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(2024年)bodylanguageppt课件

(2024年)bodylanguageppt课件

弥补言语不足
在某些情况下,身体语言 可以弥补言语表达的不足 ,如跨文化沟通中。
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身体语言与沟通的关系
互相补充
身体语言和言语沟通相互 补充,共同构成完整的沟 通过程。
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影响沟通效果
身体语言对沟通效果有重 要影响,积极的身体语言 可以促进沟通,消极的身 体语言则可能阻碍沟通。
文化差异
不同文化背景下,身体语 言的含义和表达方式可能 存在差异,需要在跨文化 沟通中特别注意。
身体距离
人与人之间的空间距离可以传 达出亲密、疏远、尊重等不同 的信息。
身体倾斜
身体向对方倾斜表示兴趣和关 注,而身体后仰则表示疏远和
不感兴趣。
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眼神交流
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注视
直接的眼神交流可以建立信任和亲密 关系,但过长时间的注视可能让人感 到不舒服。
瞥视
短暂的眼神交流可以传达出兴趣、好 奇或不满等情绪。
分类
身体语言可分为动态身体语言和静态 身体语言。动态身体语言包括手势、 面部表情、眼神等;静态身体语言包 括姿势、距离、空间等。
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身体语言的重要性
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传递信息
身体语言能够传递言语无 法表达的信息,如情感、 态度、信任等。
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强调言语
身体语言可以增强言语的 表达效果,使沟通更加准 确、生动。
在与不同文化背景的人交流时,注意了解并尊重对方的文化习俗和身体语言习惯,以避免 误解和冲突。
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THANKS
感谢观看
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眼神回避
避免眼神交流可能表示不诚实、不自 信或不感兴趣。

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吸烟
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眼镜
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控制对方的视线
向头脑传达的信息中87%通过眼睛,
9%通过耳朵,5%通过其他器官。 激光笔
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• 自然的笑容会让人的眼睛四周产生细纹,而 在一张不真诚的笑脸上,细纹只会出现在嘴 的周围;
• 笑容是一种顺从的信号; • 笑的越多,别人对你的态度越友好; • 笑有益于健康。
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通行法则
在电梯或公共交通工具遇到拥挤局面时的通行法则:
• 1.不跟任何人说话,包括自己认识的人。
• 2.总是避免和别人的目光相接触。 • 3.保持一本正经的表情,脸上不泄露任何情绪。 • 4.如果手上拿着一本书或者一份报纸,就假装看得全
神贯注。 • 5.在人数众多的拥挤人群里,身体保持一动不动。 • 6.在电梯里,一直盯着电梯层数的变化。
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爱情
• 扬起眉毛
把玩儿柱状物
• 嘴唇微启 摸脸
• 立正站立
瞳孔放大
• 整理着装 脸颊绯红
• 仰面与整理头发 暴露手腕
• 窥视
扭动臀部
• 盘腿而坐
眼睛斜视
• 整理领带
摸喉咙
• 拇指插向腰带
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肢体语言学习方法
• 定时(每天至少15分钟) • 随地(社交场合、电视关掉声音) • 印证和总结 • 应用
• 一、亲密距离(一拳间距离),通常用于父母与子女之间、情人或恋人之间, 在此距离上双方均可感受到对方的气味、呼吸、体温等私密性刺激。
• 二、个人距离(半臂间距离),一般是用于朋友之间,此时,人们说话温柔,可以感 知大量的体语信息。

各种肢体语言附图 ppt课件

各种肢体语言附图 ppt课件

各种肢体语言附图
• 扬起眉毛 把玩儿柱状物
• 嘴唇微启 摸脸
• 立正站立 瞳孔放大
• 整理着装 脸颊绯红
• 仰面与整理头发 暴露手腕
• 窥视
扭动臀部
• 盘腿而坐
眼睛斜视
• 整理领带
摸喉咙
• 拇指插向腰带
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• 定时(每天至少15分钟) • 随地(社交场合、电视关掉声音) • 印证和总结 • 应用
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图1为充满优越感和自信的姿势,2,3为消极情绪,自我控制,手越往上程度 月强。
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霸道的姿势, 图3为隐藏的 图5为消极和 带有优越感 图6为对他人 不敬
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说谎或需要安慰。
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自责1轻度2深度1开朗、随遇而安
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说话快速 、冒汗 、大口吸气 、过份友善 、 表现犹豫 、说话离题 、怕问细节
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• 通常情况下,如果一个人再回忆某件事情的时候,他的眼睛会自然的向左移 动,如果一个人在酝酿、策划或编造一件事情时,他的眼球会不自觉的向右 侧移动。
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• 摊开手掌表示坦诚
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对某些事物抱有期待,而且这种期待是饱含自信的。
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失望的姿势,正在克制一种消极的态度。手的高度与转变难度成正比。
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表示自信和无所不知,1是谈话和发表意见2是倾听谈话。
• 1、在耳朵部位搔痒痒或轻揉耳朵——说明对方已不想再听你说下去。 • 2、用手指轻轻触摸脖子——说明对方对你说的持怀疑或不同意态度。 • 3、把手放在脑袋后边——说明对方有意辩论。 • 4、用手挡住嘴或稍稍触及嘴唇或鼻子——说明对方想隐藏内心的真

Body Language身体语言英文PPT精选文档

Body Language身体语言英文PPT精选文档

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Example:
When Nixon first visited Brazil, he went out of the door in Brazil’s capital airport, in face of the Brazilian and the media from all over the world, he put his hands up with the OK gesture. He also constantly swing back and forth, just as he win the election victory. But the Brazilian around all booed on him and the next day, all headlines of Brazil media are the gesture of Nixon. Do you know why?
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interpretations. The misinterpretation nonverbal signs and
symbols such as gestures, postures, and other body movements.
It is a definite communication barrier.
As a young girl, I felt truly embarrassed and put up my hands to defend myself. His false smile told me that he had lost face.
Later, I received a cassette from him, in which he recorded his apology. On hearing that Columbians were more likely to kiss others, I soon felt at ease.

BodyLanguage身体语言英文课件

BodyLanguage身体语言英文课件
? 身体语言是非语言沟通的一个子集,补充了社交互动中的口头交流。
What can we know
from body language?
? We can understand what others are saying even when they are not talking.
? We can sense when people are silent and digesting information, or when they are
? 肢体语言是一种非言语传播的物理行为,而不是文字,是 用来表达或传达信息。这种行为包括面部表情、身体姿
t be confused with sign language, as
sign languages are full languages like spoken languages and have their own complex grammar systems, as well as being able to exhibit the fundamental properties that exist in all languages.
? 另一方面,身体语言没有语法,必须广 泛地解释,而不是具有与某种运动相对 应的绝对意义,所以它不是一种语言,
? Body language, a subset of nonverbal communication,
complements verbal communication in social interaction. In fact some researchers conclude that nonverbal communication accounts for the majority of information transmitted during interpersonal interactions.It helps to establish the relationship between two people and regulates interaction, but can be ambiguous. Hence, it is crucial to accurately read body language to avoid misunderstanding in social interactions.

BodyLanguage身体语言英文课件(2024)

BodyLanguage身体语言英文课件(2024)
• Showing Confidence: Confident body language, such as standing tall, making eye contact, and sliming, can help you project a positive and assertive image
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Vocal Elements such as Tone, Pitch, and Volume
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Tone
The tone of voice can accommodate emotions such as
happiness, sadness, anger, or surprise A pleasant tone can make
Eyebrow Movement
Raining eyebrows can indicate surprise or curvature, while furrowing them can signal angle or fusion
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Gestures and Postures
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Gestures
Head Movements
Nodding the head manually indicates agreement or understanding, while shading the head side to side typically means disagreement or denial
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Basic Elements of Body Language
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Facial Expressions and Eye Contact

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其他
不赞成他人的观点 又不愿意说
霸道,力图控制他人
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归属和所有权的姿势
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说谎
• 摸鼻子 • 用手掩口或用食指掩着上唇 • 磨擦眼睛 • 抓挠耳朵 • 抓挠脖子 • 拉拽衣领 • 假笑 、眼神闪缩 、面部抽搐 、面红 、
说话快速 、冒汗 、大口吸气 、过份友善 、 表现犹豫 、说话离题 、怕问细节
• 头部姿势 • 1、侧向一旁———说明对谈话有兴趣。 • 2、挺得笔直(抬头姿势)———说明对谈
判和对话人持中立态度。 • 3、低头———说明对对方的谈话不感兴趣
或持否定态度。
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眉毛
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我不喜欢你说的话,我不同意你的观点
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肩部姿势
• 使劲张开双臂 :说明有决心和责任感。。。 • 耷拉:说明心情沉重,感到压抑。。。 • 双肩往后耸 :不满、愤怒 • 耸肩 :不安、遗憾或恐怖 • 双肩向前挺出:当自感负担太重时 ,似乎
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指尖相碰
表示自信和无所不知,1是谈话和发表意见2是倾听谈话。
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握手、腕和臂
图1为充满优越感和自信的姿势,2,3为消极情绪,自我控制,手越往上程度 月强。
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拇指的姿势
霸道的姿势, 图3为隐藏的 图5为消极和 带有优越感 图6为对他人 不敬
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把手指放入嘴里
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坐姿
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掐腰
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身体语言的秘密 Secrets of Body Language

1A walk to convey power; a greeting that gets the upper hand; a gesture that can hide a lie, body language can betray us. When a president is under pressure, or a celebrity is in the media glare, look beyond the words, their body language says it all.This is a certain poise, self-touch gesture, hot spot, ormicro-expressions.In this special, experts will dissect the body, the face and the voice—It’s about our country. —to reveal its hidden meanings, its secrets. This is a world where what we say is all important. — They said this day would never come. —We hang on every word.—Tomorrow we begin again. Thank you. —But are we getting all the message —Older, darker, mean psychopaths, serial killers hang around…Research has shown that just 7% of human communication is through the actual words.93% of what we communicate with others is non-verbal.— Bang, bang, bang! —93%! Think about that. 93%! So it’s our tone of voice, our pitch, our posture, micro-expressions on our face and different gestures that we might use. So we put all the significance on 7% for words. We shouldn’t have really been doing that.Beyond the words lies a fascinating world of non-verbal communication, the secret world of body language. We are about to watch our one of the world leaders, our sports stars.— Good morning. —We’ll revisit famous figures from recent history.—Did you kill the President— Because people have got to know whether or not their president is a crook, well, but I am not a crook. I've earned everything I’ve got. We’ll view our celebrities with fresh eyes. We are going to show how people in the public eye try to control the way we perceive them, and how sometimes, despite their best efforts, the truth leaks out.— Whomever it might be, if the truth is told, then my name will be cleared and I can move on with my life.If you know what to look for.—It’s not what you are seeing. It’s what you are not seeing. And you are not seeing an, an anger response.We are going to equip you with the tools to read those body language giveaway.2You’re getting a hidden peek, a peek into the world of what’s really going on there. When you can read body language, every moment you spend with others, you can make it valuable, and if you are in business, you can make it profitable. Body language is crucial.For those who study nonverbal communication, one of the first indicators they look out for is the way someone’s body moves.At this Camp David Summit, President Bush is the host to visiting Russian President Vladimir Putin.Vladimir Putin knows the world is watching him on American soil and he also knows that his people are watching, so he must show strength.Here though, both leaders are making a strong body language statement. Now here we are, two powerful world leaders in a sort of striding contest, because of course, the faster you stride, the more strong, powerful and fit you are.But it’s not just the speed of walking that sends out messages.Vladimir Putin and George Bush, both of whom are fantastically powerful men, have two completely different kinds of power and it, evidences itself through body language.I thank you all for coming.Vladimir Putin has, what I would call, a very animal power, a strong man power. And he walks by having his shoulders that are actually bouncing back and, back and forth. And he walks. He also makes gestures. He is very active. I would almost call it a kind of sexy power. George Bush, on the other hand, has a more traditional, and I would say, American power. There is a very little movement above the shoulders. He’s trying to look like he’s controlled. There is no extra wasted energy.I thank you all for coming.Perceiving the body language message of these two powerful Presidents is straightforward. But body language is often complex and easily misunderstood. Here President Clinton leads Israeli and Palestinian leaders Ehud Barak and Yasser Arafat out before the press during peace negotiations. It’s all smiles for the cameras. But behind the facade of bonhomie, there is a power struggle going on. Clinton jokingly explains that none of them will take any questions. We pledged to each other that we would answer no questions and offer no comments. So, I have to set a good example.The body language then revealed just why that was.3Oh, my!Well…Wow, almost a physical fight.Many view this apparently light-hearted tussle as a sign that Arafat and Barak were getting on well. Think again.There is a, a great meaning behind who goes through the door first. Now, of course, see that here in the West, letting someone through the door first that doesn’t really matter, polite maybe. But in the Middle East, it has significan t cultural impact.The host, the power person says I’m in control, I’ll help you through the door, I’ll show you the way.Thank you.Throwing the fear and tension presented in most Middle East negotiations, and suddenly the desire of both Arafat and Barak not to go through that door before the other starts to make sense.This is a classic example in an extreme way of how the last man through the door is the winner. So Barak reaches for Yasser Arafat. Arafat literally grabs this on, moves around and starts waggling his finger at Barak who then, Barak then uses it as an opportunity like a wrestling match to move around, to actually be behind Arafat and then literally grabs Arafat, to hold him by the arm and shoves him through the door boldly.So you’ve got fea r and power struggle showing in big, big, big, big, bold body language movements.Arafat and Barak are not the only ones to appreciate the significance of the last man through the door move. Even when friends and allies meet, subtle cues reveal who’s top d og.2003, British Prime Minister Tony Blair plays host to President Bush.In this particular example, we are looking at No.10 Downing Street and one would expect Tony Blair to be very territorial. It’s his territory. He should be host. He should be in charge and the boss in terms of who at least goes through the door.And yet, Tony Blair the Prime Minister accepts that the seniority in place here is the President. So President Bush says photo job is over, gives him a little nod, and so they start getting in. The…4The president is in charge of the choreography.He goes through the door last. He uses his left hand and taps Blair forward, not shoving Blair through the door, but helping him through the door, meaning Bush is in charge.As they go in, the president being in charge and wanting him to be clear that he is in charge, not only displays the ownership symbol of putting his hand on Tony Blair's back, but then he displays a further bit of dominance—gives him three little taps, just to let him know that actually he is a good little boy and that George W. Bush is boss.A pat on the back is one way to demonstrate power. Getting the upper hand is another, quite literally.When body language savvy world leaders get together, they know there's one sure fire moment to demonstrate dominance, the handshake photo while.If you're looking at the left of the picture, they always wanna be standing on the left of the picture. Let me demonstrate. If I'm shaking hands here, what's gonna happen I'm at the bottom of the handshake. My palm is facing up. That's a very vulnerable position. If I'm shaking hands here, and I've got my arm around the person I'm shaking hands, who is in, who’s got the upper hand I've got the upper hand.If someone's coming in to shake your hand like this, here's the nice solid handshake. It should be straight and firm. If it's not...Janine Driver teaches body language evening classes.It’s kind of hard to dominate. You are a powerful boy...She believes the visual impact of important handshakes was first appreciated in 1970 when Elvis Presley famously paid a visit to President Nixon at the White House.We see a picture of Nixon and he’s shaking hands with Elvis Presley. Nixon's got the upper hand. That's where the expression comes from—I've got the upper hand here. So now that people know about this in politics, you see them jogging for position when it comes time to take the picture.At this Summit in 2006 hosted by Vladimir Putin, the Russian leader was on full handshake alert.He’s strategically placed himself in a position where when they're coming forward, he's gonna get the dominant position. They are coming out of cars, this way they're coming up to him. The cameras are here. Every single picture, who gets the upper hand Putin.Then up strides Tony Blair.We see that Tony Blair is going to actually grab onto Vladimir Putin's hands that, this classic thing of grabbing somebody by the elbow to show who is actually the leader.Score one for Blair.PS:开篇的“The”为续片段3片末的最后一个单词。

(2024年)bodylanguage身体语言ppt课件


非言语沟通
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在言语无法表达或不便表达时,身体语言成为重要的沟通手段。
建立信任
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真诚的身体语言有助于建立信任关系,如眼神交流、微笑等。
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身体语言的跨文化差异
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不同文化背景下的身体语言差异
问候与告别
在某些文化中,人们见面时可能会亲吻或拥抱,而在其他文化中, 握手或鞠躬更为常见。
交谈与表达
手势自然,避免过度夸张或紧张, 保持开放与自信的姿态。
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职场环境
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面试与谈判
保持身体正直,眼神坚定自信,避免多余动作,展现专业素养。
团队合作
积极倾听,给予肯定反馈,保持开放姿态,促进团队凝聚力。
领导与演讲
站立自信,手势有力,保持眼神交流,展现领导力与魅力。
言语和非言语信息往往相互关联,需要结合两者进行理解和解读。
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注意个体差异
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尊重个人空间 不同的人对于个人空间的需求不同,需要尊重并理解这种 差异。
注意性格差异 性格不同的人可能会表现出不同的身体语言特征,需要注 意观察并理解其含义。
考虑情绪状态 情绪状态会对身体语言产生影响,需要注意观察并理解其 含义。
空间距离的文化差异 不同文化对于适当的空间距离有不同的期望和界 限。
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空间距离与亲疏关系 空间距离的远近可以反映人与人之间的亲疏关系 和情感联系。
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身体语言在不同场合的应 用
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社交场合
问候与打招呼
身体前倾,微笑,眼神交流,表 示友好与尊重。

BodyLanguage身体语言英文课件

目录•Introduction to Body Language •Basic Elements of Body Language •Interpreting Body Language Signals •Cultural Variations in Body Language•Applications of Body Language KnowledgeDefinition and Importance of Body Language DefinitionBody language refers to the non-verbal communications that we use to express our feelings, thoughts, and attributes through physical behaviors such as legal expressions, eye contacts, styles, posts, and spatial relationshipsImportanceBody language plays a critical role in communication as it can convey messages that words alone cannot be It can be completed, reinforced, or even direct verbal communication, and is essential for building trust and rapport in relationshipsFunctions of Body Language in CommunicationCross Cultural Differences in Body LanguageFacial Expressions and Eye ContactFacial ExpressionsEye ContactEyebrow MovementGestures and PosturesGesturesPosturesHead MovementsVocal Elements such as Tone, Pitch, and VolumeTone01Pitch02Volume03Proxemics This refers to the use of space and distance in communication People from different cultures may have different comfort levels with personal space Standing too close to someone can make them feel uncomfortable, while standing too far away can make communication difficult要点一要点二Personal SpaceThe amount of personal space people require canvary depending on cultural norms and personal preferences In some cultures, it is acceptable to stand close to others during conversation, while in others maintaining a greater distance is preferredProxemics and Personal SpaceUnderstanding Non verbal Cues in Different ContextsNon verbal cues can indicate power dynamics between individuals, such as eye contact, pose, and spatial distancePower DynamicsBody language varies across cultures, so it's important to understand thenorms and expectations of non-verbal communication in different cultural contextsCultural Differences Body language can change depending on the social settings, so as in a business meeting, a casual conversation, or a romantic dateSocial SettingsMixed MessagesPeople may say one thing verbally but communicate something different non-verbally, so as sliming while saying something negativeIncongruence betweenverbal and non-verbalmessages can be a sign ofperception, as people mayhave diverse control overboth sidesSometimes, people's wordsand body language may notmatch due to emotionaldisconnect or internalconflictConceptDetectionEmotionalDisconnectRecognizing Incongruence between Verbal and Non Verbal Messages01 02 03Clusters of Cues MicroexpressionsBody Language and PersonalityAnalyzing Complex Body Language PatternsFarewell rituals also have buffer across cultures In some cultures, it is customary to say Goodbyeand then walk away, while in others, so as in the Middle East, it is common to say Goodbye and then stand and watch the other person leaveIn some cultures, such as in the United States, it is common to shake hands when meetingsomeone, while in other cultures, such as in Japan, a slim nod or bow is the preferred meetingThe use of Kisses on the Cheek or Hugs as greetings varies widely across cultures In some LatinAmerican countries, for example, it is common to meet someone with a kiss on the Cheek, while in many Asian cultures, this type of physical contact is many less commonGreeting and Farewell Rituals across CulturesGestures that Have Different Meanings in Different CulturesNorms for Eye Contact and Personal Space Vary by CultureImproving Interpersonal Communication SkillsUnderstanding non-verbal cuesBuilding trust and rapportManaging conflictEnhancing Public Speaking AbilitiesCommanding the stageConveying emotionManaging emotionsDeveloping Leadership Quality through Non verbal Communication。

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身体语言的秘密s o f B o d y L a n g u a g e 文件管理序列号:[K8UY-K9IO69-O6M243-OL889-F88688]1A walk to convey power; a greeting that gets the upper hand; a gesture that can hide a lie, body language can betray us. When a president is under pressure, or a celebrity is in the media glare, look beyond the words, their body language says it all. This is a certain poise, self-touch gesture, hot spot, ormicro-expressions.In this special, experts will dissect the body, the face and the voice—It’s about our country. —to reveal its hidden meanings, its secrets.This is a world where what we say is all important. — They said this day would never come. —We hang on every word.—Tomorrow we begin again. Thank you. —But are we getting all the message— Older, darker, mean psychopaths, serial killers hang around…Research has shown that just 7% of human communication is through the actual words.93% of what we communicate with others is non-verbal.— Bang, bang, bang! —93%! Think about that. 93%! So it’s our tone of voice, our pitch, our posture, micro-expressions on our face and different gestures that we might use. So we put all thesignificance on 7% for words. We shouldn’t have really been doing that.Beyond the words lies a fascinating world of non-verbal communication, the secret world of body language. We are aboutto watch our one of the world leaders, our sports stars.—Good morning. —We’ll revisit famous figures from recent history.—Did you kill the President— Because people have got to know whether or not theirpresident is a crook, well, but I am not a crook. I've earned everything I’ve got.We’ll view our celebrities with fresh eyes. We are going to show how people in the public eye try to control the way we perceive them, and how sometimes, despite their best efforts,the truth leaks out.— Whomever it might be, if the truth is told, then my namewill be cleared and I can move on with my life.If you know what to look for.—It’s not what you are seeing. It’s what you are not seeing. And you are not seeing an, an anger response.We are going to equip you with the tools to read those body language giveaway.2You’re getting a hidden peek, a peek into the world of what’s really going on there. When you can read body language, every moment you spend with others, you can make it valuable, and if you are in business, you can make it profitable. Body languageis crucial.For those who study nonverbal communication, one of the first indicators they look out for is the way someone’s body moves.At this Camp David Summit, President Bush is the host tovisiting Russian President Vladimir Putin.Vladimir Putin knows the world is watching him on American soil and he also knows that his people are watching, so he must show strength.Here though, both leaders are making a strong body language statement.Now here we are, two powerful world leaders in a sort ofstriding contest, because of course, the faster you stride, the more strong, powerful and fit you are.But it’s not just the speed of walking that sends out messages. Vladimir Putin and George Bush, both of whom are fantastically powerful men, have two completely different kinds of power and it, evidences itself through body language.I thank you all for coming.Vladimir Putin has, what I would call, a very animal power, a strong man power. And he walks by having his shoulders that are actually bouncing back and, back and forth. And he walks. He also makes gestures. He is very active. I would almost call it a kind of sexy power. George Bush, on the other hand, has a more traditional, and I would say, American power. There is a very little movement above the shoulders. He’s trying to look like he’s controlled. There is no extra wasted energy.I thank you all for coming.Perceiving the body language message of these two powerful Presidents is straightforward. But body language is often complex and easily misunderstood.Here President Clinton leads Israeli and Palestinian leaders Ehud Barak and Yasser Arafat out before the press during peace negotiations. It’s all smiles for the cameras. But behind the facade of bonhomie, there is a power struggle going on. Clinton jokingly explains that none of them will take any questions. We pledged to each other that we would answer no questions and offer no comments. So, I have to set a good example.The body language then revealed just why that was.3Oh, my!Well…Wow, almost a physical fight.Many view this apparently light-hearted tussle as a sign that Arafat and Barak were getting on well. Think again.There is a, a great meaning behind who goes through the door first. Now, of course, see that here in the West, letting someone through the door first that doesn’t really matter, polite maybe. But in the Middle East, it has significant cultural impact.The host, the power person says I’m in control, I’ll help you throug h the door, I’ll show you the way.Thank you.Throwing the fear and tension presented in most Middle East negotiations, and suddenly the desire of both Arafat and Barak not to go through that door before the other starts to make sense.This is a classic example in an extreme way of how the last man through the door is the winner. So Barak reaches for Yasser Arafat. Arafat literally grabs this on, moves around and starts waggling his finger at Barak who then, Barak then uses it as anopportunity like a wrestling match to move around, to actuallybe behind Arafat and then literally grabs Arafat, to hold himby the arm and shoves him through the door boldly.So you’ve got fear and power struggle showing in big, big, big, big, bold body language movements.Arafat and Barak are not the only ones to appreciate the significance of the last man through the door move. Even when friends and allies meet, subtle cues reveal who’s top dog. 2003, British Prime Minister Tony Blair plays host to President Bush.In this particular example, we are looking at No.10 Downing Street and one would expect Tony Blair to be very territorial. It’s his territory. He should be host. He should be in charge and the boss in terms of who at least goes through the door.And yet, Tony Blair the Prime Minister accepts that theseniority in place here is the President. So President Bushsays photo job is over, gives him a little nod, and so theystart getting in. The…4The president is in charge of the choreography.He goes through the door last. He uses his left hand and taps Blair forward, not shoving Blair through the door, but helping him through the door, meaning Bush is in charge.As they go in, the president being in charge and wanting him to be clear that he is in charge, not only displays the ownership symbol of putting his hand on Tony Blair's back, but then he displays a further bit of dominance—gives him three little taps, just to let him know that actually he is a good little boy and that George W. Bush is boss.A pat on the back is one way to demonstrate power. Getting the upper hand is another, quite literally.When body language savvy world leaders get together, they know there's one sure fire moment to demonstrate dominance, the handshake photo while.If you're looking at the left of the picture, they always wanna be standing on the left of the picture. Let me demonstrate. If I'm shaking hands here, what's gonna happen I'm at the bottom of the handshake. My palm is facing up. That's a very vulnerable position. If I'm shaking hands here, and I've got my arm around the person I'm shaking hands, who is in, who’s got the upper hand I've got the upper hand.If someone's coming in to shake your hand like this, here's the nice solid handshake. It should be straight and firm. If it's not...Janine Driver teaches body language evening classes.It’s kind of hard to dominate. You are a powerful boy...She believes the visual impact of important handshakes wasfirst appreciated in 1970 when Elvis Presley famously paid a visit to President Nixon at the White House.We see a picture of Nixon and he’s shaking hands with Elvis Presley. Nixon's got the upper hand. That's where the expression comes from—I've got the upper hand here. So nowthat people know about this in politics, you see them jogging for position when it comes time to take the picture.At this Summit in 2006 hosted by Vladimir Putin, the Russian leader was on full handshake alert.He’s strategically placed himself in a position where when they're coming forward, he's gonna get the dominant position. They are coming out of cars, this way they're coming up to him. The cameras are here. Every single picture, who gets the upper hand Putin.Then up strides Tony Blair.We see that Tony Blair is going to actually grab onto Vladimir Putin's hands that, this classic thing of grabbing somebody by the elbow to show who is actually the leader.Score one for Blair.PS:开篇的“The”为续片段3片末的最后一个单词。

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