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Love 101As a Filipino I myself have a different viewpoint on love and so do most of us. A Filipino’s love for a woman or a man is something far more complex than the other forms of love that we look up to in television in movies that view love in its highest form as sex, which is false. The Filipino’s love is more romantic and true in form because it evolves and is nurturing. My phenomenology deals more about the male Filipino psyche because female Filipinos are more difficult to understand for now.So what is love then? Love in its basic form is conscious care. Just like when a man loves his car, he will always think about what might happen to his vehicle and thinks positively of it. This is also the case when a Filipino man loves a woman. He thinks too much of the other which can cause him to forget that he himself exists too. This is not loyalty but indeed, it is stupidity. Loyalty in love therefore only exists when the couple se each almost all the time which greatly supports the statement “actions speak louder than words”. The women call this stupidity “sweet”. What is so sweet about that? You never get to get together with your friends, be in solitude yet unknowingly men like these too I really do not know why but the fact is that is what Filipino love is.The Course of TrueLoveTrue Love may seem impossible but can exist. The path to true love is a long and arduous one. What is long here is the realization part of a Filipino man if he really thinks that the one he loves is truly the one for him and would complement for his incompleteness. I will elaborate on the paths I have taken and might be the right one.Number 1, the contact, for men, this is the time when our necks really ache for an awful long time due to staring. Contact is extremely important in the process because without it interest never blooms. The contact I describe here is not contact by the eyes but by thoughts, no one can fall in love with just looking at the person if this is so it feels like falling in love with an object. Anyone who is able to get a girlfriend or boyfriend at this time is just puppy love. Filipinos express love differently at this time, they do what they feel and they do not say what they think about the other, definitely not straight to the point well at least its nice and unique. The initial contact can lead to more and more meetings, meetings of the mind. Usually during the first time, Filipino men try to hide their feelings topreserve the macho instinct. This is funny because the time will come when the one they love will move out and then the men regret their choice. Then when the next one comes along, they do the same mistake again. This only proves that both sides need to do something in order for them to be one. One side cannot exist without the other just as the message must come from one side and must deliver to the other. Rejection is such a big deal for the Filipino man and the best thing to counter this is to accept it.After acceptance of both sides, they announce their love to the world I do not see any reason why they should do this but it can serve as proof that they both love each other. This helps in creating true love because a couple who is not afraid of showing love in the world knows they have accepted each other and know each other as well. In a way they show selflessness in a form where in both are not shy to admit there love. So that this bond may persevere, they create a vow upon each other wherein they follow it so they may consider themselves loyal and faithful. The vow here can reach as long as a whole book but even so this does not mean anything at all for true faithfulness and loyalty lies in the fidelity of the person or the heart of the person. To this extent if a person does not respond to fidelity he only has auxiliary love. This makes the other person as a necessity to the other person that creates two “I need you” statements. The first “I need you.” wherein the “I” is the mind and is only one part of the body and does not supplement for true love. The second “I need you!” stresses the fact that the Self needs the other person to supplement what we know as something missing from our life’s basic equation. Still, this equation will always be unanswerable for a long time. To be able to grasp the situation the Filipino man will have to undergo the process of knowing his partner a little more. Frequent dating is the answer to this ongoing question. Day after day after day the couple will go out and decreases through time as more and more information pass through both minds and a fter all, we all know “Knowledge is Power”.In addition, love cannot be complete without its constant fights and LQ that can become QL. Fights do have their purpose in love. It is the methodology used to settle differences between the couple. It can also be a tool used for mass destruction. Fights do have a devastating effect on the body typically the brain or the psychological and neural functions that a person has but most importantly the heart. A fight can cause the break-up between two couples. Why do they break-up? The only thing present here would be the tangible vows that both have created. The cause would probably come from the Article 1, Section 1 of their vows that would mean the most important one of all the vows. Acceptance plays the big role in fights, if one cannot accept then he must leave because love without full acceptance is only love that goes one way, to the Self.After a few more years of this one begins to wonder and ask “What is this?” and “What am I doing?” this is the starting point of knowing one’s true intentions or doubt of the existence of true love.Nurturance and Love ExpectancyHow can one Filipino hold on long enough to be able to know the truth about love? He begins asking questions such as “How long does it really take to know? Is this really it? Am I at the peak?” These questions can help him know himself. One who does not know himself does not know to love at all and we all know that not knowing to love can mean spontaneity disappearing in an instant and infatuation sets in. Love is like a friendship; one has to keep spontaneous to his partner and does not keep any secrets to him or her that would keep hanging on to his fidelity. How can one keep spontaneous to his partner? This is never a problem to the Filipino male because he is a hopeless romantic that may evolve in to a better structure. He knows what to do in any situation because there will always be a “lusot” somewhere. Spontaneity and uniqueness are two factors that contribute to the ongoing relationship of a couple. If one side gets to be tired of the other, that side becomes bored and incomplete because a man who is not spontaneous is thinking and a man who is thinking cannot be at the same time loving. Interest arouses spontaneity within one person therefore how the other presents himself or herself would greatly affect the outcome of the others spontaneity. Love therefore is dynamic and versatile to be able to survive rough winds.What then is True Love?In the eyes of man, true love can never ever exist this is so because what protects our thoughts is our mind and no one can pierce and read our mind. This is bogus and will never ever be true. The eyes do not know what the heart can see and if the fact above is true about the mind, I am willing to risk it. I would rather commit a mistake and be human than turn and run away from the one I love just because I am not sure. In science, one can never ever be sure without experimenting first, repeating, and repeating the experiment repeatedly. This war against my ego I am willing to take. These are most words that a Filipino man can say to himself and proves the fact that love really is blind after all…As a Filipino I myself have a different viewpoint on love and so do most of us. A Filipino’s love for a woman or a man is something far more complex than the other forms of love that we look up to in television in movies that view love in its highest form as sex, which is false. The Filipino’s love is more romantic and true in form because it evolves and isnurturing. My phenomenology deals more about the male Filipino psyche because female Filipinos are more difficult to understand for now.So what is love then? Love in its basic form is conscious care. Just like when a man loves his car, he will always think about what might happen to his vehicle and thinks positively of it. This is also the case when a Filipino man loves a woman. He thinks too much of the other which can cause him to forget that he himself exists too. This is not loyalty but indeed, it is stupidity. Loyalty in love therefore only exists when the couple se each almost all the time which greatly supports the statement “actions speak louder than words”. The women call this stupidity “sweet”. What is so sweet about that? You never get to get together with your friends, be in solitude yet unknowingly men like these too I really do not know why but the fact is that is what Filipino love is.The Course of TrueLoveTrue Love may seem impossible but can exist. The path to true love is a long and arduous one. What is long here is the realization part of a Filipino man if he really thinks that the one he loves is truly the one for him and would complement for his incompleteness. I will elaborate on the paths I have taken and might be the right one.Number 1, the contact, for men, this is the time when our necks really ache for an awful long time due to staring. Contact is extremely important in the process because without it interest never blooms. The contact I describe here is not contact by the eyes but by thoughts, no one can fall in love with just looking at the person if this is so it feels like falling in love with an object. Anyone who is able to get a girlfriend or boyfriend at this time is just puppy love. Filipinos express love differently at this time, they do what they feel and they do not say what they think about the other, definitely not straight to the point well at least its nice and unique. The initial contact can lead to more and more meetings, meetings of the mind. Usually during the first time, Filipino men try to hide their feelings to preserve the macho instinct. This is funny because the time will come when the one they love will move out and then the men regret their choice. Then when the next one comes along, they do the same mistake again. This only proves that both sides need to do something in order for them to be one. One side cannot exist without the other just as the message must come from one side and must deliver to the other. Rejection is such a big deal for the Filipino man and the best thing to counter this is to accept it.After acceptance of both sides, they announce their love to the world I do not see any reason why they should do this but it can serve as proof that they both love each other. This helps in creating true love because a couple who is not afraid of showing love in the world knows they have accepted each other and know each other as well. In a way they show selflessness in a form where in both are not shy to admit there love. So that this bond may persevere, they create a vow upon each other wherein they follow it so they may consider themselves loyal and faithful. The vow here can reach as long as a whole book but even so this does not mean anything at all for true faithfulness and loyalty lies in the fidelity of the person or the heart of the person. To this extent if a person does not respond to fidelity he only has auxiliary love. This makes the other person as a necessity to the other person that creates two “I need you” statements. The first “I need you.” wherein the “I” is the mind and is only one part of the body and does not supplement for true love. The second “I need you!” stresses the fact that the Self needs the other person to supplement what we know as something missing from our life’s basic equation. Still, this equation will always be unanswerable for a long time. To be able to grasp the situation the Filipino man will have to undergo the process of knowing his partner a little more. Frequent dating is the answer to this ongoing question. Day after day after day the couple will go out and decreases through time as more and more information pass through both minds and after all, we all know “Knowledge is Power”.In addition, love cannot be complete without its constant fights and LQ that can become QL. Fights do have their purpose in love. It is the methodology used to settle differences between the couple. It can also be a tool used for mass destruction. Fights do have a devastating effect on the body typically the brain or the psychological and neural functions that a person has but most importantly the heart. A fight can cause the break-up between two couples. Why do they break-up? The only thing present here would be the tangible vows that both have created. The cause would probably come from the Article 1, Section 1 of their vows that would mean the most important one of all the vows. Acceptance plays the big role in fights, if one cannot accept then he must leave because love without full acceptance is only love that goes one way, to the Self.After a few more years of this one begins to wonder and ask “What is this?” and “What am I doing?” this is the starting point of knowing one’s true intentions or doubt of the existence of true love.Nurturance and Love ExpectancyHow can one Filipino hold on long enough to be able to know the truth about love? He begins asking questions such as “How long does it really take to know? Is this really it? Am I at the peak?” These questions can help him know himself. One who does not know himself does not know to love at all and we all know that not knowing to love can mean spontaneity disappearing in an instant and infatuation sets in. Love is like a friendship; one has to keep spontaneous to his partner and does not keep any secrets to him or her that would keep hanging on to his fidelity. How can one keep spontaneous to his partner? This is never a problem to the Filipino male because he is a hopeless romantic that may evolve in to a better structure. He knows what to do in any situation because there will always be a “lusot” somewhere. Spontaneity and uniqueness are two factors that contribute to the ongoing relationship of a couple. If one side gets to be tired of the other, that side becomes bored and incomplete because a man who is not spontaneous is thinking and a man who is thinking cannot be at the same time loving. Interest arouses spontaneity within one person therefore how the other presents himself or herself would greatly affect the outcome of the others spontaneity. Love therefore is dynamic and versatile to be able to survive rough winds.What then is True Love?In the eyes of man, true love can never ever exist this is so because what protects our thoughts is our mind and no one can pierce and read our mind. This is bogus and will never ever be true. The eyes do not know what the heart can see and if the fact above is true about the mind, I am willing to risk it. I would rather commit a mistake and be human than turn and run away from the one I love just because I am not sure. In science, one can never ever be sure without experimenting first, repeating, and repeating the experiment repeatedly. This war against my ego I am willing to take. These are most words that a Filipino man can say to himself and proves the fa ct that love really is blind after all…。

23个关于love的英语短语,为了爱所以需要学会!

23个关于love的英语短语,为了爱所以需要学会!

23个关于love的英语短语,为了爱所以需要学会!1. fall in love with someone 坠⼊爱河例句:I think I’m falling in love with my best friend. What should I do?我好像喜欢上了⾃⼰的好朋友,怎么办?2. love at first sight ⼀见钟情例句:My wife and I met at a party. It was love at first sight.我和妻⼦在⼀次聚会上相识。

我们⼀见钟情。

3. be an item 确⽴恋爱关系例句:I didn’t know Lisa and Jim was an item. They didn’t even look at each other at dinner.我⼀点也没发现Lisa和Jim在⼀起了。

他们两吃饭时从不看彼此。

4. match made in heaven 天作之合例句:They’re a match made in heaven.他两简直是绝配。

5. be head over heels 死⼼塌地例句:They’re head over heels in love with each other.他们爱的死⼼塌地,神魂颠倒。

6. be lovey-dovey 卿卿我我例句:I don’t want to go out with Lisa and Jim. They’re so lovey-dovey, I just can’t stand it.我不想跟Lisa和Jim⼀起出去。

他们总是卿卿我我,真让⼈受不了。

7. have the hots for someone 为某⼈所倾倒例句:Jim has the hots for the new apprentice. I wouldn’t be surprised if she asked him out. Jim总是为新学徒所吸引。

弗洛伊德的爱情观

弗洛伊德的爱情观

弗洛伊德的爱情观Freud's View on LoveSigmund Freud is widely recognized as one of the world’s greatest psychoanalysts and the father of psychoanalysis. His theories on the psychology of love provide us with a unique perspective on our emotional lives. Freud believed that love was a form of wanting and striving for an unattainable ideal. He described this phenomenon as the “love urge” or libido, which he said was a deep-seated psychological desire or need that gives us the energy to live and to love.Freud viewed love as a psychological struggle between two human personalities. He argued that the unconscious forces of the individual’s personality could be in opposition to one another. Thus, relationships might be characterized by tensions, conflicts, and ambivalence. He further believed that this pattern of struggle is the result of an interplay between the two partners' conscious and unconscious.According to Freud, we learn to love and are driven by the need for our own emotional satisfaction. We often seek individuals with qualities that we don’t have, such as confidence and assertiveness, and the relationship itself becomes a process of self-discovery and growth. He believedthat love was based on a desire to gain something: to fill an emptiness that existed within the individual.The psychological basis of this attachment is known as identification. This occurs when we identify someone as being similar to ourselves and thus worthy of our love. Freud also believed that our interest in another person is a form of narcissism since we are looking to complete our own sense of self. Thus, according to Freud, love is a psychological process that is based on two people looking to find something in the other that will help to complete their own sense of self-worth. The theory of love that Freud proposed is not without its critics. Many have argued that it is too clinical and ignores the complex nature of human emotions. However, Freud’s unique view on love has been hugely influential and his work continues to inform us about the psychology of love and relationships today.。

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爱之我见My View on LoveAs we know that the education of love is very important for the development of teenagers. As far as I am concerned, love plays an important role in our daily life. Life is just like a beautiful boat and love is the wind. Without the help of the wind, the boat cannot go to the place where it wants to go.我们都知道爱的教育对青少年的发展是⾮常重要的。

我觉得爱在我们的⽇常⽣活中扮演着重要的⾓⾊。

⽣活就像是⼀艘美丽的船⽽爱就是风。

没有风的帮助,船是不可能去到它想去的地⽅。

In my family, both of my parents love me deeply. it is love that makes me happy and warm. In school, all students and teachers are friendly to me. They accompany me to the correct direction, which has a great influence on me. In all, I think where there is love, there is touch and happy.在我家,我的⽗母都深深地爱着我。

是爱让我感到快乐和温暖。

在学校,⽼师和同学们都对我很友好。

是他们陪我找到正确的⽅向,这些对我有很⼤的影响。

树立正确恋爱观英语作文

树立正确恋爱观英语作文

树立正确恋爱观英语作文It is an indisputable fact that college students love. In my opinion, contemporary college students have the following views on love: on the one hand, they should be serious about love and think that love is built on the basis of feelings. They are generally more mature psychologically.On the other hand, they have a certain sense of responsibility and better understand each other. Their attitude towards love is not serious Not sincere to love as fun, or to meet a variety of wishes, they basically have no sense of responsibility, there is no love of both sides and their above-mentioned incorrect love view of the reasons for the following: first, boring college students lack the motivation and goal of learning, so they turn to love, spend time looking for happiness; second, curious high school students due to learning Pressure, love concept has not been fully reflected, for a college student, the concept of love is due to a high degree of freedom of learning and performance. Finally, for a person, the campus life is monotonous, and even the dot line life becomes day after day.In addition, the interference from parents is greatly reduced. Therefore, it is not a bad thing for him to fall inlove with others for the sake of happiness and the spirit of seeking love. The key is to focus on the future.。

Views on love and marriage in “Pride and Prejudice”分析《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观

Views on love and marriage in “Pride and Prejudice”分析《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观

Views on love and marriage in ―Pride and Prejudice‖分析《傲慢与偏见》中的爱情观和婚姻观ContentsAbstract (1)Keywords (1)Introduction (3)1、Jane Austen and the Background of Pride and Prejudice (3)1.1 Jane Austen (3)1.2The Background of Pride and Prejudice (4)2、Four Marriages and Ideals on Love and Marriage Shown in Pride andPrejudice (5)2.1Four Marriages in Pride and Prejudice (5)2.1.1 Collins and Charlotte’s Marriage (5)2.1.2 Lydia and Wickham’s Marr iage (7)2.1.3 Jane and Mr. Bingley’s Marriage (7)2.1.4 Darcy and Elizabeth’s Marriage (8)3. Austen’s Concept about Love and Marriage (12)4、Conclusion (14)References (16)Acknowledgements (19)Abstract"Pride and Prejudice" is Austen's masterpiece which described four different marriages and love .Until today, this novel is still very popular among many readers and arouses people's observation and unlimited thinking of marriage .This paper aims to probe into the views on love an d marriage in ―Pride and Prejudice‖. That is: love and marriage are associated with, but not totally lie on the property and social status. The marriage which is based on the love, mutual understanding and mutual respect is a true happy marriage. Austen not only opposes marriage for money, but also is against the hasty marriage. She attaches great importance to ideal marriage and regards the feelings between men and women as the cornerstone of the ideal marriage.Keywords―Pride and Prejudice‖; viewpoint of love; viewpoint of marriage;摘要《傲慢与偏见》是奥斯汀的代表作,小说以讽刺为基调描写了四种不同形态的婚姻观和爱情观,时至今日,这部小说仍然吸引着众多读者,引发了人们对婚姻的观察和无限思考。

my view on love的作文

my view on love的作文

my view on love的作文英文版My View on LoveLove, a profound and intricate emotion, has fascinated humans throughout the ages. It manifests itself in various forms, from the tender affection between parents and children to the passionate attachment between romantic partners. In my opinion, love is not just a feeling; it is a powerful force that shapes our lives and the world around us.Firstly, love is the glue that binds families together. The love between parents and children is unconditional and selfless. It is this love that encourages parents to sacrifice their own needs for the welfare of their children. Similarly, children's love for their parents instills a sense of responsibility and gratitude, fostering a strong bond that lasts a lifetime.Moreover, romantic love is a beautiful yet complex phenomenon. It is the driving force behind many of life's joysand sorrows. When two individuals fall in love, they experience a sense of completeness and fulfillment that is hard to describe. This love can inspire them to achieve great things, to overcome obstacles, and to grow as individuals. However, it can also be fragile and painful when it ends.Love, beyond personal relationships, is also essential for society. It is the glue that binds communities and nations together. The love for others, regardless of race, religion, or background, is what drives us to help those in need, to work towards a more equitable and harmonious world.In conclusion, love is an essential part of human existence. It is what gives meaning to our lives, drives us to be better people, and creates a sense of connection with others. While love can be challenging and painful, it is also the most rewarding and fulfilling aspect of life. I believe that with love, we can overcome any obstacle and create a better world for ourselves and future generations.中文版我对爱的看法爱,这种深刻而复杂的情感,自古以来一直吸引着人类。

my view on love的作文

my view on love的作文

My View on LoveLove is a complex and profound emotion that has been explored and celebrated throughout history in various cultures and traditions. It is a force that binds people together, creates meaningful relationships, and brings joy and fulfillment to our lives. In my view, love is much more than a simple feeling; it is a powerful force that shapes our world and defines our existence.Firstly, love is about connection and understanding. It is the ability to see beyond the surface and appreciate the unique qualities of another person. Love requires us to be vulnerable and open, to share our thoughts, feelings, and dreams with another. Through this process, we create a deep bond that transcends physical attraction and becomes a source of mutual support and growth.Secondly, love is about acceptance and forgiveness. In a relationship, we are bound to encounter differences and conflicts. However, love teaches us to embrace these differences and seek common ground, rather than focusing on our differences. It also teaches us to forgive past hurts and move forward, creating a stronger and more resilient bond.Furthermore, love is about sacrifice and commitment. True love requires us to put the needs of our partner before our own, to make sacrifices for the sake of the relationship. It is a commitment to stand by each other through thick and thin, to support each other during tough times, and to celebrate each other's successes.Finally, love is about growth and transformation. Through loving another person, we learn more about ourselves, our strengths, and our weaknesses. We are challenged to become better versions of ourselves, to grow emotionally and spiritually. Love has the power to transform us into more compassionate, understanding, and loving individuals.In conclusion, my view on love is that it is a multifaceted and powerful emotion that brings meaning and fulfillment to our lives. It is about connection, understanding, acceptance, forgiveness, sacrifice, commitment, growth, and transformation. Love has the ability to shape our world and make it a more compassionate and understanding place. It is a force that we should cherish and nurture in our relationships, as it has the potential to bring us immeasurable joy and happiness.。

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Love is a feeling. It is your affection toward someone or a group of individuals. Love is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Love exists between parents and children, man and woman, students and teachers, lovers, relatives, classmates, roommates, workmates and even strangers. There is a kind of love that can tightly connected two strangers together and they are willing to give everything to each other. That is the soul mate’s love.
There are many types of love, such as fatuous love, infatuated love,empty love, romantic love, companionate love and consummate love. We all seek true love or perfect love, but what is perfect love or what does love mean? Love is not writing a love letter to her (him), putting the head on his shoulder, making a date by bike or kissing in the corner. Is love a fallacy? Maybe sometimes love is a fallacy. Love is a prison and love is free. Love is sweet and love is bitter. The reason why there exists contradiction of love is that we hold different attitude towards love which changes love into two opposite driving forces. On the one hand, love makes people crazy, and lets people lose freedom. Over-dependence becomes a bondage.In this case, love is meaningless and hurts people deeply. On the other hand, love is not a fallacy. It is a positive felling between lovers.Love can make a person who feels upset regain confidence, which can help them live, study or work well. Love can drive loneliness away, and maybe giving love to somebody can save a life when he or she feels hopeless. Love makes people become more motivated, and lets one become more outstanding.
I quite agree with Liang's views on love. We need to give a holiday to love instead of having a holiday for love. Love needs freedom and time is the best preservative of love. True love must survive the test of time and space. Temporary separation makes gathering become more precious. It is also a good time to get to know each other better. Being inseparable always makes lovers very tired. Only to be yourself can make your lover understand you better.
Love is the greatest refreshment in life. Love is not only sweet words and honeyed phrases, but is the long-term mutual support in good and bad times. Love is care, understanding, communication, support and sharing. Love means reason, commitment, loyalty, obligations and responsibilities. Don't intent on what can be gained from love. Y ou should think about what you can do for love. If you do so, you can truly enjoy your sweet love.
Should people distinguish love from marriage? My answer is no. I insist love and marriage are inseparable. That is the attitude towards love. If you seek love just for fun, you cannot get a true love. You should spend time cultivating your love.With the accumulation of time and the increase of understanding, true love will emerge, and then it is time to get married. We should take love seriously as well as marriage. Faced with marriage, we should keep a tolerant attitude. Life is full of ups and downs. Complaint will only make things worse.Mutual trust, mutual understanding, and mutual support will make a better marriage.。

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