梦想

梦想一个完美的生活而这个愿望将会成真！作者：happy owl studio人总是会被问到，等你长大了，你想成为什么样的人。

将要成为“医生”、“律师”或“电影明星”，都成为大家刻下的成功职业。

这种想法，总是跟教科书和大众媒体一样千篇一律。

当年轻的时候，你描述你的梦想生活吗？如果曾经有过成为医生，律师或电影明星，而你今天没有实现这个梦想，你不必感到惭愧。

这种传统的固定成功模块让你从一开始就把你套进这个成功模块中，其实，这不是你的错。

但是，这并不意味着你应该符合这种理想。

但是，如果父母或老师要你成为这样的人，怎么办呢？请问，你真的梦想这样的职业吗？你具有对生活和世界的独特的视角，你可能过上最好的生活，那么，有没有你心里最想做的事情？对你最想做的事情，其他人又是什么看法呢？所以，问自己：你梦想中的生活到底是什么？它是什么样的？机会会跟你个人最享受的生活元素结合起来；生活，是一种根据个人条件，持续的过程，是一种你能完全控制的过程；生活是一种存在形式，是一种成功需要的形式。

做你喜欢做的事，其它对你并不重要。

还是被难倒吗？慢慢想，尽力想.如果在你的余生日子里，你还有机会只做一件事，那会是什么？忘记你现在的工作。

不要把你现在的工作，财务状况或家庭考虑进去。

不管那会是什么.假如那是烹饪美食或亲手做房子，这就是你的梦想生活，那就是你本应该追求的东西.真的想就那份糟糕的工作而浪费你一辈子宝贵的时光？当你觉得你应该做点什么，而不是手头上做的事的时候，那么你为什么不做呢？没有理由可以阻碍你的成长，没有理由去坚持站不住脚的借口。

你知道做什么事情都是从基础开始！一个人为了一份自己讨厌的工作而不分日夜拼命，可以带回家数百万美元，这不叫成功.一个人做自己喜欢工作获得同样的收入，那才称得上成功. 追求你的梦想生活，你可以成为后者。

那么，是什么阻碍你成功？既然你知道你真正的目标是什么，你就应该朝自己的目标走，去实现这个目标.;既然你能更了解你的重点应该是什么，那么下一个应该是避免拖延行动。

最好的生活是一种积极的生活。

没有仙女教母可以帮你解决遇到的困难。

事实上，你就是仙女教母，而且你拥有世界上所有的力量，让你的愿望成真。

不管什么样的环境，如果你从一开始就为自己的行为负责的话，你一定会赢得真正的成功。

在生活中的快乐感和满足感往往等同于让你的梦想成真了，事实上，我们的梦想给了我们方向，希望和生活的最大的热情和更加努力，并对所做的一切都尽最大努力。

虽然可以从许多东西中获得快乐和满足，但是，为实现梦想而奋斗，也是令人相当快乐和满足的事情。

让你的梦想成真！如下10项可能能帮助你实现梦想：1．相信自己能到达梦想彼岸. 拥有自己真的可以达成梦想的自信是能够实现梦想的重要因素之一. 缺乏自信通常是你实现梦想的绊脚石.所以要学会克服的心理障碍。

2.计划为你努力实现梦想中提供了现在做什么和下一步要做什么的方向。

生活中的目标，无论是大是小，都需要制定一个计划. 如果你发现实现梦想的开始，感觉困难，那么，你必须仔细规划。

即使你不严格坚持你的计划，计划都可以在设置你努力步伐中帮助很多。

3.找出自己的长处和短处。

了解自己越多，在策划实现自己梦想的方式方法上就能更加具体可行. 不要让你的短处阻碍你的实现梦想之路，反之，应该把短处转化为长处，并充分利用这些长处.4.找到你的动机。

动机是一个让你的梦想成真的重要组成部分。

即使是简单的目标，如减肥，或月尾前完成所有的任务，缺乏动机，这些简单的目标似乎都很困难。

了解是什么给你产生动机？包括，在实现梦想之旅中，总是了解是什么给你产生动力。

5. 努力工作，享受生活。

是的，你必须努力工作，使您的梦想成真，但不要忘了享受生活的乐趣了。

分享你的天赋，做你喜欢做的事，与你所爱的人度过开心的时间。

6. 不断学习。

不要停止学习仅仅是因为你不在学校了。

提高自己的知识和技能。

从错误中学习，从别人的错误从学习。

这将帮助您作出明智的决策和可操作的计划。

7.对别人好.不要因为为了实现你的梦想而定位高，就利用他人.要善待他人，跟他们建立良好的人际关系，那么你就会从中受益良多.8.积极向上.不要消极地自吹自擂. 把精力集中在阳光生活的一面.保持积极向上不仅是一种能梦想成真的赢家态度，而且绝对是生活中的赢家态度.积极向上使你不会受到，在生活中，态度上，以及行动中，出现的焦虑、不必要的担忧和其他负面的想法的困扰.9. 给予和分享.学会与人分享.记住，能取得成功或最后得到你想要的梦，也有其他人跟你共同努力去实现这个梦想.所以要好好珍惜跟你一起努力的人.10. 心存感激. 不要与人比较有无；不要以一种消极的态度与人比较，相反，对他人帮助心存感激.Dream about a perfect life and this wish will come trueEverybody has been asked what they wanted to be when they grew up. And more often than not, they had responded with "doctor," or "lawyer," or "movie star." It would always be some stereotype of success. It would always be something that was prevalent in both school books and popular media. Did you describe your dream life the same way when you were young? Don't be ashamed if you have; it's not your fault this information has been drilled into you from the start.However, this doesn't mean that you should conform to s uch ideals. So what if that's what your parents or teachers wanted of you? Is that really what you want for yourself? You have your own unique perspective on life and the world you live in. The best life you could possibly live, then, is there something you conjured up in your own mind. What do other people have to do with it?So, ask yourself: what really is your dream life anyway? What does it look like? Chances are, it incorporates the elements of life you personally enjoy the most. It is a life that you maintain entirely on your own terms, one that you have complete control over. It is the kind of existence where your success depends on doing the things you love, and nothing else.Still stumped? Think long and hard. If you had the chance to do only one thing for the rest of your days, what would it be? Forget your current obligations. Don't take your job, finances, or family into consideration. Whatever that thing is, be it cooking haute cuisine or building houses by hand, that is your dream life. That is what you should be pursuing.Do you really want to waste away your precious time on Earth with your crappy job? When you feel that you should be doing something other than what you're doing now, then why don't you do it? There is no reason for you to stunt your growth as a person. There is no reason for you to stick to lame excuses. You know they're lame to begin with!A man who slaves away day and night for a job he hates but he takes home millions of dollars, It is not a success. A man who makes the same income with a career he loves is the true success. By pursuing your dream life, you can be the latter man.What's stopping you, then? Now that you know what your true goals are, you should go out there and fulfill them. Now that you have a better understanding of what your priorities should be, then the next step should be to avoid procrastination. The best life is an active life. There is no fairy god mother out there who can help you kick things off. In fact, you are your very own fairy godmother, and yo u have all the power in the world to make your wish come true. No matter the situation, you can only earn true success if you were responsible for your actions from the very beginning.Make your dreams come trueHappiness and fulfillment in life is often equated to making your dreams come true, and indeed, our dreams give us direction, hope, and enthusiasm to live life to the fullest and strive harder in everything we do. Although happiness and fulfillment can be gained from so many things, it is also grea t to really aim for the realization of your dreams.Here are 10 things that you might find useful in helping you work on your dreams.1. Believe that you can reach for your dream. Having the self-confidence that you can really reach for your dream is one important factor in being able to achieve it. Lack of self confidence is often a hindrance to whatever you want to achieve in life, so learn to overcome it.2. Plan. This gives you direction on what to do now, and what to do next in trying to attain your d reams.Goals in life, whether big or small, need a plan to be carried out, so if you find it hard to make the first start in making your dreams come true, then you have to plan it carefully. Even if you don't stick to your plan rigidly, it helps you a lot in setting the pace of your efforts.3. Identify your strengths and weaknesses. The more you know yourself, the more you can plan well on how you can make your dreams into reality. Do not let your weaknesses discourage you. Instead, turn them into strengths and use them.4. Find your motivation. Motivation is one important part of m aking your dreams come true. Even in simple goals like losing weight, or getting all your tasks done before the month ends seem to be very hard if you lack motivation. Know what motivates you and include that always in your journey towards your dream.5. Work hard but enjoy life. Yes, you have to work hard to make your dreams come true but don't forget to enjoy life's pleasures too. Share your talent, do what you love doing, and spend happy time with your loved ones6. Keep on learning. Don't stop learning just because you are not in school anymore. Enhance your knowledge and skills. Learn from your mistakes and from other's mistakes. This will help you make smart decisions and workable plans.7. Treat others well. Do not just step on everyone's toes just because you are aiming high in making your dreams come true. Treat other people well. Build good relationships, and you will attract good things coming in your way.8. Be positive. Stop the negative self-talks. Help your mind focus on the bright side of life. Being positive is not only a winning attitude in making your dreams come true, but a definitely a winning attitude in life. It also frees you from anxieties, unwanted worries and other negative thoughts that affect your life, your attitude and your actions.9. Give and share. Learn to share to others. Remember that being able to achieve success or finally getting the dream you want, there are also people who worked hard with you for you to achieve it, so be appreciative.10. Be thankful. Stop looking at what others have that you don't. Stop comparing yourself to others in a negative way. Instead, give thanks.。