新世纪大学英语系列教材综合教程3第二单元讲义
新世纪大学英语系列教材综合教程3第二单元讲义
新世纪大学英语系列教材综合教程3第二单元讲义Unit 2 Book 3LoveI. Difficult Sentences1. Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be appreciated that we even findthe time to indulge in matters of the heart.(1) What does “matters of the heart” mean?(=something spiritual and emotional like love.)(2) Paraphrase this sentence.(=Taking into account that we are all busy satisfying our material needs, we should feel grateful that we still have the time to enjoy the feeling of\ loving and being loved.)2. Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles.(1) What are puppy loves?(=Puppy loves happen to people too young to understand true love.) (2) What are the same characteristics that puppy loves and soap bubblesshare according to the sentence?(=They are both short in existence and won’t produce too much influence on people nor will they do harm to people.)3. …nothing could be more serious an affair for me.(1) What does this sentence imply?(= To me, a love affair was the most serious thing.)(2) Analyze this sentence grammatically.(=The structure “nothing can be more (+adj.) than sth.” means sth. is the most (=adj.). When the comparative degree is used in a negative sentence, most often it means the superlative degree.More examples:*Nobody can do the job better than he can.*It can’t be worse.)4. Those three hours of unhesitant attention by a group of well-groomed younggentlemen provided with enough content to talk and feel excited aboutfor the next four weeks.(1) What usually would happen at the social?(=Those neatly dressed boys would never hesitate to pay attention to the girls or to attract the girls’ attention.)(2) What usually would happen to the girls after the social?(=They always felt excited and would keep on talking about thesocial experience for weeks.)5. And it has to be distinguished from the intense but short-lived love or thepleasures of the flesh.(1) What’s the difference between true love and the intense but short-livedlove or the pleasures of the flesh?(=True love develops slowly but lasts long, and it needs more sharing,caring and mutual understanding than the intense but short-lived love or the pleasures of the flesh.)(2) Translate this sentence into Chinese.(=我们必须把爱情同强烈而短暂的激情或身体的愉悦区别开来。
新世纪大学英语教材综合教程第3本unit2笔记及答案
新世纪大学英语教材综合教程第3本unit2笔记及答案Unit 2 LoveI. Key Words and Useful Expressions (Text A)1 hold on (L. 5)1) survive in a difficult or dangerous situation; hang on 历经危难而不死；坚持住他们设法坚持住直到有救援到来。
They managed to hold on until help arrived.我觉得自己坚持不了多长时间了。
I don’t think I can hold on much longer.2) (infml.)(usu. in imperative) wait and stop (通常用于祈使语句)等一下；停住停一停，让我喘口气。
Hold on a minute while I get my breath back..2. defy (L. 10) v.1) disobey or refuse to respect (sb., an authority, etc.) 违抗，反抗，藐视，蔑视（某人﹑权威等）他们违抗父母的意愿而结婚了。
They defied their parents and got married.任何蔑视法律的人都会受到惩罚Anyone who defies the law will be published.2) be so difficult as to make (sth.) impossible 因为太困难而使…不可能这门用什么方法也打不开。
The door defied all attempts to open it.此问题无法解决。
The problem defied solution.3. given (L.13)1) prep. taking (sth.) into account, considering 考虑到（某事物）鉴于政府在解决失业问题上成绩不佳，他们在选举中获胜机会似乎不大。
新世纪大学英语（第二版）综合教程3课后习题答案完整版unit2
Listen and RespondListen to a short passage entitled “An Invitation”.Task One Focusing on the Main IdeasChoose the best answer to each of the following questions according to the information contained in the listening passage.1) Where did the woman see the three old men?A) In front of her store. B) In her front yard.C) In her dream. D) In her doorway.2) Who were the three old men respectively?A) Success, Hope and Wealth. B) Faith, Hope, and Love.C) Wealth, Faith and Success. D) Love, Success and Wealth.3) Whom did the family invite in?A) Wealth. B) Love. C) Success. D) All of the above.4) How many of the old men would like to go into the house?A) One. B) Two. C) Three. D) Four.5) What is the main idea of the passage?A) Where there is love, there is wealth and success.B) One cannot live without wealth, love and success.C) Love is as important as wealth and success.D) Wealth and success are what people pursue most eagerly.Task Two Zooming In on the DetailsListen to the passage again and fill in each of the blanks according to what you have heard.hungry , so she invited 1. The women thought that the three old men must be them to come in and have something to eat together .2. The old men said that they did not go into a house 3. The husband wished to invite Wealth , but the woman did not agree and Success , while their daughter suggested: “ Wouldn’t it be wished to have S uccessbetter to invite Love ?”Love ? Please come in 4. The woman came out and asked: “Which one of you is guest .”and be our g uestsurprised the 5. The other two old men also got up and followed, which woman.Wealth or Success , the 6. One old man told the woman: “If you had invited other two of us would have stayed out .”.”Read and ExploreTask One Discovering the Main Ideas1 Answer the following questions with the information contained in Text A.1) Is “love” easy to define? Why or why not?No. It is because love is a feeling that can only be felt but cannot be clearly described.2) How does the author describe “puppy loves”?“Puppy loves” are brief, silly, adventurous but harmless.3) What does it take for love to develop into maturity?Love takes time to blossom and it takes a lot of understanding, caring, sharing and affection to develop into maturity.4) What helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’s parents’ generation?It was the distance between men and women that helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’s parents’ generation.e younger generation’s 5) What negative roles do the media play in forming thview of love?The media have exposed the younger generation to things that have fast paced their sensibilities so much that taking things slow requires effort.6) What do young people today tend to value in relationships? What does the author think they should value?They tend to value physical beauty, closeness, passion and acquiring. The author thinks that they should value inner charm, intimacy, emotion and sharing.2 Text A can be divided into four parts with the paragraph number(s) of each part provided as follows. Write down the main idea of each part.Part Paragraph(s) Main IdeaOne 1–2 Love is hard to define because it can only be felt but not described.Two 3–7 The author discusses love of different depths from her own experiences.Three 8–12 The two generations handle love and relationships differently. The younger generation tends to be more hasty and selfish in building relationships.Four 13–14 The author advises young people to learn the essence of love and find ways to develop relationships into lifelong bonds.Task Two Reading Between the LinesRead the following sentences carefully and discuss in pairs what the author intends to say by the italicised parts.preciated that we even find 1. Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be ap p reciatedthe time to indulge in matters of the heart. (Para. 3)Love is still indispensable to us, even though we are so busy pursuing material things for our everyday life. For this we should feel grateful.2. The long skirts, the quiet and unpretentious looks, the curled long hair, the calmness, the shy glance —these are all so frequently remindful of a bygone era. (Para. 8)These often remind us of those days when people of our parents’ generation were courting. It was an era of constraints, restraints, respect, admiration, and plenty of romance. But such an era is gone for ever, for young people today tend to behave differently.(Para.12)3. There is more of acquiring and less of sharing. The younger generation is more selfish: they care too much about what they can get instead of what they can share.4. There’s much more to being someone’s lover than gifting them red roses and fifty-cent cards. (Para. 13)People in a relationship need to do much more than just sending gifts to their lovers. More importantly, they should devote themselves, heart and soul, to each other.5. And we should not have become so tired by our frivolous acts that when it . (Para. 14)comes we aren’t able to receive it with open armsAfter repeatedly experiencing hasty, casual and insensible relationships, we have become emotionally tired and confused, so when true love comes, we are unable to respond to it with due enthusiasm, passion and devotion. Checking Your VocabularyWord Detective1 Put down the right word from Text B in the space provided according to the given definition. The first letter of each word is already given.Example:i cy: extremely cold; covered with ice1) e ngaged: having agreed to marry2) g rief: great sorrow or feelings of suffering3) m anipulate: work with skilful use of the hands4) a gonizing: causing great pain or anxiety5) m aximum: the largest number, amount, etc.6) f ascinate: attract and hold the interest or attention of7) c omplaint: a statement of dissatisfaction, unhappiness, pain, etc.8) g race: a fine and attractive quality in movement or form, esp. when this seems effortless and natural2 Fill in each blank with a word or phrase from Text B. Both the explanation and the number of the paragraph in which the targetword or phrase appears are given in brackets. Be sure to use theproper form.Example: To gain more profit, they reduced the costs of the building to the minimum .(the smallest amount: Para. 7)moist .1) “Lip Ice”, a relief for dry lips, is applied to keep lips (slightly wet: Para. 1)2) Only three people could fit into the lift; it’s really too small.(have sufficient space in: Para. 5)3) In the course of their investigation, they discovered various forms of political corruption (腐败).(during: Para. 6)overjoyed to hear that she had got the job.4) Helen was o verjoyed(extremely pleased: Para. 9)clip pictures of tourist spots from the magazine Travel Weekly.5) I often c lip(cut: Para. 10)6) Doctors tried i n in vain to save him; he passed away at dawn.(without a successful result: Para. 12)yield some of their farmland to the local 7) During the war, they were forced to farmers.(give up one’s control of: Para. 12)resemble each other in appearance but their personalities are 8) The twins r esemblequite different.(look like or be similar to sb. or sth.: Para. 13)Checking Your Comprehension1 Answer the following questions with the information contained in Text B.1) What happened to the writer’s husband?He was dying in bed of a serious disease.2) What did her husband’s hands look like?They were long and large. His fingers were long and square, laced with fine veins all the way to the tips. His nails squared off the ends of his fingers, with clearly defined white edges. He had always taken great care to keep them neat. They were not tough hands; nor soft, either.3) What could she feel when her husband clasped her hands during the last four years when he was confined to the hospital bed?She could feel pure and honest expressions of his love.4) How did he treat his children when they were young?He took very good care of them.5) In what special moments did her husband hold her hands in the hospital?Her husband held her hands in the most frightening moments of his illnesses and in the deepest, darkest moment of his life.6) What did she discover in her husband’s dresser months after he died?She discovered an opened pack of emery boards.7) How did she react to the discovery?At the sight of the emery boards, she could not control her grief any longer and broke into tears.8) Who was Stephen?He was her youngest son, who resembled her husband very much.9) How did she feel when Stephen clasped her hand?She felt the clasp was as reassuring as his father’s.2 Read the following sentences carefully and discuss in pairs whatthe author intends to say by the italicised parts.he 1) And whenever those hands sought mine in the final days of his life, pressed them both together around one of my hands. (Para. 1)Holding one of my hands tightly, he expressed his pure love for me as well as his wish to be together with me forever.I tried to memorize his 2) It was during that time, as I sat by his bed, that hands. (Para. 2)I tried to bear in mind what his hands were like because I knew he would soon leave us forever.3) Those hands clasped mine in the most frightening moments of his illnesses. (Para. 8)When death was drawing near, he clasped my hands to seek comfort and support from me and to express his pure and deep love for me.4) Months later, I opened the top drawer of Paul’s dresser one Sunday and —I liked to use them reached in for one of his clean, pressed handkerchiefs now. (Para. 11)Since my husband had been using them before he died, I like to use them now so that I could find myself mentally closer to him.5) It was as though his father’s long, graceful hands clasped mine once again. Still reassuring me. (Para. 13)(Para. 13)Even though he had died, my husband’s way of expressing love through his handclasp had been passed down to our son, which was a lasting comfort to me.Optional Classroom ActivitiesRhetorical devices such as simile (明喻) and metaphor (隐喻) are usedin both Text A and Text B. Listed below are some examples. Discuss with your partner how and why the writers use such rhetorical devices. The explanation of the first one is provided.1) Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles. (Para. 3, Text A) Simile: “Soap bubbles” is used to emphasize the brief period of time that puppy loves last.2) Love was a magnificent building I built on the foundation of friendship. It took time to blossom. (Para. 7, Text A)Metaphor: “Magnificent building” is used to imply that love should be developed in the same way as we build or construct a building and that, like a building, love should be based on something. “To blossom” is also a metaphor, which implies that love can be as beautiful as a flower but it takes time to have it develop or grow.3) Our parents’ generation was fed lavishly with ideals. (Para. 8, Text A) Metaphor: Here “(be) fed (with)” is used metaphorically, meaning that, people of her parents’ generation were taught to pursue love and relationships strictly according to the “ideals” of the time, these ideals nourishing their mental needs much as food does the body.4) I am sorry to learn about the kind of emotional baggage school kids are carrying in what are purely unemotional relationships. (Para. 10, Text A) Metaphor: “Baggage” is used to indicate the heavy burden that school children have to shoul der when they pursue “purely unemotional relationships.”5) What about giving ourselves, and others, time and space to forge relationships? (Para. 12, Text A)Metaphor: “To forge” implies that relationships are like iron and require plenty of tempering before they become as solid and strong as steel.6) For seven-and-a-half months, my grief for my husband had been frozen within me like an icy presence that would not yield. (Para. 12, Text B) Simile: “Frozen” and “icy presence” are used to imply that during the seven-and-a-half months after her husband died, the author had managed to bury the grief for her husband deep down in her heart as if it had turned into something like ice.7) Then, this last Sunday of February, I was undone by the simple presence of emery boards. (Para. 12, Text B)Metaphor: “Was undone” emphasizes the sudden release or outbreak of her grief, as if a knot came loose or untied unexpectedly.Enhance Your Language AwarenessWords in ActionWorking with Words and Expressions1 In the boxes below are some of the words you have learned in thisunit. Complete the following sentences with them. Change the form where necessary.Text A acquire affection curl defy given haste interact preserve restraintText B clip fascinate grief manipulate minimum presence yieldcurled .1) I don’t like my straight hair so I’m going to have it 2) This price is her minimum ; she refuses to lower it any further.clip recipes out of newspapers and magazines but never use them 3) I often c lipwhen I cook.4) She yielded to temptation and had another chocolate even though she was going on a diet.5) Given the fact that she loves children, I am sure teaching is the right career for her.6) They try to preserve their interesting old customs against the impacts of the modern world.fascinated to see how the old woman wove (编织) cloth with such 7) Philip was f ascinatedsimple tools.affection for his aunt who 8) Among all his relatives, he has an especially deep cares for him most.interact 9) Teaching is not a one-way activity; teachers and students should with each other in class.haste , which caused a lot of 10) After his wife died, he remarried with much gossip (闲话) among his acquaintances.颓丧) 11) Without your love and support, he would have been weighed down (with grief after his daughter died of a car crash.defies description; I 12) I have never seen a house like that — its untidiness d efiesthink she ought to learn how to keep a house.13) These days more and more pregnant (怀孕的) women want the presence of their husbands at the birth of their children.acquire a 14) It is quite possible for a student to master English grammar and large vocabulary without the help of a teacher.15) She watched him manipulate all the handles and gears [(汽车上的)排挡] in his automobile until she thought she could run it herself.restraints on the 16) Lack of money and lack of machinery are the two major growth of this factory; that’s why it remains the same as it was ten years ago.2 In the boxes below are some of the expressions you have learned in this unit. Do you know how to use them in the proper context? Now check for yourself by doing the blank-filling exercise. Change the form where necessary.e on Text A state of affairs build … on give and take hold on in short let … loos Text B fit into in the course of in vain reach forloose on the garden; he’ll pull up all the flowers.1) Don’t let the little boy l oosefit into our new kitchen.2) The refrigerator I bought last week is too large to hold 3) When the flood broke out, the little girl clung to a tree and managed to on .4) Her parents are divorced and her brother is in prison — it is a sad state of affairs , indeed.5) It is said that in no country other than Britain can one experience four seasons in the course of a single day.6) The moment my father came in I could see from his worried face that his in vain once again.effort to find a job had been build his hopes on the economic strength 7) Do you think it wise for a person to of his country? Or should he base them on his own efforts?8) He’s disorganized; he’s inefficient; he’s never been there when you want him. In short , he is hopeless.reached for the phone and 9) Seeing his neighbour’s house on fire, he quickly dialled 110.10) You can’t always ins ist on your own way — there has to be some give and take .Increasing Your Word Power1 The prefix over- can be added to nouns, verbs, adjectives and adverbs, meaning “above”, “outside”, “across”, or “too much”. Studythe words given in the box and choose the proper word to fill in each of the blanks in the following sentences. Change the form where necessary.overcoat n. overconfident a. overcrowded a. overdo v.overdue a. overflow v. overhead a. / ad. overjoyed overjoyed a. overland a. / ad. o verload overload v. over-rich a. oversleep v.overtime n. / ad. overweight overweight a. overwork n. / v.1) It’s cold outside. Put on your overcoat .2) He liked to look at planes flying overhead .3) We were o verjoyed overjoyed to learn that they were safe.4) I overslept this morning and was late for work.5) My luggage was overweight by five kilos. I had to pay extra.6) These bills are overdue . They should have been paid earlier.7) They’re working o vertime overtime to finish the task ahead of schedule.8) You’ve been o verworking overworking and you look e xhausted; why don’t you take a exhausted; why don’t you take a week off?2 Many words in English can be used both as nouns and as verbs. Listed in the following table are some of these words that you havelearned in Unit One and Unit Two. Study them carefully and thencomplete each of the following sentences with one of them as yousee fit. Change the form where necessary.crush n. a strong but short-lived feeling of love that a young person has for someone older(对年长者产生的)短暂的迷恋；热恋v. 压碎，压坏press with great force so as to break, damage, etc. fancyn.a liking, especially one formed without the help of reason; imagination, esp. in a free and undirected form(尤指一时兴起的) 喜爱；迷恋；胡思乱想v.喜欢，想要；(男女间)爱上have a liking for; wish for; be sexually attracted to bubble n.泡；气泡；泡沫a hollow ball of air or gas in a liquid (or sometimes in a solid) v. form, produce, or rise as bubbles 起泡，冒泡；沸腾yieldn.生)产量that which is produced or the amount that is produced(v.produce, bear, or provide, esp. as a result of work or effort; give up control (of); surrender 生产；产生(效果等)；放弃；投降，屈服labeln.a piece of paper or other material on or beside an object and describing its nature, name, owner, destination, etc. 标签；标记v. fix or tie a label on 贴标签于attribute n.特性，属性a quality forming part of the nature of a person or thing v. 把(某事)归因于believe (sth.) to be the result or work of drizzle n. 毛毛雨，细雨(a) fine misty rain 毛毛雨，细雨v.rain in very small drops or very lightly 下毛毛雨grasp n. 用手或臂)紧握；紧抱a firm hold with the hands or arms(v. 抓牢，抓紧take or keep a firm hold of, esp. with the hands 1) Don’t crush the box, there are eggs inside!2) She attributes her success to hard work and a bit of luck.fancy ?3) Did I really hear someone come in, or was it only a bubbled , filling the room with fragrance (香味).4) The coffeepot b ubbledgrasp and led her through the gate.5) Mike took her arm in a firm drizzling , but now it’s pouring down.6) When I left home it was just 7) He was busy labeling all the bottles of wine he’d made the year before.8) The trees gave a high yield of fruit this year. The farmer’s hard work is rewarding.3 Listed in the box below are some idiomatic expressions formedo make out theirwith the word “hand”. Study them carefully and try tmeanings. You may consult a dictionary if necessary. Then translate the given sentences into English, using one of them.a green hand at hand give sb. a hand in hand out of hand short of hands hand down hand in hand on hand out1) 我们人手不足。
新世纪大学英语（三）综合课程U2
新世纪⼤学英语（三）综合课程U2Love is an overwhelming joy that is beyond description. It is human nature to yearn for and indulge in love, but true love takes a lot of understanding, much sharing and caring, and plenty of affection. What is true love? How deep is your love? The author shares her views with the younger generation on these questionsHow Deep Is Y our Love?Mansi BhatiaLove to some is like a cloudTo some as strong as steelFor some a way of livingFor some a way to feelAnd some say love is holding onAnd some say let it goAnd some say love is everythingSome say they don’t knowAt some stage or the other in our lives we experience an emotion which defies definition. It’s a feeling that can only be felt and not described. An overwhelming joy that comes together with its share of sadness. Love.Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be appreciated that we even find the time to indulge in matters of the heart. But at the same time I wonder if we even understand its true depth. I remember having countless crushes while in school. My math teacher, our neighbour’s son, my best friend’s brother and lots of others whom I fancied for the colour of their eyes, the shape of their moustaches or just the way they walked. Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles. I can laugh about all those silly and adventurous thoughts and acts now but at that time nothing could be more serious an affair for me. Then came the stage of real relationships.Being in an all girls’school I hardly had the opportunity to interact with members of the opposite gender. Socials between our school and the boys’college, therefore, wouldbe awaited anxiously. Those three hours of unhesitant attention by a group of well-groomed young gentlemen provided us with enough content to talk and feel excited about for the next four weeks.And even then there was no real need of having a boyfriend.I somehow grew up believing that love would happen when it had to. And sure enough it did. It came at an age when I had a career, a long-term plan and a more or less settled life (and now I am not yet 25). I was mature enough to enter a relationship which demands a lot of give and not so much of take.Love was a magnificent building I had built on the foundation of friendship. It took time to blossom. It took a lot of understanding, loads of sharing and caring, and plenty of affection to become what it is today. And it meant a meeting of minds. Y ou might say that I belong to the traditional school of romance. But in my opinion, love needs to be nurtured. And it has to be distinguished from the intense but short-lived love or the pleasures of the flesh.Our parents’ generation was fed lavishly with ideals. It was an era of constraints, restraints, respect, admiration, andplenty of romance. The long skirts, the quiet and unpretentious looks, the curled long hair, the calmness, the shy glance —these are all so frequently remindful of a bygone era. An age when the distance between the sexes somehow managed to help preserve the holiness of love and relationships.The younger generation, with its openness and fading lines of proximity has jumped on the bandwagon of love with so much haste that it is difficult for them to distinguish between physical attraction and mental compatibilities. What we have been exposed to via the media have fast paced our sensibilities so much that taking things slow requires effort on our parts.I am sorry to learn about the kind of emotional baggage school kids are carrying in what are purely unemotional relationships. Some might blame the current state of affairs on peer pressure. But has anyone ever stopped to figure out where this peer pressure originates? Do any of us try and understand who is responsible for this shift? Does anyone bother to study the state of mind of the teenagers?The mindset of this generation is all too evident in the way it handles its personal life. There are more relationships being distorted under the pressures of lust than ever before. There is more focus on physical beauty than on inner charm .There is more of closeness and less of intimacy. There is more of passion and less of emotion. There is more of acquiring and less of sharing. There is more of opportunism and less of selflessness.In short, there is more of ME and less of US.We have hardened ourselves so much in this competitive age that we have forgotten the essence of relationships. There’s much more to being someone’s lover than gifting them red roses and fifty-cent cards. What about gifting our object of affection, our time, our company, our support, our friendship? What about setting priorities in our lives and focusing on each with sincerity? What about trying to be self-sufficient emotionally before letting ourselves loose? What about giving ourselves, and others, time and space to forge relationships? What about working towards meaningful and lasting friendships? What about honouring our commitments? What about channeling our energies and emotions towards building lifelong bonds rather than wasting them on seasonal relationships?We have but one life and we must experience everything that can make us stronger. True love happens once in a lifetime. And we should not have become so tired by our frivolous acts that when it comes we aren’t able to receive it with open arms.。
新世纪大学英语(第二版)综合教程第3册课件Unit2
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It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing. It is not how much we give, but how much love we put in the giving.
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A) Success, Hope and Wealth. B) Faith, Hope, and Love. C) Wealth, Faith and Success. D) Love, Success and Wealth.
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Choose the best answer to each of the following questions according to the information contained in the listen9;s Just Not That Into You” is a 2009 romantic comedy film about how nine people in Baltimore deal with their romantic problems. Watch the following video clip extracted from this film and then complete the tasks that follow:
新世纪大学英语综合教程3课后答案Unit2分析解析
新世纪⼤学英语综合教程3课后答案Unit2分析解析Electronic Teaching PortfolioBook ThreeUnit Two: LovePart I Get StartedSection A Discussion▇Sit in groups of threes or fours and discuss the following questions.1) Do you think love and marriage are important matters in our life? Why or why not?2) Dating and courtship is a common scene at college now. What do you think of it?3) What do you think are the most important factors that contribute to a stable love relationship? Give your reasons.▇ Answers for reference:1)Yes. It is human nature to feel attraction and affection between different sexes. A life without love is oftenregarded as imperfect. Those who are in love would long to stay together, and families resulting from love usually lay the foundation for a stable society.2)I t’s OK to start dating at college, because college students are already grown-ups in the legal sense. Noone has the right to interfere in such private matters. However, students’ top priority at college is to study and acquire knowledge and skills for their future careers. Dating and courtship will interfere with their studies. Therefore, some students tend to hold themselves back even if there are opportunities to start a romantic relationship.3)Many factors may contribute to a stable love relationship. Wealth, social status, appearances, familybackground, etc. may be considered as the external factors, which may help promote a love relationship.Wisdom, knowledge, character, personalities, etc. are the internal factors. Love based on external factors alone may not last long. Love based on the internal factors will survive whatever challenges or crises it may encounter. When two persons are in love, they should respect each other and be honest and faithful to each other. In essence, trust and understanding are the key factors that contribute to a successful love relationship.Section B Quotes▇Study the following quotes about love. Which quote(s) do you like best? Why?⊙The course of true love never did run smooth.—— William Shakespeare Interpretation:Shakespeare believes that a true relationship is not easy to establish. People have different personalities, concepts of value, preferences of life style, etc. When two persons of the opposite sex develop a love relationship, they have to try their best to understand each other and reconcile with each other.William ShakespeareAbout William Shakespeare:William Shakespeare (1564-616): an English writer of plays and poems, who is generally regarded as the greatest of all English writers. His many famous plays include the tragedies Romeo and Juliet (《罗密欧与朱丽叶》), Hamlet (《哈姆雷特》), Julius Caesar (《裘⼒斯·凯撒》), Macbeth (《麦克⽩》), Othello (《奥瑟罗》), and King Lear (《李尔王》); the comedies A Midsummer Night’s Dream (《仲夏夜之梦》), Twelfth Night (《第⼗⼆夜》), and As You Like It（皆⼤欢喜》).⊙To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.—— Bertrand Russell Interpretation:Here Russell emphasizes the importance of an active attitude towards love. We should not be afraid to fall in love just because it is not easy to find true love or just because of any possible setbacks. A life without love is as dull as a dying man because he lacks the energy and passion to enjoy life.Bertrand RussellAbout Bertrand Russell:Bertrand Russell (1872-970): a British philosopher and mathematician who developed new ideas connecting mathematics and logic. He is also known for being a pacifist (和平主义者). He received the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1950.⊙Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl — no superior alternative has yet been found.—— Sir Winston Churchill Interpretation:The quotation emphasizes that true love is the only basis upon which a happy family is built. Only when the man and the woman love each other dearly and devotedly can they endure trials and tribulations in their common effort to build up a happy family.Sir Winston ChurchillAbout Sir Winston Churchill:Sir Winston Churchill (1874-965): a British statesman, soldier, and author who was Prime Minister during most of World War II and again from 1951 to 1955. He is remembered and admired by most British people as a great leader who made possible Britain’s victory in the war. He is also famous for the many speeches he made during the war. In 1953 Churchill was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature for his writing and oratory (演讲术).⊙It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing. It is not how much we give, but how much love we put in the giving.—— Mother Teresa Interpretation:The quotation tells us the significant role that love plays in everything we do in life. Whatever we do, we should put adequate love into it so that others can feel our love and be affected by our love. What we can offer to others may be insignificant, but as long as there is love in it, the benefit will be significant. Here, love isunderstood in a broad sense.Mother TeresaAbout Mother Teresa:Mother Teresa (1910-997): an Albanian (阿尔巴尼亚) Roman Catholic nun (修⼥) who lived in India, where she worked to help the poor and the sick in the city of Calcutta (加尔各答). She won the Nobel Prize for Peace in 1979, and people think of her as a typical example of someone who is kind, unselfish, and morally good. Section C Watching and Discussion▇He's Just Not That Into You is a 2009 romantic comedy film about how nine people in Baltimore deal with their romantic problems. Watch the following video clip extracted from this film and then complete the tasks that follow:1.Pay attention to what the woman says in the video clip and fill in the missing words.I. See, you can’t keep being nice to me and I can’t keep pretending like this is something that it’s not.We’ve been t ogether over seven years. You know me. You know who I am. You either wanna marry me or you don’t.II. …for every woman that has been told by some man that he doesn’t believe in marriage and then six months later, he’smarried to some twenty-four-year-old that he met at the gym.III. It’s coming from the place that I have been hiding from you for about five years. About five years because I haven’t wanted to seem demanding, and I haven’t wanted to seem clingy or psycho orwhatever. So I have never asked you.2.What can you infer from the conversation between the man and the woman in the video clip?▇Answers for reference:(Open.)Script：BETH：Now. I want you to stop doing anything nice.NEIL: This feels like a trick.BETH: No. No. I just, I just need you to stop being nice to me —unless you’re gonna marry me after.(Neil laughs.)BETH: Is that funny? Do you think that’s funny?NEIL: No. I guess it is not funny.BETH:See, you can’t keep being nice to me and I can’t keep pretending like this is something that it’s not.We’ve been together for over seven years. You know me. You know who I am. You either wanna marry me or you don’t. NEIL: Or there is the possibility that I mean it when I say I don’t believe in marriage.BETH: Bullshit! Bullshit! Come on! Bullshit for every woman that has been told by some man that he doesn’t believe in marriage and then six months later, he’s married to some twenty-four-year-old that he met at the gym. It’s just —it’s Bullshit. (Beth tries to hold back her tears. Neil looks stunned and goes to her.)NEIL: Where is this coming from?BETH: It’s coming f rom the place that I have been hiding from you for about five years. About five years because I haven’t wanted to seem demanding, and I haven’t wanted to seem clingy or psycho orwhatever. So I have never asked you. But I — but I — I have to. I mean, are you — are you ever going to marry me?Part II Listen and RespondSection A Word Bank(⽆)Section B Task One: Focusing on the Main IdeasChoose the best answer to each of the following questions according to the information contained in the listening passage.1) Where did the woman see the three old men?A) In front of her store.B) In her front yard.C) In her dream.D) In her doorway.2) Who were the three old men respectively?A) Success, Hope and Wealth.B) Faith, Hope, and Love.C) Wealth, Faith and Success.D) Love, Success and Wealth.3) Whom did the family invite in?A) Wealth.B) Love.C) Success.D) All of the above.4) How many of the old men would like to go into the house?A) One.B) Two.C) Three.D) Four.5) What is the main idea of the passage?A) Where there is love, there is wealth and success.B) One cannot live without wealth, love and success.C) Love is as important as wealth and success.D) Wealth and success are what people pursue most eagerly.▇ Answers for Reference:1) B 2) D 3) B 4) C 5) ASection C Task Two: Zooming in on the Details▇Listen to the recording again and fill in each of the blanks according to what you have heard.1) The woman thought that the three old men must be ____________, so she invited them to come in and have something __________.2) The old men said that they did not go into a house ________________.3) The husband wished to invite ________________, but the woman did not agree and wished to have_____________ , while their daughter suggested: “____________________________________?”4) The woman came out and asked: “Which one of you is________? Please come in and be our________.”5) The other two old men also got up and followed, which_________ the woman.6) One old man t old the woman: “If you had invited _________ or _________, the other two of us would__________.”▆ Answers:1) The woman thought that the three old men must be hungry, so she invited them to come in and have something to eat.2) The old men said that they did not go into a house together.3) The husband wished to invite Wealth, but the woman did not agree and wished to have Success, while their daughter suggested: “Wouldn’t it be better to invite Love?”4) The woman came out and asked: “Which one of yo u is Love? Please come in and be our guest.”5) The other two old men also got up and followed, which surprised the woman.6) One old man told the woman: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would havestayed out.”Script:An InvitationA woman saw three old men sitting in her front yard. She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”“We do not go into a house together,” they replied.“Why is that?” she wanted to know.On e of the old men explained: “His name is Wealth, this is Success, and I am Love.” Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”Then the woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband said, “Let’s invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth.” His wife disagreed, “My dear, why don’t we invite Success?” Then the daughter made a suggestion:“Wouldn’t it be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love.” “Let’s take our daughter’s advice,” said the father. So the woman went out and asked, “Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.” Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other two also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked W ealth and Success: “I only invited Love. Why are you coming in?”The old men replied together: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would have stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever HE goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success.”Part III Read and ExploreText ASection A Discovering the Main Ideas1. Answer the following questions with the information contained in Text A.1) Is “love” easy to define? Why or why not?2) How does the au thor describe “puppy loves”?3) What does it take for love to develop into maturity?4) What helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’s parents’ generation?5) What negative roles do the media play in forming the younger generation’s view of lov e?6) What do young people today tend to value in relationships? What does the author think they should value? ▆ Answers for Reference:1) No. It is because love is a feeling that can only be felt but cannot be clearly described.2) “Puppy loves” are brief, silly, adventurous but harmless.3) Love takes time to blossom and it takes a lot of understanding, caring, sharing and affection to developinto maturity.4) It was the distance between men and women that helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’sparents’ generation.5) The media have exposed the younger generation to things that have fast paced their sensibilities so muchthat taking things slow requires effort.6) They tend to value physical beauty, closeness, passion and acquiring. The author thinks that they shouldvalue inner charm, intimacy, emotion and sharing.2.Text A can be divided into four parts with the paragraph number(s) of each part provided as follows. Write down the main idea of each part.Paragraph(s) Main IdeaPart One 1-2 ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Part Two 3-7________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Part Three 8-12________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Part Four 13-14________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________▆ Answers for Reference:Paragraph(s) Main IdeaPart One 1-2 Love is hard to define because it can only be felt but not described.Part Two 3-7 The author discusses love of different depths from her own experiences.Part Three 8-12 The two generations handle love and relationships differently. The younger generation tends to be more hasty and selfish in building relationships.Part Four 13-14 The author advises young people to learn the essence of love and find ways to develop relationships into lifelong bonds.Section B In-Depth StudyLove is an overwhelming joy that is beyond description. It is human nature to yearn for and indulge in love, but true love takes a lot of understanding, much sharing and caring, and plenty of affection. What is true love? How deep is your love? The author shares her views with the younger generation on these questions.How Deep Is Your Love?Mansi Bhatia1Love to some is like a cloudTo some as strong as steelFor some a way of livingFor some a way to feelAnd some say love is holding onAnd some say let it goAnd some say love is everythingSome say they don’t know2 At some stage or the other in our lives we experience the gnawing pangs of an emotion which defies definition. It’s a feeling that can only be felt and not described. An overwhelming joy that comes together with its share of sadness. Love.3 Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be appreciated that we even find the time to ind ulge in matters of the heart.But at the same time I wonder if we even understand its true depth. I remember having countless crushes while in school. My math teacher, our neighbour’s son, my best friend’s brother and lots of others whom I fancied for the colour of their eyes, the shape of their moustaches or just the way they walked. Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles. I can laugh about all those silly and adventurous thoughts and acts now but at that time nothing could be more serious an affair for me. Then came the stage of real relationships.4 Being in an all girls’ school I hardly had the opportunity to interact with members of the opposite gender. Socials between our school and the boys’ college, therefore, would be awaited anxio usly. Those three hours of unhesitant attention by a group of well-groomed young gentlemen provided us with enough content to talk and feel exhilarated about for the next four weeks.5 And even then there was no real need of having a boyfriend.6 I somehow grew up believing that love would happen when it had to. And sure enough it did. It came at an age when I hada career, a long-term plan and a more or less settled life (and now I am not yet 25!). I was mature enough to enter a relationship which demands a lot of give and not so much of take.7 Love was a magnificent building I built on the foundation of friendship. It took time to blossom. It took a lot of understanding, loads of sharing and caring, and plenty of affection to become what it is today. And it meant a meeting of minds. You might say that I belong to the traditional school of romance. But in my opinion, love needs to be nurtured. And it has to be distinguished from the intense but short-lived love or the pleasures of the flesh.8 Our p arents’ generation was fed lavishly with ideals. It was an era of constraints, restraints, respect, admiration, and plenty of romance. The long skirts, the quiet and unpretentious looks, the curled long hair, the calmness, the shy glance—these are all so frequently remindful of a bygone era. An age when the distance between the sexes somehow managed to help preserve the holiness of love and relationships.9 The younger generation, with its openness and fading lines of proximity, has jumped on the bandwagon of love with so much haste that it is difficult for them to distinguish between physical attraction and mental compatibilities. What we have been exposed to via the media have fast paced our sensibilities so much that taking things slow requires effort on our parts.10 I am amazed when I hear stories of school kids bragging about the number of physical relationships they have had. I am horrified to learn that girls barely eighteen have already been in and out of seven to eight “hook ups”.11 I am sorry to learn about the kind of emotional baggage these kids are carrying in what are purely unemotional relationships. Some might blame the current state of affairs on peer pressure. But has anyone ever stopped to figure out where this peer pressure originates? Do any of us try and understand who is responsible for this shift? Does anyone bother to study the state of mind of the teenagers?12 The mindset of this generation is all too evident in the way it handles its personal life.There are more relationships being distorted under the pressures of lust than ever before. There is more focus on physical beauty than on inner charm. There is more of closeness and less of intimacy. There is more of passion and less of emotion. There is more of acquiring and less of sharing. There is more of opportunism and less of selflessness.In short, there is more of ME and less of US.13 We have hardened ourselves so much in this competitive age that we have forgotten the essence of relationships. There’s much more to being someone’s lover than gifting them red roses and fifty-cent cards. What about gifting our object of affection, our time, our company, our support, our friendship? What about setting priorities in our lives and focusing on each with sincerity? What about trying to be self-sufficient emotionally before letting ourselves loose? What about giving ourselves, and others, time and space to forge relationships? What about working towards meaningful and lasting friendships? What about honouring our commitments? What about channeling our energies and emotions towards building lifelong bonds ratherthan wasting them on seasonal relationships?14 We have but one life and we must experience everything that can make us stronger. True love happens once in a lifetime. And we should not have become so tired by our frivolous acts that when it comes we aren’t able to receive it with open arms.▇课⽂参考译⽂你的爱有多深曼茜·巴蒂亚1 有⼈认为爱如浮云有⼈认为爱坚强如铁有⼈认为爱是⼀种⽣活⽅式有⼈认为爱是⼀种感觉有⼈说爱要执着有⼈说爱不要约束有⼈说爱是⽣命的全部有⼈说不知道爱为何物2 在我们⽣命中的某个阶段，我们会经历某种难以名状的情感所带来的阵阵折磨。
新世纪大学英语（第二版）综合教程3课后习题答案完整版unit2
新世纪大学英语（第二版）综合教程3课后习题答案完整版unit2Listen and RespondListen to a short passage entitled “An Invitation”.Task One Focusing on the Main IdeasChoose the best answer to each of the following questions according to the information contained in the listening passage.1) Where did the woman see the three old men?A) In front of her store. B) In her front yard.C) In her dream. D) In her doorway.2) Who were the three old men respectively?A) Success, Hope and Wealth. B) Faith, Hope, and Love.C) Wealth, Faith and Success. D) Love, Success and Wealth.3) Whom did the family invite in?A) Wealth. B) Love. C) Success. D) All of the above.4) How many of the old men would like to go into the house?A) One. B) Two. C) Three. D) Four.5) What is the main idea of the passage?A) Where there is love, there is wealth and success.B) One cannot live without wealth, love and success.C) Love is as important as wealth and success.D) Wealth and success are what people pursue most eagerly.Task Two Zooming In on the DetailsListen to the passage again and fill in each of the blanks according to what you have heard.1. The women thought that the three old men must be hungry , so she invited them to come in and have something to eat .2. The old men said that they did not go into a housetogether .3. The husband wished to invite Wealth , but the woman did not agree and wished to have Success , while their daughter suggested: “ Wouldn’t it be better to invite Love ?”4. The woman came out and asked: “Which one of you is Love ? Please come in and be our guest .”5. The other two old men also got up and followed, which surprised the woman.6. One old man told the woman: “If you had invited Wealth or Suc cess , the other two of us would have stayed out .”Read and ExploreTask One Discovering the Main Ideas1 Answer the following questions with the information contained in Text A.1) Is “love” easy to define? Why or why not?No. It is because love is a feeling that can only be felt but cannot be clearly described.2) How does the author describe “puppy loves”?“Puppy loves” are brief, silly, adventurous but harmless.3) What does it take for love to develop into maturity?Love takes time to blossom and it takes a lot of understanding, caring, sharing and affection to develop into maturity.4) What helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’s parents’ generation?It was the distance between men and women that helped preserve the holiness of love in th e author’s parents’ generation.5) What negative roles do the media play in forming th e younger generation’s view of love?The media have exposed the younger generation to things that have fast paced their sensibilities so much that taking things slow requires effort.6) What do young people today tend to value in relationships? What does the author think they should value?They tend to value physical beauty, closeness, passion and acquiring. The author thinks that they should value inner charm, intimacy, emotion and sharing.2 Text A can be divided into four parts with the paragraph number(s) of each part provided as follows. Write down the main idea of each part.Part Paragraph(s) Main IdeaOne 1–2 Love is hard to define because it can only be felt but not described.Two 3–7 The author discusses love of different depths from her own experiences.Three 8–12 The two generations handle love and relationships differently. The younger generation tends to be more hasty and selfish in building relationships.Four 13–14 The author advises young people to learn the essence of love and find ways to develop relationships into lifelong bonds.Task Two Reading Between the LinesRead the following sentences carefully and discuss in pairs what the author intends to say by the italicised parts.1. Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be ap preciated that we even find the time to indulge in matters of the heart. (Para. 3)Love is still indispensable to us, even though we are so busy pursuing material things for our everyday life. For this we shouldfeel grateful.2. The long skirts, the quiet and unpretentious looks, the curled long hair, the calmness, the shy glance —these are all so frequently remindful of a bygone era. (Para. 8)These often remind us of those days when people of our parents’ generation were courting. It was an era of constraints, restraints, respect, admiration, and plenty of romance. But such an era is gone for ever, for young people today tend to behave differently.3. There is more of acquiring and less of sharing. (Para.12)The younger generation is more selfish: they care too much about what they can get instead of what they can share.4. There’s much more to being someone’s lover than gifting them red roses and fifty-cent cards. (Para. 13) People in a relationship need to do much more than just sending gifts to their lovers. More importantly, they should devote themselves, heart and soul, to each other.5. And we should not have become so tired by our frivolous acts that when it comes we aren’t able to receive it with open arms. (Para. 14)After repeatedly experiencing hasty, casual and insensible relationships, we have become emotionally tired and confused, so when true love comes, we are unable to respond to it with due enthusiasm, passion and devotion.Checking Your VocabularyWord Detective1 Put down the right word from Text B in the space provided according to the given definition. The first letter of each word is already given.Example:i cy: extremely cold; covered with ice1) e ngaged: having agreed to marry2) g rief: great sorrow or feelings of suffering3) m anipulate: work with skilful use of the hands4) a gonizing: causing great pain or anxiety5) m aximum: the largest number, amount, etc.6) f ascinate: attract and hold the interest or attention of7) c omplaint: a statement of dissatisfaction, unhappiness, pain, etc.8) g race: a fine and attractive quality in movement or form, esp. when this seems effortless and natural2 Fill in each blank with a word or phrase from Text B. Both the explanation and the number of the paragraph in which the targetword or phrase appears are given in brackets. Be sure to use the proper form.Example: To gain more profit, they reduced the costs of the building to the minimum .(the smallest amount: Para. 7)1) “Lip Ice”, a relief for dry lips, is applied to keep lips moist .(slightly wet: Para. 1)2) Only three people could fit into the lift; it’s really too small.(have sufficient space in: Para. 5)3) In the course of their investigation, they discovered various forms of political corruption (腐败).(during: Para. 6)4) Helen was overjoyed to hear that she had got the job.(extremely pleased: Para. 9)5) I often clip pictures of tourist spots from the magazine Travel Weekly. (cut: Para. 10)6) Doctors tried in vain to save him; he passed away at dawn.(without a successful result: Para. 12)7) During the war, they were forced to yield some of their farmland to the local farmers.(give up one’s control of: Para. 12)8) The twins resemble each other in appearance but their personalities are quite different.(look like or be similar to sb. or sth.: Para. 13)Checking Your Comprehension1 Answer the following questions with the information contained in Text B.1) What happened to the writer’s husband?He was dying in bed of a serious disease.2) What did her husband’s hands look like?They were long and large. His fingers were long and square, laced with fine veins all the way to the tips. His nails squared off the ends of his fingers, with clearly defined white edges. He had always taken great care to keep them neat. They were not tough hands; nor soft, either.3) What could she feel when her husband clasped her hands during the last four years when he was confined to the hospital bed?She could feel pure and honest expressions of his love.4) How did he treat his children when they were young?He took very good care of them.5) In what special moments did her husband hold her hands in the hospital? Her husband held her hands in the most frightening moments of his illnesses and in the deepest, darkest moment of his life.6) What did she discover in her husband’s dresser monthsafter he died?She discovered an opened pack of emery boards.7) How did she react to the discovery?At the sight of the emery boards, she could not control her grief any longer and broke into tears.8) Who was Stephen?He was her youngest son, who resembled her husband very much.9) How did she feel when Stephen clasped her hand?She felt the clasp was as reassuring as his father’s.2 Read the following sentences carefully and discuss in pairs what the author intends to say by the italicised parts.1) And whenever those hands sought mine in the final days of his life, he pressed them both together around one of my hands. (Para. 1)Holding one of my hands tightly, he expressed his pure love for me as well as his wish to be together with me forever.2) It was during that time, as I sat by his bed, that I tried to memorize his hands. (Para. 2)I tried to bear in mind what his hands were like because I knew he would soon leave us forever.3) Those hands clasped mine in the most frightening moments of his illnesses. (Para. 8)When death was drawing near, he clasped my hands to seek comfort and support from me and to express his pure and deep love for me.4) Months later, I opened the top drawer of Paul’s dresser one Sunday and reached in for one of his clean, pressed handkerchiefs —I liked to use them now. (Para. 11)Since my husband had been using them before he died, I liketo use them now so that I could find myself mentally closer to him.5) It was as though his father’s long, graceful hands clasped mine once again. Still reassuring me. (Para. 13)Even though he had died, my husband’s way of expressing love through his handclasp had been passed down to our son, which was a lasting comfort to me.Optional Classroom ActivitiesRhetorical devices such as simile (明喻) and metaphor (隐喻) are used in both Text A and Text B. Listed below are some examples. Discuss with your partner how and why the writers use such rhetorical devices. The explanation of the first one is provided.1) Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles. (Para. 3, Text A) Simile: “Soap bubbles” is used to emphasize the brief period of time that puppy loves last.2) Love was a magnificent building I built on the foundation of friendship. It took time to blossom. (Para. 7, Text A) Metaphor: “Magnificent building” is used to imply that love should be developed in the same way as we build or construct a building and that, like a building, love should be based on something. “T o blossom” is also a metaphor, which implies that love can be as beautiful as a flower but it takes time to have it develop or grow.3) Our parents’ generation was fed lavishly with ideals. (Para. 8, Text A) Metaphor: Here “(be) fed (with)” is used metaphorically, meaning that, people of her parents’ generation were taught to pursue love and relationships strictly according to the “ideals” of the time, these ideals nourishing their mental needs much as food does the body.4) I am sorry to learn about the kind of emotional baggage school kids are carrying in what are purely unemotional relationships. (Para. 10, Text A) Metaphor: “Baggage” is used to indicate the heavy burden that school children have to should er when they pursue “purely unemotional relationships.”5) What about giving ourselves, and others, time and space to forge relationships? (Para. 12, Text A)Metaphor: “To forge” implies that relationships are like iron and require plenty of tempering before they become as solid and strong as steel.6) For seven-and-a-half months, my grief for my husband had been frozen within me like an icy presence that would not yield. (Para. 12, Text B) Simile: “Frozen” and “icy presence” are used to imply that dur ing the seven-and-a-half months after her husband died, the author had managed to bury the grief for her husband deep down in her heart as if it had turned into something like ice.7) Then, this last Sunday of February, I was undone by the simple presence of emery boards. (Para. 12, Text B)Metaphor: “Was undone” emphasizes the sudden release or outbreak of her grief, as if a knot came loose or untied unexpectedly.Enhance Your Language AwarenessWords in ActionWorking with Words and Expressions1 In the boxes below are some of the words you have learned in this unit. Complete the following sentences with them. Change the form where necessary.Text A acquire affection curl defy given haste interact preserve restraintText B clip fascinate grief manipulate minimum presence yield1) I don’t like my straight hair so I’m going to have it curled .2) This price is her minimum ; she refuses to lower it any further.3) I often clip recipes out of newspapers and magazines but never use them when I cook.4) She yielded to temptation and had another chocolate even though she was going on a diet.5) Given the fact that she loves children, I am sure teaching is the right career for her.6) They try to preserve their interesting old customs against the impacts of the modern world.7) Philip was fascinated to see how the old woman wove (编织) cloth with such simple tools.8) Among all his relatives, he has an especially deep affection for his aunt who cares for him most.9) Teaching is not a one-way activity; teachers and students should interact with each other in class.10) After his wife died, he remarried with much haste , which caused a lot of gossip (闲话) among his acquaintances.11) Without your love and support, he would have been weighed down (颓丧) with grief after his daughter died of a car crash.12) I have never seen a house like that — its untidiness defies description; I think she ought to learn how to keep a house.13) These days more and more pregnant (怀孕的) women want the presence of their husbands at the birth of their children.14) It is quite possible for a student to master Englishgrammar and acquire a large vocabulary without the help of a teacher.15) She watched him manipulate all the handles and gears [(汽车上的)排挡] in his automobile until she thought she could run it herself.16) Lack of money and lack of machinery are the two major restraints on the growth of this factory; that’s why it remains the same as it was ten years ago.2 In the boxes below are some of the expressions you have learned in this unit. Do you know how to use them in the proper context? Now check for yourself by doing the blank-filling exercise. Change the form where necessary.Text A state of affairs build … on give and take hold on in short let … loos e on Text B fit into in the course of in vain reach for1) Don’t let the little boy loose on the garden; he’ll pull up all the flowers.2) The refrigerator I bought last week is too large to fit into our new kitchen.3) When the flood broke out, the little girl clung to a tree and managed to hold on .4) Her parents are divorced and her brother is in prison — it is a sad state of affairs , indeed.5) It is said that in no country other than Britain can one experience four seasons in the course of a single day.6) The moment my father came in I could see from his worried face that his effort to find a job had been in vain once again.7) Do you think it wise for a person to build his hopes on the economic strength of his country? Or should he base them on hisown efforts?8) He’s disorganized; he’s inefficient; he’s never been there when you want him. In short , he is hopeless.9) Seeing his neighbour’s house on fire, he quickly reached for the phone and dialled 110.10) You can’t always ins ist on your own way — there has to be some give and take .Increasing Your Word Power1 The prefix over- can be added to nouns, verbs, adjectives and adverbs, meaning “above”, “outside”, “across”, or “too much”. Studythe words given in the box and choose the proper word to fill in each of the blanks in the following sentences. Change the form where necessary.overcoat n. overconfident a. overcrowded a. overdo v.overdue a. overflow v. overhead a. / ad. overjoyed a.overland a. / ad. overload v. over-rich a. oversleep v.overtime n. / ad. overweight a. overwork n. / v.1) It’s cold outside. Put on your overcoat .2) He liked to look at planes flying overhead .3) We were overjoyed to learn that they were safe.4) I overslept this morning and was late for work.5) My luggage was overweight by five kilos. I had to pay extra.6) These bills are overdue . They should have been paid earlier.7) They’re working overtime to finish the task ahead of schedule.8) You’ve been overworking and you look exhausted; why don’t you take a week off?2 Many words in English can be used both as nouns and asverbs. Listed in the following table are some of these words that you have learned in Unit One and Unit Two. Study them carefully and then complete each of the following sentences with one of them as you see fit. Change the form where necessary.crushn.a strong but short-lived feeling of love that a young person has for someone older(对年长者产生的)短暂的迷恋；热恋v.press with great force so as to break, damage, etc. 压碎，压坏fancyn.a liking, especially one formed without the help of reason; imagination, esp. in a free and undirected form(尤指一时兴起的) 喜爱；迷恋；胡思乱想v.have a liking for; wish for; be sexually attracted to 喜欢，想要；(男女间)爱上bubblen.a hollow ball of air or gas in a liquid (or sometimes in a solid) 泡；气泡；泡沫v.form, produce, or rise as bubbles 起泡，冒泡；沸腾yieldn.that which is produced or the amount that is produced(生)产量v.produce, bear, or provide, esp. as a result of work or effort;give up control (of); surrender 生产；产生(效果等)；放弃；投降，屈服labeln.a piece of paper or other material on or beside an object and describing its nature, name, owner, destination, etc. 标签；标记v.fix or tie a label on 贴标签于attributen.a quality forming part of the nature of a person or thing 特性，属性v.believe (sth.) to be the result or work of 把(某事)归因于drizzlen.。
新世纪大学英语综合教程3课后答案Unit2分析解析
Electronic Teaching PortfolioBook ThreeUnit Two: LovePart I Get StartedSection A Discussion▇Sit in groups of threes or fours and discuss the following questions.1) Do you think love and marriage are important matters in our life? Why or why not?2) Dating and courtship is a common scene at college now. What do you think of it?3) What do you think are the most important factors that contribute to a stable love relationship? Give your reasons.▇ Answers for reference:1)Yes. It is human nature to feel attraction and affection between different sexes. A life without love is oftenregarded as imperfect. Those who are in love would long to stay together, and families resulting from love usually lay the foundation for a stable society.2)I t’s OK to start dating at college, because college students are already grown-ups in the legal sense. Noone has the right to interfere in such private matters. However, students’ top priority at college is to study and acquire knowledge and skills for their future careers. Dating and courtship will interfere with their studies. Therefore, some students tend to hold themselves back even if there are opportunities to start a romantic relationship.3)Many factors may contribute to a stable love relationship. Wealth, social status, appearances, familybackground, etc. may be considered as the external factors, which may help promote a love relationship.Wisdom, knowledge, character, personalities, etc. are the internal factors. Love based on external factors alone may not last long. Love based on the internal factors will survive whatever challenges or crises it may encounter. When two persons are in love, they should respect each other and be honest and faithful to each other. In essence, trust and understanding are the key factors that contribute to a successful love relationship.Section B Quotes▇Study the following quotes about love. Which quote(s) do you like best? Why?⊙The course of true love never did run smooth.—— William Shakespeare Interpretation:Shakespeare believes that a true relationship is not easy to establish. People have different personalities, concepts of value, preferences of life style, etc. When two persons of the opposite sex develop a love relationship, they have to try their best to understand each other and reconcile with each other.William ShakespeareAbout William Shakespeare:William Shakespeare (1564-616): an English writer of plays and poems, who is generally regarded as the greatest of all English writers. His many famous plays include the tragedies Romeo and Juliet (《罗密欧与朱丽叶》), Hamlet (《哈姆雷特》), Julius Caesar (《裘力斯·凯撒》), Macbeth (《麦克白》), Othello (《奥瑟罗》), and King Lear (《李尔王》); the comedies A Midsummer Night’s Dream (《仲夏夜之梦》), Twelfth Night (《第十二夜》), and As You Like It（皆大欢喜》).⊙To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.—— Bertrand Russell Interpretation:Here Russell emphasizes the importance of an active attitude towards love. We should not be afraid to fall in love just because it is not easy to find true love or just because of any possible setbacks. A life without love is as dull as a dying man because he lacks the energy and passion to enjoy life.Bertrand RussellAbout Bertrand Russell:Bertrand Russell (1872-970): a British philosopher and mathematician who developed new ideas connecting mathematics and logic. He is also known for being a pacifist (和平主义者). He received the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1950.⊙Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl — no superior alternative has yet been found.—— Sir Winston Churchill Interpretation:The quotation emphasizes that true love is the only basis upon which a happy family is built. Only when the man and the woman love each other dearly and devotedly can they endure trials and tribulations in their common effort to build up a happy family.Sir Winston ChurchillAbout Sir Winston Churchill:Sir Winston Churchill (1874-965): a British statesman, soldier, and author who was Prime Minister during most of World War II and again from 1951 to 1955. He is remembered and admired by most British people as a great leader who made possible Britain’s victory in the war. He is also famous for the many speeches he made during the war. In 1953 Churchill was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature for his writing and oratory (演讲术).⊙It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the doing. It is not how much we give, but how much love we put in the giving.—— Mother Teresa Interpretation:The quotation tells us the significant role that love plays in everything we do in life. Whatever we do, we should put adequate love into it so that others can feel our love and be affected by our love. What we can offer to others may be insignificant, but as long as there is love in it, the benefit will be significant. Here, love isunderstood in a broad sense.Mother TeresaAbout Mother Teresa:Mother Teresa (1910-997): an Albanian (阿尔巴尼亚) Roman Catholic nun (修女) who lived in India, where she worked to help the poor and the sick in the city of Calcutta (加尔各答). She won the Nobel Prize for Peace in 1979, and people think of her as a typical example of someone who is kind, unselfish, and morally good. Section C Watching and Discussion▇He's Just Not That Into You is a 2009 romantic comedy film about how nine people in Baltimore deal with their romantic problems. Watch the following video clip extracted from this film and then complete the tasks that follow:1.Pay attention to what the woman says in the video clip and fill in the missing words.I. See, you can’t keep being nice to me and I can’t keep pretending like this is something that it’s not.We’ve been t ogether over seven years. You know me. You know who I am. You either wanna marry me or you don’t.II. …for every woman that has been told by some man that he doesn’t believe in marriage and then six months later, he’s married to some twenty-four-year-old that he met at the gym.III. It’s coming from the place that I have been hiding from you for about five years. About five years because I haven’t wanted to seem demanding, and I haven’t wanted to seem clingy or psycho orwhatever. So I have never asked you.2.What can you infer from the conversation between the man and the woman in the video clip?▇Answers for reference:(Open.)Script：BETH：Now. I want you to stop doing anything nice.NEIL: This feels like a trick.BETH: No. No. I just, I just need you to stop being nice to me —unless you’re gonna marry me after.(Neil laughs.)BETH: Is that funny? Do you think that’s funny?NEIL: No. I guess it is not funny.BETH:See, you can’t keep being nice to me and I can’t keep pretending like this is something that it’s not.We’ve been together for over seven years. You know me. You know who I am. You either wanna marry me or you don’t.NEIL: Or there is the possibility that I mean it when I say I don’t believe in marriage.BETH: Bullshit! Bullshit! Come on! Bullshit for every woman that has been told by some man that he doesn’t believe in marriage and then six months later, he’s married to some twenty-four-year-old that he met at the gym. It’s just —it’s Bullshit.(Beth tries to hold back her tears. Neil looks stunned and goes to her.)NEIL: Where is this coming from?BETH: It’s coming f rom the place that I have been hiding from you for about five years. About five years because I haven’t wanted to seem demanding, and I haven’t wanted to seem clingy or psycho orwhatever. So I have never asked you. But I — but I — I have to. I mean, are you — are you ever going to marry me?Part II Listen and RespondSection A Word Bank(无)Section B Task One: Focusing on the Main IdeasChoose the best answer to each of the following questions according to the information contained in the listening passage.1) Where did the woman see the three old men?A) In front of her store.B) In her front yard.C) In her dream.D) In her doorway.2) Who were the three old men respectively?A) Success, Hope and Wealth.B) Faith, Hope, and Love.C) Wealth, Faith and Success.D) Love, Success and Wealth.3) Whom did the family invite in?A) Wealth.B) Love.C) Success.D) All of the above.4) How many of the old men would like to go into the house?A) One.B) Two.C) Three.D) Four.5) What is the main idea of the passage?A) Where there is love, there is wealth and success.B) One cannot live without wealth, love and success.C) Love is as important as wealth and success.D) Wealth and success are what people pursue most eagerly.▇ Answers for Reference:1) B 2) D 3) B 4) C 5) ASection C Task Two: Zooming in on the Details▇Listen to the recording again and fill in each of the blanks according to what you have heard.1) The woman thought that the three old men must be ____________, so she invited them to come in and havesomething __________.2) The old men said that they did not go into a house ________________.3) The husband wished to invite ________________, but the woman did not agree and wished to have_____________ , while their daughter suggested: “____________________________________?”4) The woman came out and asked: “Which one of you is________? Please come in and be our________.”5) The other two old men also got up and followed, which_________ the woman.6) One old man t old the woman: “If you had invited _________ or _________, the other two of us would__________.”▆ Answers:1) The woman thought that the three old men must be hungry, so she invited them to come in and havesomething to eat.2) The old men said that they did not go into a house together.3) The husband wished to invite Wealth, but the woman did not agree and wished to have Success, while theirdaughter suggested: “Wouldn’t it be better to invite Love?”4) The woman came out and asked: “Which one of yo u is Love? Please come in and be our guest.”5) The other two old men also got up and followed, which surprised the woman.6) One old man told the woman: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would havestayed out.”Script:An InvitationA woman saw three old men sitting in her front yard. She said, “I don’t think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat.”“We do not go into a house together,” they replied.“Why is that?” she wanted to know.On e of the old men explained: “His name is Wealth, this is Success, and I am Love.” Then he added, “Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home.”Then the woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband said, “Let’s invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth.” His wife disagreed, “My dear, why don’t we invite Success?” Then the daughter made a suggestion: “Wouldn’t it be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love.” “Let’s take our daughter’s advice,” said the father.So the woman went out and asked, “Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest.” Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other two also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked W ealth and Success: “I only invited Love. Why are you coming in?”The old men replied together: “If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would have stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever HE goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success.”Part III Read and ExploreText ASection A Discovering the Main Ideas1. Answer the following questions with the information contained in Text A.1) Is “love” easy to define? Why or why not?2) How does the au thor describe “puppy loves”?3) What does it take for love to develop into maturity?4) What helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’s parents’ generation?5) What negative roles do the media play in forming the younger generation’s view of lov e?6) What do young people today tend to value in relationships? What does the author think they should value? ▆ Answers for Reference:1) No. It is because love is a feeling that can only be felt but cannot be clearly described.2) “Puppy loves” are brief, silly, adventurous but harmless.3) Love takes time to blossom and it takes a lot of understanding, caring, sharing and affection to developinto maturity.4) It was the distance between men and women that helped preserve the holiness of love in the author’sparents’ generation.5) The media have exposed the younger generation to things that have fast paced their sensibilities so muchthat taking things slow requires effort.6) They tend to value physical beauty, closeness, passion and acquiring. The author thinks that they shouldvalue inner charm, intimacy, emotion and sharing.2.Text A can be divided into four parts with the paragraph number(s) of each part provided as follows. Write down the main idea of each part.Paragraph(s) Main IdeaPart One 1-2 ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Part Two 3-7 ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Part Three 8-12 ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Part Four 13-14 ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________▆ Answers for Reference:Paragraph(s) Main IdeaPart One 1-2 Love is hard to define because it can only be felt but not described.Part Two 3-7 The author discusses love of different depths from her own experiences.Part Three 8-12 The two generations handle love and relationships differently. The younger generation tends to be more hasty and selfish in building relationships.Part Four 13-14 The author advises young people to learn the essence of love and find ways to develop relationships into lifelong bonds.Section B In-Depth StudyLove is an overwhelming joy that is beyond description. It is human nature to yearn for and indulge in love, but true love takes a lot of understanding, much sharing and caring, and plenty of affection. What is true love? How deep is your love? The author shares her views with the younger generation on these questions.How Deep Is Your Love?Mansi Bhatia1Love to some is like a cloudTo some as strong as steelFor some a way of livingFor some a way to feelAnd some say love is holding onAnd some say let it goAnd some say love is everythingSome say they don’t know2 At some stage or the other in our lives we experience the gnawing pangs of an emotion which defies definition. It’s a feeling that can only be felt and not described. An overwhelming joy that comes together with its share of sadness. Love.3 Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be appreciated that we even find the time to ind ulge in matters of the heart.But at the same time I wonder if we even understand its true depth. I remember having countless crushes while in school. My math teacher, our neighbour’s son, my best friend’s brother and lots of others whom I fancied for the colour of their eyes, the shape of their moustaches or just the way they walked. Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles. I can laugh about all those silly and adventurous thoughts and acts now but at that time nothing could be more serious an affair for me. Then came the stage of real relationships.4 Being in an all girls’ school I hardly had the opportunity to interact with members of the opposite gender. Socials between our school and the boys’ college, therefore, would be awaited anxio usly. Those three hours of unhesitant attention by a group of well-groomed young gentlemen provided us with enough content to talk and feel exhilarated about for the next four weeks.5 And even then there was no real need of having a boyfriend.6 I somehow grew up believing that love would happen when it had to. And sure enough it did. It came at an age when I had a career, a long-term plan and a more or less settled life (and now I am not yet 25!). I was mature enough to enter a relationship which demands a lot of give and not so much of take.7 Love was a magnificent building I built on the foundation of friendship. It took time to blossom. It took a lot of understanding, loads of sharing and caring, and plenty of affection to become what it is today. And it meant a meeting of minds. You might say that I belong to the traditional school of romance. But in my opinion, love needs to be nurtured. And it has to be distinguished from the intense but short-lived love or the pleasures of the flesh.8 Our p arents’ generation was fed lavishly with ideals. It was an era of constraints, restraints, respect, admiration, and plenty of romance. The long skirts, the quiet and unpretentious looks, the curled long hair, the calmness, the shy glance—these are all so frequently remindful of a bygone era. An age when the distance between the sexes somehow managed to help preserve the holiness of love and relationships.9 The younger generation, with its openness and fading lines of proximity, has jumped on the bandwagon of love with so much haste that it is difficult for them to distinguish between physical attraction and mental compatibilities. What we have been exposed to via the media have fast paced our sensibilities so much that taking things slow requires effort on our parts.10 I am amazed when I hear stories of school kids bragging about the number of physical relationships they have had. I am horrified to learn that girls barely eighteen have already been in and out of seven to eight “hook ups”.11 I am sorry to learn about the kind of emotional baggage these kids are carrying in what are purely unemotional relationships. Some might blame the current state of affairs on peer pressure. But has anyone ever stopped to figure out where this peer pressure originates? Do any of us try and understand who is responsible for this shift? Does anyone bother to study the state of mind of the teenagers?12 The mindset of this generation is all too evident in the way it handles its personal life.There are more relationships being distorted under the pressures of lust than ever before. There is more focus on physical beauty than on inner charm. There is more of closeness and less of intimacy. There is more of passion and less of emotion. There is more of acquiring and less of sharing. There is more of opportunism and less of selflessness.In short, there is more of ME and less of US.13 We have hardened ourselves so much in this competitive age that we have forgotten the essence of relationships. There’s much more to being someone’s lover than gifting them red roses and fifty-cent cards. What about gifting our object of affection, our time, our company, our support, our friendship? What about setting priorities in our lives and focusing on each with sincerity? What about trying to be self-sufficient emotionally before letting ourselves loose? What about giving ourselves, and others, time and space to forge relationships? What about working towards meaningful and lasting friendships? What about honouring our commitments? What about channeling our energies and emotions towards building lifelong bonds ratherthan wasting them on seasonal relationships?14 We have but one life and we must experience everything that can make us stronger. True love happens once in a lifetime. And we should not have become so tired by our frivolous acts that when it comes we aren’t able to receive it with open arms.▇课文参考译文你的爱有多深曼茜·巴蒂亚1 有人认为爱如浮云有人认为爱坚强如铁有人认为爱是一种生活方式有人认为爱是一种感觉有人说爱要执着有人说爱不要约束有人说爱是生命的全部有人说不知道爱为何物2 在我们生命中的某个阶段，我们会经历某种难以名状的情感所带来的阵阵折磨。
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Unit 2 Book 3LoveI. Difficult Sentences1. Given the busy nature of our lives, it’s to be appreciated that we even findthe time to indulge in matters of the heart.(1) What does “matters of the heart” mean?(=something spiritual and emotional like love.)(2) Paraphrase this sentence.(=Taking into account that we are all busy satisfying our material needs, we should feel grateful that we still have the time to enjoy the feeling of\ loving and being loved.)2. Harmless puppy loves that are as brief as soap bubbles.(1) What are puppy loves?(=Puppy loves happen to people too young to understand true love.) (2) What are the same characteristics that puppy loves and soap bubblesshare according to the sentence?(=They are both short in existence and won’t produce too much influence on people nor will they do harm to people.)3. …nothing could be more serious an affair for me.(1) What does this sentence imply?(= To me, a love affair was the most serious thing.)(2) Analyze this sentence grammatically.(=The structure “nothing can be more (+adj.) than sth.” means sth. is the most (=adj.). When the comparative degree is used in a negative sentence, most often it means the superlative degree.More examples:*Nobody can do the job better than he can.*It can’t be worse.)4. Those three hours of unhesitant attention by a group of well-groomed younggentlemen provided with enough content to talk and feel excited aboutfor the next four weeks.(1) What usually would happen at the social?(=Those neatly dressed boys would never hesitate to pay attention to the girls or to attract the girls’ attention.)(2) What usually would happen to the girls after the social?(=They always felt excited and would keep on talking about thesocial experience for weeks.)5. And it has to be distinguished from the intense but short-lived love or thepleasures of the flesh.(1) What’s the difference between true love and the intense but short-livedlove or the pleasures of the flesh?(=True love develops slowly but lasts long, and it needs more sharing,caring and mutual understanding than the intense but short-lived love or the pleasures of the flesh.)(2) Translate this sentence into Chinese.(=我们必须把爱情同强烈而短暂的激情或身体的愉悦区别开来。
)6. An age when the distance between the sexes somehow managed to helppreserve the holiness of love and relationships.What can we infer from this sentence?(=Distance between sexes in some way contributes to the holiness of love and relationships between men and women.)7. What we have been exposed to via the media have fast paced oursensibilities so much that taking things slow requires effort on ourparts.(1) What is the influence of media on us according to the author?(=It makes us mentally and emotionally respond to love more quickly.)(2) Translate this sentence into Chinese.(=我们从媒体中接触到的人和事，使我们的感情历程大大加速，要想慢慢体会自己的感受，确实需要付出努力。
)8. There is more of closeness and less of intimacy.(1) What is the difference between closeness and intimacy?(=Closeness is meant in a physical sense, while intimacy is in the spiritual sense.)(2) What does this sentence imply?(= People in love can contact each other more easily, but they aren’t as spiritually close to each other as before.)9. In short, there is more of ME and less of US.What does this sentence mean?(=Today young people handle love in a more self-centered way, only concerned with their own feelings and even interests in an affair, forgetting that love also needs sharing and giving.)10. What about trying to be self-sufficient emotionally before letting ourselvesloose?(1) What can we infer from this sentence?(=Only when we become emotionally mature can we start a relationship and indulge in love.)(2) Translate this sentence into Chinese.(=等我们在感情上成熟起来后再尽情地追求爱情，怎么样？)11. What about channeling our energies and emotions toward building life-longbonds rather than wasting them on seasonal relationships?(1) What do “them” refer to in this sentence?(=our energies and emotions)(2) What do “seasonal relationships” mean?(=Literally the expression means relationships that vary from season to season. Here it means short-lived relationships we are involved in with different people.)12. And we should not have become so tired by our frivolous acts that when itcomes we aren’t able to receive it with open arms.(1) What does “it” refer to in this sentence?(=true love)(2) Translate this sentence into Chinese.(=我们本不应任由轻佻的行为令自己身心疲惫，以致当真爱到来时，却没有能力张开双臂迎接它。