person realizes his own uniqueness and appreciates the uniqueness of others.[5] A winner is not afraid to do his own thinking and to use his own knowledge. He can separate facts from opinion and doesn't pretend to have all the answers. He listens to others, evaluates what they say, but comes to his own conclusions.[6] A winner is flexible . He does not have to respond in known, rigid ways. He can change his plans when the situation calls for it. A winner has a love for life. He enjoys work, play, food, other people, and the world of nature. Without guilt he enjoys his own accomplishments. Without envy he enjoys the accomplishments of others.[7] A winner cares about the world and its people. He is not separated from the general problems of society. He tries to improve the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international difficulty, he does not see himself as helpless . He does what he can to make the world a better place.[8] Although people are born to win, they are also born totally dependent on their environment. Winners successfully make the change from dependence to independence . Losers do not. Somewhere along the line losers begin to avoid becoming independent . This usually begins in childhood. Poor nutrition , cruelty , unhappy relationships, disease, continuing disappointments, and inadequate physical care are among the manyexperiences that contribute to making people losers.[9] A loser is held back by his low capacity to appropriately express himself through a full range of possible behavior. He may be unaware of other choices for his life if the path he chooses goes nowhere. He is afraid to try new things. He repeats not only his own mistakes and often repeats those of his family and culture.[10] A loser has difficulty giving and receiving love. He does not enter into close, honest, direct relationships with others. Instead, he tries to manipulate them into living up to his expectations and channels his energies into living up to their expectations.生而成功任何事都不可能由别人来教你,只能在别人的帮助下靠自己去发现。

新编大学英语第三版视听说教程2答案(外研社)Unit 3

新编大学英语第三版视听说教程2答案(外研社)Unit 3

Unit 3 Born to WinPart 1Listening 11. 1)17 2)2001 3)three four 4) five 20045)two 6)2010 three2. 1) all over with 2) no matter what 3)gift 4)gift 5)opendisadvantage 6)go out forListening II1.ABCBA2.1) best-selling 2008 tackles secrets 2) came out ofnowhere 3) enormous amount 4) really good 5) greatpiece composedListening III1.TFTTFTFF2.I am quite aware of the dangers. I want to do it because I want todo it. Women must try to do things as men have tried. When they fail, their failure must be but a challenge to others.Listening IV1.1)constant 2) techniques 3) pursuing 4) accomplish 5) faced 6) positive 7) further 8) hamburger 9) We can complain about our problems, or we can do something about them.10) whenever you feel discouraged or distracted, reminders help youget back on track. 11) The more your mind stays focused on your goal, the faster you will get your results.Part 21.6,4,7,2,1,8,3,52.1)end 2)had no choices support 3)believe it out of touch pay 4)settle as dull colleagues 5)put off 6)meant a total failure 7) abandonedPart 31.Picking up a habit or abandoning one.2.From Morgan Spurlock,the great American philosopher.3.He has managed to take pictures,one day each,for 30 days.He biked to work for a month.And he ended up hiking up the highest mountain in Africa.He wrote a 50000-word novel.4.To support his argument that people have the potential to finish certain tasks,if determined,that might initially seem impossible given only 30 days.5.Small changes are more likely to stick.6.Just take a look at his expression when he mentioned theword”suger”.It will be a big challenge for him.If he gives up sugar or 30 days,he will eat more afterward.7.He asks a question:What are you waiting for?But I would say it is more of a suggestion than a question.He is trying to promote thisidea of making a challenge within 30 days and sell it to his audience.Part 4Listening Ι1.1,2,42.1)authority 2)hoping for a chance 3)changing our ideas ,closest relatives 4)most recent studiesListening Ⅱ1. 1)1782 2)1795 3)his late twenties2. 1,3,5,6,8,9,10Listening Ⅲ1. 4,6,72.A,A,D,C,DListening Ⅳ1)seventh 2)encourages 3)performed 4)amused 5)natural 6)musical 7)1960s 8)form 9)Despite 10)distinguished。

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Unit 3 Born to WinBorn to WinYou cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it within himself.— Galileo[1] Each human being is born as something unique , something that never existed before. Each person is born with what he needs to win at life. A normal person can see, hear, touch, taste, and think for himself. Each has his own unique potentials —his capabilities and limitations. Each can be an important, thinking, aware, and creatively productive person in his own right — a winner.[2] The words “winner” and “loser” have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who defeats the other person by dominating and making him lose. Instead a winner is one who responds genuinely by being trustworthy and responsive , both as an individual and as a member of a society. A loser is one who fails to respond genuinely.[3] Few people are winners or losers all the time. It's a matter of degree . However, once a person has the capacity to be a winner, his chances are greater for becoming even more so…[4] Achievement is not the most important thing for winners; genuineness is. The genuine person realizes his own uniqueness and appreciates the uniqueness of others.[5] A winner is not afraid to do his own thinking and to use his own knowledge. He can separate facts from opinion and doesn't pretend to have all the answers. He listens to others, evaluates what they say, but comes to his own conclusions.[6] A winner is flexible . He does not have to respond in known, rigid ways. He can change his plans when the situation calls for it. A winner has a love for life. He enjoys work, play, food, other people, and the world of nature. Without guilt he enjoys his own accomplishments. Without envy he enjoys the accomplishments of others.[7] A winner cares about the world and its people. He is not separated from the general problems of society. He tries to improve the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international difficulty, he does not see himself as helpless . He does what he can to make the world a better place.[8] Although people are born to win, they are also born totally dependent on their environment. Winners successfully make the change from dependence to independence . Losers do not. Somewhere along the line losers begin to avoid becoming independent . This usually begins in childhood. Poor nutrition , cruelty , unhappy relationships, disease, continuing disappointments, and inadequate physical care are among the manyexperiences that contribute to making people losers.[9] A loser is held back by his low capacity to appropriately express himself through a full range of possible behavior. He may be unaware of other choices for his life if the path he chooses goes nowhere. He is afraid to try new things. He repeats not only his own mistakes and often repeats those of his family and culture.[10] A loser has difficulty giving and receiving love. He does not enter into close, honest, direct relationships with others. Instead, he tries to manipulate them into living up to his expectations and channels his energies into living up to their expectations.生而成功任何事都不可能由别人来教你,只能在别人的帮助下靠自己去发现。

-----伽利略1每个人生来都是独特的,与众不同的。

每个人天生具有要在生活中赢得成功的能力。

每个正常人都能够听、读、触摸、品尝,并且思考自己的事情。

每个人都要自己特有的潜在性——能力和局限性。

每个人都能凭自己的本事成为举足轻重、会思考、明事理、创造性成果颇多的人——一个成功的人。

2“成功者”和“失败者”这两个词有多种意思。

当我们把一个人称作成功者时,我们所指的并不是那种通过优势控制他人、令其失败而获得成功的人。

而是一个作出真诚回应的人,无论是作为个体或是社会的成员他都值得信赖、行动迅速。

失败者是一个未能作出真诚回应的人。

3很少有人是绝对的成功者或失败者。

这(失败)只是一个程度问题。

然而,当一个人具备了成为成功者的能力时,(他)经常获得成功的可能性就会更大。

4对成功者来说成就不是最重要的;最重要的是真诚。

真诚的人知道自己的独特之处,也赞赏他人的这一特点。

5成功者是不怕独立思考并运用自己的知识的。

他能把客观事实与主观意见区分开来,而且不会装作能解决一切问题。

他倾诉他人、评价他们说的话,却能得出自己的结论。

6成功者能灵活变通。

他遇事不会采用已有的、刻板的方式行事。

他能根据形势的需要改变自己的计划。

成功者热爱生活。

他乐于工作、喜爱游玩、享受美食、欣赏他人和自然带来的乐趣。

他心安理得地从自己的成就中享受乐趣。

(他)也毫无妒忌地欣赏他人的成绩。

7成功者关心天下、关爱世人。

他关注社会上普遍存在的问题。

他努力提高生活质量。

即使面对国内和国际上的难题,他也不会认为自己是无能为力的。

他尽己所能,使世界变得更美好。

8即使人们生来注定会成功,但也是生来就要完全依赖于周围环境的。

成功者顺利地完成从依赖到独立的转变。

失败者则没有做到这一点。

在这一过程中的某个时候失败者开始回避独立。

这种情况通常始于童年时期。

营养不良、非人道待遇、不愉快的人际关系、疾病、长期的失望,以及身体护理不足等经历都会促使人们成为失败者。

9失败者不善于通过一系列可能采取的作为来恰当地展现自己,这阻碍了他获取成功。

如果他所选择的生活道路毫无前途的话,他可能不知道对自己的生活还可以有其他选择。

他不敢尝试新食物。

他不仅重复自身的错误而且常常重复自己家庭和文化群体的错误。

10一个失败者很难去爱别人,也很难得到别人的爱。

他不知道和家人建立亲密、真诚、直接的关系。

相反,他试图使别人按照他的期望生活,也努力使自己按他人的期望生活。

Better Late than Never[1] He was lying there in the grass, hiding and thinking.[2] He had studied the little girl's habits. He knew she would come outside her grandfather's house mid-afternoon to play.[3] He hated himself for this.[4] In his whole miserable life he'd never considered anything so callous as kidnapping.[5] Yet here he was, lying in the grass, hidden by trees from the house, waiting for an innocent , red-haired, two-year-old girl to come within reach.[6] It was a long wait; there was time to think.[7] Maybe all his life Harlan had been in too much of a hurry .[8] He was five when his Hoosier farmer father had died.[9] At fourteen he dropped out of Greenwood School and hit the road .[10] He tried odd jobs as a farmhand, hated it.[11] Tried being a bus conductor and hated that.12] At sixteen he lied about his age and joined the Army—and hated that, too. When his one-year enlistment was up he headed for Alabama [N], tried blacksmithing and failed.[13] He became a railroad locomotive fireman with the Southern Railroad. He liked that. Figured maybe he had found himself.[14] At eighteen he got married, and within months, wouldn't you know she announced she was pregnant the day he announced he'd been fired again?[15] Then, one day, while he was out job hunting , his young wife gave away all their possessions and went home to her parents.[16] Then came the depression .[17] Harlan couldn't win for losing, as they said.[18] He really tried.[19] Once, while working at a succession of railroad jobs, he tried studying law by correspondence .[20] But he dropped out of that, too.[21] He tried selling insurance , selling tires.[22] He tried running a ferryboat , running a filling station. No use.[23] Face it—Harlan was a loser.[24] And now here he was hiding in the weeds outside Roanoke , Virginia , planninga kidnapping .[25] As I say, he'd watched the little girl's habits, and knew about her afternoon playtime .[26] But, this one day, she did not come out to play, so his chain of failures remained unbroken .[27] Late in life he became chief cook and bottle washer at a restaurant in Corbin. And did all right until the new highway bypassed the restaurant.[28] And then his expected life span ran out .[29] He was not the first man nor would he be the last to arrive at the twilight of life with nothing to show for it.[30] The bluebird of happiness, or whatever, had always flown just out of reach.[31] He'd stayed honest—except for that one time when he had attempted kidnapping. In fairness to his name it must be noted that it was his own daughter he'd meant to kidnap from his runaway wife.[32] And they both returned to him, the next day, anyway.[33] But now the years had passed by and a lifetime was gone and he and they had nothing.[34] He had not really felt old until that day the postman brought his first Social Security check. That day, something within Harlan resented , resisted , and exploded.[35] The Government was feeling sorry for him.[36] It was time to give up and retire .[37] His restaurant customers in Corbin said they'd miss him, but his Government said sixty-five candles on the birthday cake is enough. They sent him a pension check and told him he was “old”.[38] He said, “Nuts.”[39] And he got so angry he took that $105 check and started a new business.[40] Today that business is still prospering . For over twenty years until his death hecarried on with remarkable success.[41] For the man who failed at everything but one thing... the man who might have been a law-breaking kidnapper had he not also failed at that ... the man who never got started until it was time to stop... was Harlan Sanders.[42] The new business he started with his first Social Security check was Kentucky Fried Chicken. Now you know the rest of the story.迟做总比不做好1 他躺在草丛中,躲在那儿,同时思索着。

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