英文演讲稿——love

Love

Love is an immortal and everlasting topic for everybody. Today, I am going to share my experiences in love with all of you.

But first of all, can anyone tell me how do you find yourself fall in love with somebody? It is some kind of chemical reactions between you and he/she? Yes, correct.

What is love?

The ancien Greek philosophers have given us a clear picture on that. One day Plato asked his teacher Socrates what is love? The teacher asked him to go to the cornfield to pick the most golden ear, but he can only pick once a time and only move forward without turning back. Plato did as what his teacher said. As a result, he walked out of the cornfield with empty hands. Socrates asked Plato why he didn’t pick? He said: “becasue I could only pick once and cannot return, during the process, although I have seen the most golden and biggest one, I didn’t pick because I didn’t know whether there is better one in the front. When I move forwards, I found there is no better one so that I have lost the biggest and most golden one. That is the reason why I didn’t pick anything.

Socrates said “that is love!”This story told us that if you are trying to pursue love intentionally, it will be in vain. Maybe love happens to come, I guess.

Later on, I will expain my personal understanding on love. As a man who want to leave my descendants in the world, I have to find my lover. At first,as usual, I listed my criteria for my lover. They are appearance, job,education background and family. She must be a beaustiful girl with a decent job, talking in an elegant way and be the product of a hamonious family. To achieve this target, as a sensible man, I made a swot analysis. Swot is strength, weakness, oppotunites and threats. As for strength, I have a decent job, good education background, an apartment and a car. Sound great, isn’t it? But I am still not confident, because I still have my weaknesses. First, I have not so much experience with girls. Although sometimes I am humorous, I am not talktive. You know, to get along well with girls, communication skills are of vital importance. My appearance is on average, not attractive. In terms of opportunitis, since I am a hui nationality, I’d better find a girl as the same. Fortunately, hui girls are dominant in populaiton in Hohhot, therefore that means I have choices. Compared with other boys at the same age, I also have my advantages. About threats, I think for a single girl, she also has her judging criteria for her Mr. Right. There are also boys looking for their soul mates too.

Bearing all these concepts in my mind, I began my journey of pursuing my love. But although I am in a segment market, the real situations still disappointed my One girl I met thought I didn’t treat her as with as her former boyfriend. The reason why she dumped him is that although he treat her well, he could not get along well with her family. I held the same opinion just as her former boyfriend, I love you not your family. So we broke up. Another girl wanted me to buy her a Iphone 5 with an overdraft card although we have knew each other for only about 2 month. So we broke up. “I am not using I phone 5, how could I buy an Iphone 5 for you?” the voice from the bottom of my heart says that. At last, I met with her, she really takes care of others, in the cinema, she asks my to switch my mobile phone to vibrating mode in order not to disturb others. She speakes in an casual way with eye contact to me. Although she doesn’t meet my criteria for lover, I know she is the one I am looking for. After the 101st pursuit of love, I finally find my love, how about you?

Last but not the least, let me finish my speech with a piece of lyrics: “ I always remember the