Being the only child(独生子)

Being the only child

There are three people in my family, my father, my mother and I . I am the only child and,

of course, the treasure of the whole family.Being the only child gives me spacial experiences

different from those children who have siblings. These experiences which have greatly affected

me in my later character building can be seen as follows.

It has often been remarked that the only child is the spoiled child. I am not the exception.

When I was very young, I could get whatever I want, expensive toys, colorful skirts, even taking

the best drawing classes. Unlike other children who have siblings, I had nothing to worry about.

I need not to share my toys or parents's love with others. A happy and carefree childhood build

me a positive attitude to my later life.

Furthermore, being the only child gives me more opportunities to communicate with my parents.

I would like to tell them everything about me and every thought in my mind. As a result, I have a

good relationship with my parents. They trust me, which enables me do

what I can to develop my

abilities. We treat each other as best friends. Thus, my parents and I have no generation-gap

at all, let alone so called "agonies about puberty crisis "

Last but not least, however, being the only child also cast a shadow on my character. parents'

love made me arrogant and ungovernable, more easy to lose temper and shout to others. Maybe that

is the reason why I have no skills in making friends. What's worse, having no siblings disables

me to care for others and communicate with other contemporaries. I would often feel lonely and

being isolated.

In brief, being the only child is a special gift for me. No matter what effects it has on me.

I enjoy this feeling of being the only child.