Marrige Custom
南通婚事习俗（ThemarriagecustominNantong）
南通婚事习俗（The marriage custom in Nantong）Marriage customs in NantongNantong post hair grass life daughter, called the girl, goes: girl to take. The old is the girl in the early teens, parents too early for her daughter to her husband's family, active support media. Matchmaker is an indispensable part of marriage between old men and women. "No media is difficult to marry", at that time, people used the rules of thought. C. L# O (z% {3 x% r* s (a* ^# @ R* Z8 u? "Looking for her husband's family, the first daughter birthday to write on a piece about a were wide and two were long pink paper, pink paper folded into double reverse shaped posts so as "grass, another red g grass posts." The girl's birthday horoscope is written on the head, and the lunar calendar, the month, the day and the hour are both indispensable. Word count is limited to sixteen words, not more than the moment. Back around two for three thousand years, said: eight hundred days in spring and autumn; reclamation, good luck in everything. Then fold it in square shape and wrap it with a sheet of red paper outside. After the initial satisfaction felt in both parents, a woman asked the man to the media by the post hair grass. $t, S-, B5, Z6, R,, B, K, Q, H9, J8, F8, CEarly in the morning, the matchmaker took the grass post from the woman, no relatives and friends sitting along the way, not talking to others, straight to the man, already open the lobby room, waiting for the matchmaker to come. The matchmaker is not with the man of the house "approached", will the grass in front of the shrine under pressure for incense, neither sitprodigiously, don't eat not to drink, then hurried back. The purpose of this total of both the miscellaneous language taboo gossip next door neighbours, if without predestined relationship, afraid to make people laugh, and damage thegirl's reputation. The man received grass posts within three days, no evil quarrel at home, students in disaster, the cat jumping, dog howling inauspicious event, so please take the blind fortune teller, son birthday together with fortune, to see if there is any "red g", especially to men and women "turtle marriage", many children's life, the host family is very happy to this marriage determined. 1,}9, i:, J., S:, A9, Q, N7, Y$, m, A9, D,, Y, H6, @4, JThe country is engaged in red, this morning the man please matchmaker and a loved one, pick baskets Tam, prepared pigs legs, a pair of fish (carp), plus two of the gifts and candy with red dates. In the past, because of the daily value of coins, they were replaced by cotton yarn. After liberation, they used gifts and sent them to the woman's home. The woman took the ham, candy, carp, red dates only half, half as "offer", gifts or gifts on behalf of cotton yarn, according to different people, a half, all accept, also have "polite" people do not charge a penny, the words that say: do the pro on the heart.2 / D A+? Q (Q Y2 V% t# 5 @ - C; P after lunch, the matchmaker returns, some woman girl in the little sister accompanied, also to the home, the evening before returning to the name "pass", if his mother-in-law presented to Li Di, the girl will say "changed" call their parents, do not give the gift called Uncle aunt. If left to live in forever, called a child bride. Whether the left or the door girl, also began to contact with the young,is the fashionable words: began to fall in love. If you ever get married before you meet, marry first and then fall in love.# X "L, T3 D!F'K4 w/ T9' (O ~} (x to date is the date of the ceremony, both men and women is through engagement, love, mutual trust, reach the legal age of marriage, the matchmaker brokered match, you must be ready to let the young men and women get married. 8, m, n$, U0, O/, C - G2 \ I3 {TThe date of gift called the fire ceremony, water, wine; fire, wrapped in red paper money, red Yin Fire, hot charge. The date of the ritual has bargaining, generally brought by a woman, sometimes a huge number of man can not afford, there will be a marriage breakdown, there would have caused "bride" tragedy. U0: l% S1 M5 K, S$D0 j+ h*! V E |)As long as the woman accepts it, the woman knows the date the man chooses to marry. When the woman gets the date gift, she has to do the dowry. And the poor household daughter home in the ceremony to date in debt, not a dowry, so there is such a word, "only to speak about gifts, no stage truss to marry." A truss is a dowry. "X:}" k*, W8, K9, y. T3, M9, K7, U, l%, M:,...The wedding ceremony was grand and complicated, and there was no mistake. The wedding wedding feast called "commonly known as, right". No wedding bride wedding program, so called "real tour". : l: \: X, N%, Z2, M5, v&, y, F', R1, B4, m* ~!The day after dinner, the man at the matchmaker led by the groompick Hsinchu Luo Dan, and pick the truss married zhuangyou together, went straight to the woman, if the bride's family relatives and friends of Chinese is not scattered, no burglary that the "hit seats", had to wait outside the door until the end, Chinese food, can pick on the basket into the hall will bear, gifts, gifts, gifts, letters fish all put cabinet or cabinet on the holy shrine of st.. 0, O4, G3, C9, C, M2, V,, N, e%, Z3, K7, J2 ^The first letter of Li, Li letter that uncle groom check gifts opening letter, the letter is generally not open, if open, according to the amount of money inside uncle also increases. The ink is used to write the letter of the gengtie "money", the gengtie form, take a piece of red paper, lay on the table, the common format: dry made, Geng Moumou refers to women in the house, was born that year, according to the sixty flower cycle of lunar new year, a certain date construction. If over sixteen words, can be built if the word removed, many months or the date according to the spelling such as twenty written 20, and the rest of the grass with the top posts, but also note the woman's name, or press the front hall Natori word, or simply in a house. Write each word with Geng not halfway and a pen dipped in ink, the writer finished, please prepare early, after writing also keep silent will ink Dynasty pocket.# J! N4 F5 I! Q P (W+ U/ l/ I2 R] "in addition to do dowry clothing tailor, wooden desk, carpenter shared" pole letter ", according to the dowry and how many. The evening before the dinner on the table "for the" middle seat seal, to eat the fish, cook would designate a good hand climbing fish, take fish by climbing seal. There are fathers on the car carrying the bride "hold theletter", please close the head of the "hair seal" and so on dozens of. + J2 [A, I [(]) P,% X6, P (R. ^) lPick pick a lift Heng married, also called Taiheng. Heng married also called dowry, dowry, which is to accompany the bride married.So many men have to marry truss, to lift or carry, the number to double, "big brother", the matchmaker is not involved in lifting the two ends of hand pick, just take the woman home ready wrapped in red paper to a bamboo curtain, not yet married honing lift, you have to first hi Heng marry chant, clear crisp high tone, almost three miles long, can hear the words, is the language of praise: not marry honing first pick open sound, and rich guests, do not forget to eat the fruit tree, in praise of good reputation. In order to increase the festive atmosphere, to help the woman of Wei, Yang family name. Both men and women not only happy to marry hi truss chant, said hi will mute.G8 C/ - T% @, @ $K2 F "B1 k% g+ K E) to marry non owner personally honing out one or two pieces, placed in the early laid flowers on the curtain, and send everyone to move, just started, not loud joke, just in case" that ", make a joke. Lift rope, rope truss marry do not use, because the two homonym pockmarks and not stable, use the green basket cloth, not their own, also want to hire. When the buttons are ready, try the balance, just in case. Marry who carried Heng "to be the master of the order On your marks, marry, and chant:" Hey champion riding ahead, followed by." Usually the mouth again sweet groom, the day is not a challenge to marry honing thanks for walking and Xie contain village "died" implicate, unlucky. Marry halfway on nonHeng temple, the bridge can not stop, honing married team all the while a married hi go forward with great strength and vigour, honing chant: "Jiang Taigong sitting straight hook thrown on the Diaoyu Islands, carp to." No, hi, hang. A lift to the groom's family, the man's friends and relatives heard Heng married work songs from afar, eyes always lead to the front of the door, look for dowry. F4 B2 W z% M7 {#!] - D, I0: B]%To meet the old pro poor noble, regardless of family, married girls, were put by the car or car to marry the bride, never to walk. The driver and the day will be in range, car or car parked in order that the "stability of car". The bride is not put on airs, but in case the days after the altercation,daughter-in-law can confidently say "you are my home car (car) to meet me, not my own way", this custom has been so far along.Q / h |! @ @ 8]; (H; G: o& Y. To a chair, in accordance with the time to get on the car, the bride, bride's legs and feet sheathed on shoes, its meaning is not to be home to the groom's family with poor soil. After the bride on the car, the woman sent the hand burning candle lanterns and accompanying, called "relatives", members of both men and women must be even. According to the first pick-up location with the men agreed location, or head, or a fork in the road somewhere halfway, not out of bounds".O- / g. I: t% A3 m A7) '; q! P& l the man at the appointed time, generally more than the number of relatives sent the woman the same, holding a lantern, waiting for the other saw sedan lanterns light, just light a candle on. When a sedan, immediately set off firecrackers. Sometimes, the womandeliberately sent one more trip, and the man made a compromise. Sometimes, for this reason, the two sides always wanted to "care" for the bride and sent more. Until the next of kin to meet the bridegroom sedan,And in the OTC paper money called "pro, Xie", said the father will return for the bride, three generation door, nurturing the growth of the bride.9 _ "S0 R# Z, |, Q - A! K- C5 H $u+? No matter the bride cross brazier sedan chair or by rickshaw, must wear a lease by the man civilization Shamao, half with pretty face. At the moment, the bride is also very proud, non arm car helped her car not xiniang. The car is placed in front of the brazier burning brass nine little candle. The bride was holding prepared copper or copper, on the move "Golden Lotus", an instant stepped brazier, the copper coins scattered very serious or throw in the flame of the candle, and under the watchful eyes of the people in building up in front of friends and relatives, fall over each other, especially in people also see, optimistic the coins will put out the flame, it is said that who can throw out a few lights, is the symbol of a few children worry about the future, if only to hear huahuahua coins to crash copper basin, and not see the candle fire out, even if one cannot destroy it, it shows no children to Yu after the people in is unwilling to look at such events. So the bride did all she could to "put on the show". E2? 6, U,}4, K., P, 2, Y8, n-, F, q/, yThe bride can throw coins out in both Jizhan, Xiniang first I read the message: "many descendants, rich Fulu, on your auspicious day." Wang immediately greeted, pass like package,also smiled and added: "care Xinian blessing, care Xinian blessing!" Xiniang hand he sealed, with frequently: "congratulations to family, marriage, Froude Qitian, rich resources, fertility."U8 S6 d: K7 y) - {8 ~ {(_-; cross brazier end matters.W1 W'[(D9 f! X Y: x/ F |$% \%; O+ w warm stool bride groom's naturalization, wedding day, the bride and groom also like to father-in-law home as a guest. The man to do a bride and groom Bridesmaid by peers in stead of aunt uncles sister, sitting together, called "sitting the table", and as the chief of the bride.U x9 [5 v%). B2 c* C9 T6 |9 K $H! L's bride, to hide from the first civilization hat cover bag out seat sealing, pan fish seal, placed on the table, eating very gentle, not stop helping deskmate sister Quanjiu, the bride always refused, not wanton drunk. Half of the dishes, quietly leave.Q#, "f% V, K- B}*] (n (space E6 Y table top is not the chief groom, Wu heat that will heat the stool stool, sat the bride warm. The smile is the bride take eaten bowl heaped by the strong sister Tim rich fish dishes to eat all that the groom, the bride groom eat the leftovers bowl ", later will not abandon the bride. Of course it was just in the house of his father-in-law had not dare the drinking, eating and drinking, even drunk, there are also the groom drunk into the bedroom sleep events.#? 9 ~5 M0 P5 S8 - V- S1 (` @ L6 Y7 Z: C. B1 H eat and hi tea country, where people get married, have to eat and hi teacustoms. In fact, the system and happy tea is also very simple, as long as the brown sugar in boiling water, mixed with some lotus seeds, red dates on the list,The whole family and six family share Pro aunt, drink a cup of sweet and hi tea, after the United States and the United States also have life. "W9 U$U" "Q") Q5}1 Q (P2 C6 E/ C- X5 S6 OAccording to legend, a young man named earlier shiwushuang, girl looks like, from childhood sweetheart, like Ivy wrapped around the tree, closely linked, two people on the future of their children make a pair, are very satisfied. Who knows the marriage of two young men and women in the wrong provocation, he got two parents, Former friends become enemies with each other., I do not know what to do. When the governor passes, two parents tell their grievances, the punishment of the investigation then persuaded the bad guy, the afterlife and live looks like, for the class of two people, and with a smile: authentic crude, sweet wine, and two wedding festivities. Take the opportunity to help the bride and groom bridesmaid, the first male female, each sip, and called hi tea. Of course, joy and legend to it, the countryside of Nantong to eat and hi tea custom, has spread so far. But today's eating and hi tea is more simple, the bride is back, the afternoon by two thermos of sweet tea, take it back for the family relatives and friends together to eat. M8, b-, + H, p#, D, Z, I3, L8, w (M-, V), SSit with the bride and groom into the bridal chamber, lying on the bed pedal two Fangdeng, sit face to face, and then by a child and her husband is still alive to end reunion of the old woman, sweet tea, a slice of a soup, the first male female feeding twopeople mouth, of course the groom "eat coarse" eyes without blinking will swallow a small reunion, but the bride is not, just slowly reunion will swallow, not movable teeth to chew, chew a so-called "". Even feed three, called "a". 8 I: b- t: E6 P & L+ O% U0 W1 A'B ^/Slightly, the groom stood up and hands, remove the head of the bride like today's red hat civilization, cover towels. The old woman had prepared a red silk thread, a head with the mouth to bite, while twisted into a triangle, the bride face even pull three, the forehead hair pulled to the bride, called "face", said the bride from virgin into a daughter-in-law. 2 U8 Y0 X9 ~# G* J 3 H (P, P, D J!The bride would face new downtown can be closed after consummation, however a group of relatives and friends of the bridegroom peer, not willingly, building up the new play, called "new downtown". It is also said that a form of congratulations to the couple, the man did not stop. For allegedly can drive out demons, the blessing of peace measures, "a person is not afraid of trouble, so we must make the ghost", "ghost" is a trouble, no room in. 0, I4, J8, * S+, C, {2, q+, e/, s+, D3, AThe new downtown still exists, the method of change, forcing the bride and groom kiss in front of everyone, and eat apples hanging line and so on, but very happy, even home to their wives, they fall right, a mind. + Y0, O) v/, H0, b&, Z, 7, F, A5, I4 [[X, e#, X]Touch is not the bride and groom candies candies into the bridalchamber, the couple only please complete the old woman in bed for new homes when had put down the "ambush", the red dates, lotus seeds, candy, peanuts and so on in the four corners snuck a new bed, or embroidered Yuanyang pillow. Even with put finished, but the evening is not "the moment", not to be the next morning, the bride and groom after bed etc.,Once open the bridal chamber door, a few early waiting for the boys to herd behavior, themselves, "touch the candies fall over each other". If the time no children attend, adults are willing to put the children to "treasure", home to more boys touch more if children love candies, the flocks, means "children and grandchildren".9 B C0 V3) M4 W]0 f+ Q1! A! P0 m as the time goes by, touch the candies custom has been becoming weak, and some have even been eliminated, only to be replaced by hair hair candy candies. Send candy to expand the scope is very wide, in addition to his colleagues, almost every household residents groups can be sent to friends and relatives, needless to say, on the banquet table, gift book, anyway, candy cigarettes changed everywhere. $B7, C-, `3, y (R8, T:, J, 9, V7, ^8, Y1, m, U)Back to the three day of marriage, the bride is called "back to back home". There is an old rule in Nantong that the bride must be ahead of the groom. * l+ K#? "F9 T 3 Q% N B. (@3 [% @ ^"On the morning of the day, both husband and wife carried gifts, and the bride led the bridegroom to her home. The bride's family often while her daughter back when the wedding day, however,her daughter and son-in-law as guests in the home, you can take the chief. Afternoon, the couple must be in before the sun sank Xishan, quickly return to the groom's family, called "two red", the couple had been living back to January, called the "month vacancy". The end of the marriage.] [e, d-, z&, I, R., 5, _6, K, Q, j', f$, t, of course, the Nantong region, because of the different circumstances, there are some different customs of marriage, not a pen can be finished. Under the leadership of the party, especially since the reform and opening up thirty years ago, there are many folk customs reform, some customs have disappeared. C (e/ K8 X O0! [6 Q # {"s A, T2 M9 y)。
中国婚俗文化
Chinese Marriage Customs中国婚俗文化中国幅员辽阔，历史悠久，曾经出现很多不同的婚俗。
在现代的中国．许多传统婚礼的习俗已经不再盛行了。
不过近几年传统婚礼习俗在中国很多地方再次兴起，并且越来越吸引人们的视线。
China has a long history with various marriage customs in the vast land.In modem China，various traditional wedding customs and ceremonies were out of date. However,in recent years they have become more and more popular and attractive.Wedding ceremonies have been considered an important life matter both home and abroad throughout human history．“Three Letters and Six Etiquettes”were the basic principles of traditional Chinese marriage customs in ancient times．Three Letters include a Betrothal Letter，a Gift Letter and a Wedding Letter.The Betrothal Letter is the formal document of the engagement,a must for marriage when the bridegroom presents the betrothal gifts(engagement).The Gift Letter is delivered to the bride's family and is a document necessary before the wedding，in which will be enclosed lists of the types and quantifies of gifts for the wedding. The Wedding Letter refers to the document, which will be prepared and presented to the bride's family on the day of the wedding,to confirm and commemorate the formal acceptance of the bride into the bridegroom’s family.The Six Etiquettes are namely: Proposing( A matchmaker discusses marriage with the potential bridegroom and bride), Birthday matching( the matchmaker will ask for the girl's birthday and birth—hour record to assure the compatibility of the potential bride and bridegroom)，presenting betrothal gifts (Once birthdays match，the bridegroom's family will then arrange the matchmaker to present the betrothal letter,to the bride's family)，the defining of an auspicious wedding day(the groom's family delivers appointment letter bride's side family) presenting wedding gifts(after the betrothal letter an betrothal gifts are accepted，the bridegroom's family will later formally send wedding gifts to the bride's family enclosing the Gift Letter)，picking a wedding date(an astrologist or astrology book will be consulted to select an auspicious date to hold the wedding ceremony)，and the wedding ceremony (The bridegroom departures with a troop of escorts and musicians to escort the bride)．The modern wedding ceremony generally refers to the activities which are held on the wedding day,but in ancient times “Three Letters and Six Etiquettes” included the marriage etiquette with a series of activities of matchmaking, engagement and the wedding ceremony．If the men and women did not follow the process，the marriage was then not acknowledged．In of these activities,wedding ceremony is the most over elaborate. It refers to the activity in which the bridegroom departures and escorts the bride to the bridegroom's home,the wedding ceremony begins．The historical books record the earliest traditional Chinese wedding ceremony：On the early morning of the wedding day,the bride puts on the new outfit in a pair of red shoes after a bath in grapefruit water,waiting for a lucky woman to comb her hair．The bride will put on Feng Guan(phoenix coronet) in red silk bridal veil and listen to a married woman who tells her how to be a good wife，while waiting for her future husband．The fun is that when the groom comes to the door of the bride's，the bridesmaids and her sisters try not to let him in!The purpose is to let the bridegroom experience difficulties to enter the door．Usually the groom can overcome the difficulties with his wisdom and courage and the help of hisfriends．Then，the groom sings for the bride and finally he can see the bride，but the groom must offer red packages with money to the bridesmaids and the sisters to be allowed to take his bride home．The bride is accompanied into the sedan by a lucky woman．The bride's sister support a red umbrella,while another sprinkles some rice in the sedan with a metal mirror hanging behind．which people think it can protect the bride from evil spirits．The bride must cry while departing,showing her unwillingness to leave her parents．People began to set off firecrackers to ward off evil spirits while the bride sitting into the sedan．And people will try to avoid unlucky things all the way：the curtain of the sedan was closely plastered in case the bride may see widows, well,cats which are considered as unlucky things．Firecrackers meet the bridegroom's team，the bride will walk a red cushion and pass a burning pan to yard off evil spirits before entering the groom's．The wedding ceremony is the climax of the whole process．The bride and groom are shown into the ancestral temple．They first worship the heaven and earth,the ancestors and parents and then themselves,finally they enter the bridal chamber．An emcee narrates the story,accompanied by the wedding guests with applause and cheers．Friends and guests are entertained at a big wedding banquet．The newlyweds drink the cross-cupped wine，drink to thank the guests and get their blessings．Three days back door practices．Traditionally the newlyweds return to visit the bride's parents in three days．The groom is teased by the bride's relatives and friends out of kindness，of course．As time goes on,the traditional ceremony based on “Three Letters and Six Etiquettes”is gradually simplified．But wedding ceremony is completely passed down．Of course some fashions are melted into the tradition．Sedan chair,for instance,is replaced by heavily flower—decorated car to greet the bride．Nowadays in modem China,traditional wedding ceremonies seem not so popular though still in fashion in the countryside．But people have become more and more interested in it and are paying much attention to traditional wedding ceremonies in recent times．段落译文在人类历史中婚礼仪式被世界公认为是一件重大事情。
风俗习惯差异英文PPT
Difference
In Western countries,people eat them with vegetable salad,they eat with drinking(water or juice),and they eat with separate plates.
3.The Greeting Customs:
In our China the bride and bridegroom would in red because we believe the red color reprsents lucky and the wedding would be host in the bridegroom’s house .
The Christmas Festival.
Most children important custom lives at the Another believe that Santa Claus of North Pole.All year he lists the names of Christmas is to have been bad.He decides children,both those who send and what presents to give to the good children.Each receive Christmas cards,which child hung a stocking,or sock,over the are meant to help express the fireplace.Santa entered down the chimney and left candy and presents inside the socks for the sentiment of the season. children.On the morning of Christmas day.Each child can't wait to open his or her eyes to see what Santa has left in the stocking.
American marriage 美国的婚姻习俗
• According to the statistic data of the America government ,in recent 20 years ,the divorce rate in the USA becomes lower and lower .And it has been the lowest point since 1970 .But no one can say this means the American marriage situation has become better .There are three reasons for it :
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American Marriage
• American marriage customs and traditions • The current marriage situation in America
1.The American Marriage Type
• Wedding cakes are not just dessert to be served to guests during reception. The wedding cake is cut together by the couple during the wedding reception. Then the husband and wife exchange bites of the cake. This is the first act the couple does together as husband and wife.
• The wedding dress nowadays is usually believed to have to be white or ivory, as this symbolizes purity. This is a newer superstition because white was started to be worn as a wedding dress only during the Victorian age. And that time, white was worn as an announcement of affluence because white dresses then will only be worn once.
婚礼英语单词框架
婚礼英语单词框架1.wedding ceremony：婚礼仪式2.betrothal gifts：聘礼3.engagement ring：订婚戒指4.wedding vows：婚礼誓词5.wedding banquet：婚宴6.red envelopes：红包7.bridal chamber：洞房8.wedding night：新婚之夜9.conjugal visits：配偶探视10.wedding anniversary：结婚纪念日11.traditional wedding attire：传统婚礼服装12.Chinese wedding gowns：中式婚礼礼服13.bridal gown：婚纱14.groom’s attire：新郎服装15.wedding hair accessories：婚礼发饰16.wedding makeup：婚礼妆容17.wedding photographer：婚礼摄影师18.wedding cake：婚礼蛋糕19.wedding rings：结婚戒指20.traditional Chinese wedding etiquette：中国传统婚礼礼仪21.Chinese marriage customs：中国婚姻习俗22.betrothal gifts in Chinese culture：中国文化中的聘礼23.Chinese wedding banquets：中国婚宴24.Chinese bridal chamber：中式洞房25.Chinese wedding vows：中国婚礼誓词26.Chinese wedding anniversary celebrations：中国结婚纪念日的庆祝方式27.traditional Chinese wedding outfits：中国传统婚礼服装28.Chinese wedding hair accessories：中国婚礼发饰29.Chinese wedding makeup：中国婚礼妆容30.Chinese wedding photographer：中国婚礼摄影师。
浅析中西方传统婚礼文化的差异
Analysis on the Differences in Traditional Wedding Culture between China and Western CountriesApplicant:Supervisor:Faculty:May 10, 2011Contents摘要 .................................................................................................. i ii Abstract .. (iv)1. Introduction (1)2. The origin of the Chinese and western wedding (2)3. The differences between Chinese and western traditional wedding ceremony (3)3.1 The difference in wedding contractor (3)3.2 The difference in wedding location (4)3.3 The difference in wedding dress (4)3.4 The difference in wedding process (5)4. T o analyze the reasons which cause the differences between Chinese and Western wedding culture (8)4.1 Social system (8)4.2 Chinese and western values toward marriage (9)4.3Religion (10)4.4 Behavior criterion (10)5. The measures of reducing conflict in wedding culture between China and western countries, promoting culture exchange and integration (11)5.1 Studying western countries’ etiquette (11)5.2 Changing students’ way of thinking by changing teachers’ way of thinking (11)5.3Guiding students to contact with western culture materials diffusely (12)5.4 Blending of wedding culture (12)6. Conclusion (14)Bibliography (16)摘要婚姻是一种人们为了维持正常的社会生活、社会风俗和法律规化了的社会关系、社会行为。
江西德兴结婚风俗彩礼流程
江西德兴结婚风俗彩礼流程In the traditional De Xing wedding customs, the marriage custom of proposing marriage and discussing marriage is particularly important. 在传统的德兴婚俗中，求婚和商议婚姻的习俗尤为重要。
During this process, the man's family will appoint a matchmaker to propose marriage to the bride's family, and the matchmaker will discuss details such as the time, location, and customs of the wedding with the bride's family. 在这个过程中，男方家庭会指定一位媒人向女方家庭提出求婚，而媒人将与女方家庭商议婚礼的时间、地点和风俗等细节。
For the bride's family, it is a way to show respect for the matchmaker and the groom's family, as well as a way to ensure that the bride's best interests are taken care of. 对于女方家庭来说，这是一种对媒人和新郎家庭表示尊敬的方式，也是一种确保新娘最大利益得到照顾的方式。
It is also a way for the two families to get to know each other and establish a good relationship before the wedding. 这也是在婚礼之前，两家人相互了解、建立良好关系的一种方式。
The Differences of Marriage Customs婚俗差异
Ⅴ. Innovation Point
• With a longitudinal thinking, introduces the traditional marriage customs in China and the West. Then lists differences from the surface forms to the deep connection.
The Differences of Marriage Customs Between China and the West
姓名：王小男 班级：英语119 导师：郭娟娟（讲师）
段 红（助教）
Ⅰ. The main Contents
• Almost every country has its custom in holding a wedding. Marriage customs reflect the traditional culture and civilization of a country, it also catches a glimpse of the social life style. This paper compares marriage customs between China and the West, then analyze people’s attitude towards marriage and its deep reasons. All of these can help people better understand the different cultures, further more, promote the communication between China and the West.
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perform the formal wedding ceremony
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• present betrothal gifts to the bride's family before marriage(过礼)
Wedding
decorate the bridal chamber(布置新房)
stride over the fire-pan（跨火盆）
Last for three days
• Roam all around the would(游 方)is a tradition of The Miao Nationality. • Boys:After dinner, welldressed,two-stringed Chinese fiddle,lusheng,folksong • Girls:Come out when hearing the music • local conditions,name,age,family background • Date,place
Wedding
• When comes the important day,the bride go to the groom's home with the two matchmakers and friends,also the betrothal gifts.However,things does not seem to be so simple.The matchemakers on the groom's behalf have well-prepared to raise difficulties to the bride. • Two or three days later,the groom will go back to her home accompanied by her uncle,this is called to visit bride's parents(回门)
Marriage Customs of Ethnic Minority
• The Miao Nationality
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Manchu
The Miao Nationality
• Roam all around the would(游方) • Engagement
• wedding
Roam all around the t the groom(相 看) • present betrothal gifts to the bride's family before marriage（过 礼） • Wedding
To visit the groom
• Boys come to the girls' home to have a general idea about girls' living codition.If they were satisfied,then boys' mother will give girls a gift and decide the date for wedding
Engagement
• Girls come to see the boys with their instruments of labour at the place where they have decided to meet each other and then boys take girls to see his parents. • The boys family will invite two matchmakers to go to the girl's home and give back the instruments of labour.Then the girl's family will also invite two matchmakers to talk about the betrothal gifts and date.