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FacebookCOO桑德伯格毕业演讲:失去一生所爱,让我变得更加坚强

FacebookCOO桑德伯格毕业演讲:失去一生所爱,让我变得更加坚强

FacebookCOO桑德伯格毕业演讲:失去一生所爱,让我变得更加坚强以下为Facebook首席运营官雪莉·桑德伯格(Sheryl Sandberg)2017年5月12日在弗吉尼亚理工学院毕业典礼上的演讲。

桑兹校长,尊敬的教师,自豪的父母,忠实的朋友,年轻的兄弟姐妹们……祝贺你们。

最重要的是,祝贺弗吉尼亚理工学院(Virginia Tech)2017届的毕业生们!我很荣幸来到这里,这个旧金山夏日让人备感亲切,一如任何名字中带有“Tech”的事物。

今天,你们作为2017届的毕业生,我为你们感到激动。

为所有前来为你们加油鼓气的人感到激动。

从你踏进校门的那天起,他们便鞭策着你,帮你抹去泪水,陪你开怀大笑,直到今天。

让我们向他们表达衷心的感谢。

毕业演讲往往是单方面的。

演讲者,也就是我,传授自己得来不易的人生经验。

毕业生,也就是你们,坐在雨中,体贴地倾听。

然后,你们把帽子扔向空中,拥抱朋友,让父母拍上一大堆照片——然后开始精彩的人生……也许顺道去趟Sharkey’s餐馆,走之前再来一盘鸡翅。

今天会不太一样,我不讲大家不知道的。

我想讲讲弗吉尼亚理工学院社群再清楚不过的。

今天,我想谈谈韧劲。

这所大学有很多知名的东西。

你们的善良与正派,你们的学术成就,你们根深蒂固的校园精神。

我有很多时间都在跟大学打交道,虽是工作需要,但也是因为我想重温双十年华。

谈起自己的母校时,很少有人像霍奇谈论弗吉尼亚理工那样。

那种骄傲与团结,那种深深的认同感……只要问一个问题就可以证明。

霍奇是什么?(我就是!)在美国弗吉尼亚理工学院是一种吉祥物(也可代指该学院学生),也代表了学院的一种永不服输的精神这就是了。

你们也许没有意识到,在霍奇精神的鼓舞下,你们的韧劲也日益增强。

近两年来,我都在研究韧劲这个东西,因为我经历了一件事,它所要求我具备的,是以前的我自认为做不到的。

两年零十一天前,我的丈夫大卫突然意外离世。

有时候,这些话我至今仍难以启齿,因为我到现在还是不太能接受那个现实。

清华校长毕业典礼演讲稿:坚定信念,勇攀高峰

清华校长毕业典礼演讲稿:坚定信念,勇攀高峰

清华校长毕业典礼演讲稿:坚定信念,勇攀高峰:首先我要恭贺各位在清华求学的几年,能够在这里通过自己的努力,取得如此优异的成绩,毕业离校了。

今天毕业典礼的举行,让我们不仅仅是庆祝你们的辉煌成果,也是告诉你们一个信息,那就是你们将走向新的起点。

这些年的拼搏,唯有你们自己知道其中的艰辛,对此,我深有体会。

当然,我们都清楚,在这个高度竞争的时代,今日的成就无法再是明天的保障,只有不停地勇攀更高峰!正所谓,“山重水复疑无路,柳暗花明又一村”。

那么,在这新的起点上,我们应该如何才能够勇攀高峰呢?我的话题是“坚定信念,勇攀高峰”。

其中,坚定信念,绝对是第一步,而且是不可或缺的一步。

我们要求助于历史之书,来探寻坚定信念的奥秘。

以我个人而言,我会回想起那些耳熟能详,但却经久不衰的故事,那些英雄们通过坚定不移的信念、拼尽全力的精神和毅力,最终战胜众多难关。

纵观世界各国,无论是爱因斯坦、比尔·盖茨、还是乔布斯等等,他们都获得了自己的成功,也离不开坚定不移的信念和信仰。

信念是我们的内在支持,能够引领我们走向正确的方向,在追求成功的道路上,我们会常常遇到挫折,这时候,我们需要坚定的信念来支持我们,告诉我们,前方还有更光明的路在等待着我们。

信念也是我们的动力,它能让我们在困难时执着坚持下去,同时也是我们的加速器,它能让我们倍感动力,超越自我,创造奇迹。

作为现在的毕业生,大家已经具备了一定的学历,如果说没有事业心,没有成功的信念,只有一张空洞、无意义的文凭,那毫无疑问,这将是一份失败的协议。

是勇攀高峰,这要求我们必须不断地更新自己的思想,不断地破除思维桎梏,做到持续创新。

我们可以在学业或者工作中不断追求卓越,勇于尝试新的想法,勇于推翻以前已有的传统的思维模式。

勇气是人类立于不败之地的铁律,只要有坚定的信念,又无惧风雨,我们就会有无穷的力量,才能让不可能的事情成为可能。

除此之外,还有一些基本素质需要我们不断提高。

比如说拥有了坚定的信念之后,我们便会对自己的目标——无论是学业或是工作——心知肚明。

桑德伯格在加州大学伯克利分校毕业典礼上的演讲

桑德伯格在加州大学伯克利分校毕业典礼上的演讲

Facebook COO雪莉桑德伯格在加州大学伯克利分校2016毕业典礼上的演讲5月14日,Facebook首席运营官、《向前一步》作者雪莉?桑德伯格(Sheryl Sandberg )在加州大学伯克利分校(UC Berkeley)2016毕业典礼上发表演讲。

在丈夫离世一年之际,她讲到了痛失爱人的痛苦以及应付挫折的韧性。

丈夫去世后,她在“向前一步”方面有些新思考,近来也引发不少讨论。

UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA, BERKELEY 2016 Commencement AddressThank you, Marie. And thank you esteemed members of the faculty, proud parents, devoted friends, squirming siblings.Con gratulati ons to all of you …and especially to the magn ifice nt Berkeley graduati ng classof 2016!It is a privilege to be here at Berkeley, which has produced so many Nobel Prize winners,Turing Award winners, astronauts, members of Congress, Olympic gold medalists ・・and that 's just thewomen!Berkeley has always been ahead of the times. In the 1960s, you led the Free Speech Movement. Back in those days, people used to say that with all the long hair, how do we even tell the boys from the girls? We now know the answer: manbuns.Early on, Berkeley opened its doors to the entire population. When this campus opened in 1873, the class included 167 men and 222 women. It took my alma mater another ninety years to award a single degree to a single woman.One of the women who came here in search of opportunity was Rosalind Nuss. Roz grew up scrubbing floors in the Brooklyn boardinghouse where she lived. She was pulled out of high school by her parents to help support their family. One of her teachers insisted that her parents put her back into school —and in 1937, she sat where you are sitting today and received a Berkeley degree. Roz was my grandmother. She was a huge inspiration to me and I 'm so grateful that Berkeley recognized her potential. I want to take a moment to offer a special congratulations to the many here today who are the first generation in their families to graduate from college. What a remarkable achievement.Today is a day of celebration. A day to celebrate all the hard work that got you to this moment.Today is a day of thanks. A day to thank those who helped you get here —nurtured you, taught you,cheered you on, and dried your tears.Or at least the ones who didn 't draw on you with a Sharpie when you fell asleep at a party.Today is a day of reflection. Because today marks the end of one era of your life and the beginning of something new.A commencement address is meant to be a dance between youth and wisdom. You have the youth. Someone comes in to be the voice of wisdom —that 's supposed to be me. I stand up here and tell you all the things I have learned in life, you throw your cap in the air, you let your family take a millio n photos —don' t forget to post them on In stagram and eve—o negoes home happy.Today will be a bit different. We will still do the caps and you still have to do the photos. But I am not here to tell you all the things I ' ve learned in life. ToydtoayteIllwyilol utr what I learned in death.I have never spoken publicly about this before. It ' s hard. But I will do my very best not to blow my nose on this beautiful Berkeley robe.One year and thirteen days ago, I lost my husband, Dave. His death was sudden and unexpected. We were at a friend ' s fiftieth birthday party in Mexico. I took a nap. Dave went to work out. What followed was theunthinkable —walking into a gym to find him lying onthe floor. Flying home to tell my children that their father was gone. Watching his casket being lowered into the ground.For many months afterward, and at many times since, I was swallowed up in the deep fog of grief —what I think of as the void —an emptiness that fills your heart, your lungs, constricts your ability to think or even to breathe.Dave' s death changed me in very profound ways. I learned about the depths of sadness and the brutality of loss. But I also learned that when life sucks you under, you can kick against the bottom, break the surface, and breathe again. I learned that in the face of the void —or in the face of any challenge —you can choose joy and meaning.I ' m sharing this with you in the hopes that today, as you take the next step in your life, you can learn the lessons that I only learned in death. Lessons about hope, strength, and the light within us that will not be extinguished.Everyone who has made it through Cal has already experienced some disappointment. You wanted an A but you got a B. OK, let 's be hyoonuesgtot a—n A- but you ' re still mad. You applied for an internship at Facebook, but you only got one from Google. She was the love of your life … but the n she swiped left. Game of Thrones the show has diverged way too much from the books —and you botheredto read all four thousand three hundred and fifty-two pages.You will almost certainly face more and deeper adversity. There 's loss of opportunity: the job that doesn'wtork out, the illness or accident that changes everything in an instant.There's loss of dignity: the sharp sting of prejudice when it happens. There 's loss o broken relationships that can 't be fixed. And sometimes there 's loss of life itself.Some of you have already experienced the kind of tragedy and hardship that leave an indelible mark. Last year, Radhika, the winner of the University Medal, spoke so beautifully about the sudden loss of her mother. The question is not if some of these things will happen to you. They will. Today I want to talk about what happens next. About the things you can do to overcome adversity, no matter what form it takes or when it hits you. The easy days ahead of you will be easy. It is the hard days—the times that challenge you to your very core —that will determine who you are. You will be defined not just by what you achieve, but by how you survive.A few weeks after Dave died, I was talking to my friend Phil about a father-son activity that Dave was not here to do. We came up with a plan to fill in for Dave. I cried to him, want Dave. ” Phil put his arm around me and said, “Option A is not available. So letkick the shit out of option B. ”We all at some point live some form of option B. The question is: What do we do then?As a representative of Silicon Valley, I 'm pleased to tell you there is data to learn from. After spending decades studying how people deal with setbacks, psychologist Martin Seligman found that there are three P pe'rsosn—alization, pervasiveness, and permanence —that arecritical to how we bounce back from hardship. The seeds of resilience are planted in the way we process the negative events in our lives.The first P is personalization —the belief that we are at fault. This is different from taking responsibility, which you should always do. This is the lesson that not everything that happens to us happens because of us.When Dave died, I had a very common reaction, which was to blame myself. He died in seconds from acardiac arrhythmia. I poured over his medical records asking what I could have—or should have —done. It wasn 't until I learned about the three P ce'ptsetdhat I ac that I could not have prevented his death. His doctors had not identified his coronary artery disease. I was an economics major; how could I have?Studies show that getting past personalization can actually make you stronger. Teachers who knew they could do better after students failed adjusted their methods and saw future classes go on to excel. College swimmers who underperformed but believed they were capable of swimming faster did. Not taking failures personally allows us to recover —and even to thrive.The second P is pervasiveness—the belief that an event will affect all areas of your life. You know that song “ Everything is awesome? ” This is the flip: “ Everything is awful. ”place to run or hide from the all-consuming sadness.The child psychologists I spoke to encouraged me to get my kids back to their routine as soon as possible. So ten days after Dave died, they went back to school and I went back to work. I remember sitting in my first Facebook meeting in a deep, deep haze. All I could think was, “ What is everyone talking about and how could this possibly matter? ” But got drawn into the discussion and for a second —a brief split second —I forgot about death.That brief second helped me see that there were other things in my life that were not awful. My children and I were healthy. My friends and family were so loving and they carried us—quite literally at times.The loss of a partner often has severe negative financial consequences, especially for women. So many single mothers —and fathers —struggle to make ends meet or have jobs that don ' t allow them the time they need to care for their children. I had financial security, the ability to take the time off I needed, and a job that I did not just believe in, but where it 'asctually OK to spend all day on Facebook. Gradually, my children started sleeping through the night, crying less, playing more.The third P is permanence —the belief that the sorrow will last forever. For months, no matter what I did, it felt like the crushing grief would always be there.We often project our current feelings out indefinitely —and experience what I think of asthe second derivative of those feelings. We feel anxious —and then we feel anxious that we're anxious. We feel sad —and then we feel sad that wsaed. Inste'adr,ewe should acceptour feelings —but recognize that they will not last forever. My rabbi told me that time would heal but for now I should “ lean in to the suck. ” It was good advice, but not reallywhat I meant by “ lean in. ”None of you need me t o explain the fourth P …which is, of course, pizza from Cheese Board.But I wish I had known about the three P 's when I was your age. There were so many times these lessons would have helped.Day one of my first job out of college, my boss found out that I didn 't know how to enter data into Lotus 1-2- 3. That 's a spreadsheeatsk y—our parents. His mouth dropped open and he said, ‘I can 't believe you got this job without knowing thaatnd then walked”ou—t of theroom. I went home convinced that I was going to be fired. I thought I was terrible at everything …but it turns out I was only terrible at spreadsheets. Understanding pervasiveness would have saved me a lot of anxiety that week.I wish I had known about permanence when I broke up with boyfriends. It would ve been a ' comfort to know that feeling was not going to last forever, and if I was being honest with myself … neither were any of those relationships.And I wish I had understood personalization when boyfriends broke up with me. Sometimes it 's not youit re—ally is them. I mean, that dude never showered.And all three P 's ganged up on me in my twenties after my first marriage ended in divorce. Ithought at the time that no matter what I accomplished, I was a massive failure.The three P 's are common emotionraelactions to so many things that happen to us —in our careers, our personal lives, and our relationships. You 're probably feeling one of them righ now about something in your life. But if you can recognize you are falling into these traps, you can catch yourself. Just as our bodies have a physiological immune system, our brains have a psychological immune system —and there are steps you can take to help kick it intogear.One day my friend Adam Grant, a psychologist, suggested that I think about how much worse things could be. This was completely counterintuitive; it seemed like the way to recover was to try to find positive thoughts. “Worse?”I said. “Areyou kidding me? How could things be worse?”His answer cut straight through me: “Davecould have had that same cardiac arrhythmia while he was driving your children. ” Wow. The moment he said it,I was overwhelmingly grateful that the rest of my family was alive and healthy. That gratitude overtook some of the grief.Finding gratitude and appreciation is key to resilience. People who take the time to list things they are grateful for are happier and healthier. It turns out that counting your blessings can actually increase your blessings. My New Year 's resolution this year is to writ down three moments of joy before I go to bed each night. This simple practice has changed my life. Because no matter what happens each day, I go to sleep thinking of something cheerful. Try it. Start tonight when you have so many fun moments to list—although maybe do it before y ou hit Kip 's and can still remember what they are.Last month, eleven days before the anniversary of Dave 's death, I broke down crying to a friend of mine. We were sitting —of all places —on a bathroom floor. I said: “Eleven days. One year ago, he had eleven days left. And we had no idea. ”We looked at each other through tears, and asked how we would live if we knew we had eleven days left.As you graduate, can you ask yourselves to live as if you had eleven days left? I don blow everything off and party all the time —although tonight is an exception. I mean live with the understanding of how precious every single day would be. How precious every day actually is.A few years ago, my mom had to have her hip replaced. When she was younger, she always walked without pain. But as her hip disintegrated, each step became painful. Now, even years after her operation, she is grateful for every step she takes without pain —something that never would have occurred to her before.As I stand here today, a year after the worst day of my life, two things are true. I have a huge reservoir of sadness that is with me always —right here where I can touch it. I never knew I could cry so often —or so much.But I am also aware that I am walking without pain. For the first time, I am grateful for eachbreath in and out — grateful for the gift of life itself. I used to celebrate my every five years and friends ' birthdays sometimes. Now I celebrate always. I used to go to sleep worrying about all the things I messed up that day — and trust me that list was often quite long. Now I try really hard to focus on each day ' s moments of joy.It is the greatest irony of my life that losing my husban d helped me find deeper gratitude — gratitude for the kindness of my friends, the love of my family, the laughter of my children. My hope for you is that you can find that gratitude — not just on the good days, like today, but on the hard ones, when you will really need it.There are so many moments of joy ahead of you. That trip you always wanted to take. A first kiss withsomeone youreally like. The day you get a job doing something you truly believe in. Beating Stanford. (Go Bears!) All of these things will happen to you. Enjoy each and every one.I hope that you live your life — each precious day of it —with joy and meaning. I hope that you walk without pain — and that you are grateful for each step.And when the challenges come, I hope you remember that anchored deep within you is the ability to learn and grow. You are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. Like a muscle, you can build it up, draw on it when you need it. In that process you will figure out who you really are — and you just might become the very best version of yourself.Class of 2016, as you leave Berkeley, build resilience.Build resilience in yourselves. When tragedy or disappointment strike, know that you have the ability to get through absolutely anything. I promise you do. As the saying goes, we are more vulnerable than we ever thought, but we are stronger than we ever imagined.Build resilient organizations. If anyone can do it, you can, because Berkeley is filled withpeople who want to make the world a better place. Never stop working to do so —whetherit ' s a boardroom that is not representative or a campus that at institutions like this one, which you hold so dear. My favorite poster atwork reads, “ Nothing at Facebook is someone else ' s problem. ” When you see something that go fix it.Build resilient communities. We find our humanity — our will to live and our ability to love —in ourconnections to one another. Be there for your family and friends. And I mean in person. Not just in amessage with a heart emoji.Lift each other up, help each other kick the shit out of option B —and celebrate each andevery moment of joy.You have the whole world in front of you. I can ' t wait to see what you do with it. Congratulations, and Go Bears!桑德伯格在加州大学伯克利分校 2016毕业典礼上的演讲 谢谢玛丽。

《向前一步》读书分享

《向前一步》读书分享

《向前一步》读书分享谢丽尔·桑德伯格的最新力作《向前一步》,激励全球女性勇敢地追求自己的目标,实现事业与家庭生活的完美平衡。

最近读完这本书,深受鼓舞,对于女性的向前一步,有了一些思考:什么是成功女性?成功女性是全能女性?在之前的观念里,思想偏保守的我总觉得“女强人”是一个贬义词,似乎成为了这种女性是踩了红线一样,而且等待自己的可能就是嫁不出去的厄运。

毕业后,学学前教育的我,顺理成章的成为了一名稳定的幼儿老师,压力不大,过着稳定的生活。

上了7年的大学,从大专到研究生,专业调剂成了学前教育,我似乎在被命运这张无形的手牵引着往前走,我不知道自己最终会被推向何方。

做幼儿教育收获了很多成长,犹记得,孩子们天真的笑脸和稚嫩有爱的话语让我心灵受到很大触动。

尤其是当班里一个萌萌哒小女孩儿说:“老师,您辛苦了!”,我的内心收获了满满的感动和成就感,瞬间消解了一天的疲劳。

但是,自己的内心也充满着迷茫和困惑,或许是对自己的认识还不够深刻,自己内心还不够强大。

读了这本书,我对成功女性的认识有了新的看法。

成功女性其实就是尽全力做好自己每个阶段的每个角色,为自己做出最好的选择,并且接受它们。

作为女性,在工作和家庭中我们身上会承担各种角色,还包括生活中的其他角色,我们尽力在这些角色中去努力做好自己的角色,全情投入做好自己,珍惜当下,就是最好的状态。

如何找准方向,规划好自己的人生?了解自己不是容易的事情,找准方向更是不易。

我们脑海中根深蒂固的思维方式阻碍我们去在行为上做出改变,很多时候我们都是在习惯的驱使下去重复行动而已。

我也不是特别清楚自己的方向,但我知道方向一定隐藏在我们的兴趣和热情里,找到自己的人生宗旨和核心价值,会让自己更有力量!女性在事业和家庭之间,面临的更多是如何进行选择?家庭和事业像两只大手掌,把女性掌握在掌内。

身处其中,我们面临的不只是平衡而已,面临的更多的其实是选择。

选择什么呢?这必然涉及到取舍,对于我们来说,什么是最重要的?什么是没那么重要的?这些需要认真思考,毕竟人一天就24小时,做了这些事就必然兼顾不了那些事了。

桑德伯格伯克利演讲稿

桑德伯格伯克利演讲稿

桑德伯格伯克利演讲稿在当今的商业世界中,雪莉·桑德伯格无疑是一位备受瞩目的女性领袖。

她在伯克利的演讲稿,不仅仅是一场简单的演讲,更是一次深刻的思想分享和智慧启迪。

桑德伯格的演讲开篇便吸引了所有人的注意力。

她没有过多的寒暄,而是直接切入主题,以自己的亲身经历为引,讲述了成长道路上所面临的挑战与抉择。

她谈到了自己初入职场时的迷茫与不安。

那时的她,如同许多年轻人一样,怀揣着梦想,却又对未来充满了不确定。

在面对复杂的工作环境和激烈的竞争时,她也曾有过退缩的念头。

但正是凭借着内心深处那份对成功的渴望和不懈的努力,她逐渐在工作中找到了自己的定位,展现出了卓越的才能。

桑德伯格强调了勇气的重要性。

她认为,在追求梦想的道路上,我们不能总是害怕失败,而应该勇敢地迈出每一步。

哪怕前方充满了未知和困难,只要我们有勇气去尝试,就有机会获得成功。

她讲述了自己在职业生涯中几次大胆的决策,这些决策在当时看来充满了风险,但正是这些勇敢的选择,为她的职业发展开辟了新的道路。

同时,桑德伯格也提到了团队合作的意义。

她指出,在一个团队中,每个人都有自己的优势和不足,只有相互协作、相互支持,才能共同实现目标。

她分享了自己在团队中与同事们共同克服困难、取得成就的经历,让大家深刻体会到了团队的力量。

在演讲中,桑德伯格还特别关注了女性在职业发展中的困境。

她坦言,尽管社会在不断进步,但女性在工作中仍然面临着诸多不公平的待遇和限制。

然而,她鼓励女性们要勇敢地打破这些束缚,要相信自己的能力,积极争取属于自己的机会。

她以自己为例,讲述了如何在一个男性主导的行业中脱颖而出,为女性树立了榜样。

桑德伯格还谈到了面对挫折时的态度。

她认为,挫折是人生中不可避免的一部分,关键是我们如何从挫折中吸取教训,重新站起来。

她分享了自己在经历挫折时的心路历程,以及如何通过自我调整和积极的行动,走出困境,再次迎接挑战。

此外,桑德伯格也强调了持续学习和自我提升的重要性。

《向前一步》读书有感

《向前一步》读书有感

《向前一步》读书有感2020 年是魔幻的一年,开年的种种天灾人祸,让人们愈发感慨生命的脆弱以及人类的渺小。

而紧跟着的疫情,更是让人们意识到个人的力量在巨大的自然、社会面前是如此微不足道。

当人们被困在家里,为生计感到焦虑时,不禁会思考未来应该如何生存?未来的竞争力又是什么?如果失去了现在的工作,自己还能做什么?也正是因为这样的思考,我拿起了手机,希望能在书中找到答案。

于是,我读到了谢丽尔·桑德伯格的《向前一步》。

这是一本写给女性的书,作者希望以此激励那些希望进入高级管理层,或是希望在职业生涯中实现自我价值的女性。

尽管我是一个男性,但我依然从书中获得了许多启发。

本书第 1 章即指出了女性在职场中面临的挑战,包括几个世纪以来的劳动分工观念,以及固有的性别歧视等。

这些障碍的根源,作者认为是女性内心的恐惧。

如果没有恐惧,女性就能更加勇敢地追求自己的梦想,实现职业和生活的平衡。

而在脸谱网,作者营造的则是敢于冒险的公司文化,这让我深刻感受到,积极的态度以及敢于冒险的精神是成功的关键。

书中每章都集中探讨了一个我们可以做出的调整或改变,包括增强自信、领导者的特质、谈判技巧、目标设定、真实地表达自己、团队合作、领导力等方面。

作者以自身经历以及大量的研究数据为依据,深入浅出地阐述了这些观点,让我深受启发。

增强自信是成功的第一步。

作者提到,我们需要假装自信,直到真正变得自信。

简单的姿势变化就能改变我们的态度,让我们更有力量,更愿意承担风险。

而在谈判中,要做到“思考个人化,行动公共化”,同时要为谈判提供合理的解释,强调共同利益,并保持微笑。

这些技巧对于职场新人来说,具有重要的指导意义。

关于领导力,作者认为,领导力需具备的特质包括抓住机会、学习能力、勇于接受风险、追求成长、能够有效沟通等。

这些特质不仅适用于领导者,也适用于每一个想要在职场中取得成功的人。

而关于家庭与事业的平衡,作者认为,女性需要更加勇敢地追求自己的梦想,不要因为传统观念而束缚自己。

2024年毕业典礼英文演讲稿

2024年毕业典礼英文演讲稿
2024年毕业典礼英文演讲稿
毕业典礼英文演讲稿1
Answering speech
Dear professors and dear friends of China Jiliang University,
I’m honored to address you on behalf of all the graduations this year.
First, be work hard and think smgs happened for a reason.
Thirdly, just as Jobs said at the graduation ceremony in Stanford University, stay hungry, stay foolish.
Thank you.
毕业典礼英文演讲稿2
Unlike any other creature on this planet, humans can learn and understand, without having experienced. They can think themselves into other people’s minds, imagine themselves into other people’s places.
So today, I can wish you nothing better than similar friendships. And tomorrow, I hope that even if you remember not a single word of mine, you remember those of Seneca, another of those old Romans I met when I fled down the Classics corridor, in retreat from career ladders, in search of ancient wisdom:

清华毕业演讲

清华毕业演讲

清华毕业演讲尊敬的校长、老师们,亲爱的同学们:大家好!首先,我要表达对母校的感激之情。

是清华给予了我们优秀的师资力量、完善的教育体系和良好的学习环境,才使我们有幸站在这里,完成了四年的学业。

在这里,我要代表全体毕业生对母校说一声:“谢谢!”四年前的这一天,我们怀着憧憬和期待,踏入这座学府的大门。

这四年,我们度过了无数个夜晚的熬夜,经历了无数次的期末考试和论文写作,也交上了许多好朋友。

这四年,我们在课堂上学到了知识,了解了世界的发展动态;在实验室里,我们感受到了科技的魅力,探索到了新的学术领域;在社团里,我们锻炼了领导能力,培养了团队合作意识。

回想这四年,我们为所获得的一切感到由衷的自豪和满足。

然而,今天我们即将毕业,迎来的是全新的人生 et 的开始。

清华交给我们的不仅仅是一纸毕业证书,更是无数个机会和挑战。

毕业之后,我们将投身社会,挑战更大的舞台。

这个世界充满了无限的可能,我们应该怀着一颗热爱、勇敢的心去追求自己的梦想。

在这里,我想对所有毕业生说:做好自己!不要随波逐流,不要被别人的眼光所左右。

每个人都有自己的兴趣和才能,只有找到自己的定位,才能在这个竞争激烈的社会中脱颖而出。

无论从事何种职业,都要用心去做,保持初心。

只有在自己熟悉且热爱的领域里,我们才能获得持久的动力。

同时,我们也要不断学习和提升自己的能力。

在社会中,知识革新日新月异,我们要保持学习的习惯,不断充实自己,紧跟时代的步伐。

同时,我们也要培养自己的综合素质,如沟通技巧、领导能力、团队合作等。

这些能力都是我们立足于社会的基石。

毕业不是终点,而是新的起点。

我们应该怀揣着满腔热情和坚定的信念,勇敢追逐自己的梦想。

不管前面的路有多曲折,我们都要坚守自己的初心,永不放弃。

相信自己,相信未来!最后,我希望我们毕业的清华学子们能勇往直前,追求真理,为人类的进步作出自己的贡献。

我相信,在不久的将来,我们将再次相聚在更大的舞台上,展现我们的才华和活力。

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谢丽尔桑德伯格清华20XX毕业演讲稿命运偏爱勇者向前一步20XX年清华大学经济管理学院毕业之际,Facebook首席运营官来清华演讲,为即将毕业的20XX届毕业生送上精彩的演讲,寄语毕业生要想成为领导者,那么就要勇于向前一步,facebook谢丽尔桑德伯格清华20XX毕业演讲稿命运偏爱勇者向前一步谢丽尔桑德伯格清华20XX毕业演讲稿命运偏爱勇者向前一步钱颖一院长、杰出的清华经管学院的教师们、自豪的毕业生亲属、鼎力支持他们的朋友们、以及更重要的是,清华经管学院20XX届的毕业生们:我很荣幸今天来到这里为你们做毕业典礼演讲。

同我的老板马克扎克伯格不一样的是,我不会讲中文。

为此我感到抱歉。

但是,他请我用中文转达他对大家的问候祝贺。

今天能在这里祝贺优秀的同学们毕业,我感到非常兴奋。

当钱颖一院长邀请我今天来做演讲时,我想,来给远比我年轻比我酷的人演讲?这事儿我能做。

我在Facebook每天都要做这样的事情。

因为扎克伯格比我小15岁,并且我们的大多数员工是他的同龄人,而不是我这个年龄的。

我喜欢和年轻人在一起,除非他们问我你在大学时没有手机用是怎样的日子?甚至更糟糕的问题是,谢丽尔,你能过来一下吗?我们想知道岁数大的人对这个新功能有什么看法?我1991年从哈佛大学本科毕业,获得经济学学士学位;1995年从哈佛商学院毕业,获得MBA学位所以可以说,我上了美国的清华大学。

其实这并不是那么久远的事情。

但是我能告诉你们的是,这个世界在这短短的25年当中发生了翻天覆地的变化。

在哈佛商学院时,我所在的班级曾尝试进行学院的第一次在线课程。

我们当时必须给每人发一张写有我们网名的列表,因为那时在网上使用真名是件让人难以想象的事。

但是最后还是没有搞成,因为电脑系统不断崩溃当时根本无法实现90人同时在线交流。

不过在系统崩溃之间的几个短暂瞬间里,我们窥见了未来一个技术可以实现我们和同事、家人、朋友连接在一起的未来。

现在的世界已经是我坐在你们这个位置时难以想象的世界了。

而从现在起的未来25年,你们将帮助塑造属于你们这一代人的世界。

作为清华的毕业生,你们不仅将成为中国的领袖,还将成为全球的领袖。

中国在教育程度及经济增长方面都已是世界的领先者。

不仅是政界和商界的领袖们认识到中国的重要性,许多美国的父母也认识到了这一点。

在我所居住的旧金山湾区,最难进的中小学校正是那些教汉语的学校。

但事实是,国家不能领导,要靠人来领导。

从今天毕业起,就开启了你们成为领导者的征程。

你会成为什么样的领导者?你会对他人产生多大的影响?你将会在世界上留下什么样的印记?在Facebook公司里,我们的墙上贴着提醒我们要有远大目标的海报挑战自我每一天都要做得更多。

这些海报中蕴含了一些重要的有关领导力的经验今天,我想分享其中我认为会对你们有意义的四点。

命运偏爱勇者Facebook公司之所以存在,是因为扎克伯格相信,通过科技实现个人之间的互联,可以使这个世界变得更美好。

他深信于此,以至于从哈佛大学本科辍学去追求自己的理想,并且这些年来他一直为此奋斗不止。

扎克伯格靠的不是运气,而是勇气。

能像扎克伯格那样这么早就发现自己的热情所在,是一件不同寻常的事。

我花了长得多的时间才发现自己到底想做什么。

在我穿着学位服参加毕业典礼时,我无论如何也想不到自己会到Facebook工作,因为那时互联网还不存在并且扎克伯格当时只有11岁。

我当时想我只会在政府或者非营利组织工作,因为我相信这些机构或组织可以让世界变得更美好,而公司是以盈利为导向的。

但是,当我在美国财政部工作的时候,我看到了科技公司在很大程度上影响着世界,于是我改变了自己的想法。

因此,当我结束了在政府部门的工作后,我决定搬到硅谷去。

回过头看,这似乎是一个明智的举动。

但是在2001年,这是个可被质疑的决定,因为那时科技泡沫刚刚破灭。

大公司都在大规模裁员,小公司倒闭如潮。

我给自己4个月的期限要找到一份工作,但是我足足花了将近一年的时间。

在我最初接受的某次面试当中,有一个公司的首席执行官对我说:我之所以面试你,完全是受朋友所托,但是我根本不会考虑聘用像你这样的人在政府工作过的人无法胜任科技公司的工作。

最终,我还是说服了某个公司雇佣了我。

14年过去了,我仍然热爱在科技公司工作。

这虽然不是我的初衷,但是我最终还是找到了我的热情所在。

我希望,如果你在一条道路上前行,却发现自己的心另有所属,那么就请你去独辟蹊径,以到达理想的彼岸。

如果一次没有成功,请继续锲而不舍地尝试。

直到找到能点燃你激情的,对自己、对他人都有意义的工作。

能将激情和奉献完美结合是一种奢侈。

一旦达成,幸福将至。

反馈是一种本领在Facebook,我知道决定我工作绩效的最重要的因素是我与扎克伯格的关系。

当我刚加入Facebook公司时,我就让他做出承诺,每星期都要给我工作反馈,这样任何困扰他的事情都可以尽快讨论。

他不仅爽快地答应了,并且立即说他也希望我也对他做反馈。

在最初的几年当中,我们都坚持这样的惯例,每周五下午见面谈论我们所关心的事情,事无巨细。

几年下来,分享真实的意见已经成为我们关系当中很自然的一部分,我们现在随时会这么做,而不必再等到周五了。

从自己老板那里获得反馈很重要,但是从自己的下属那里获得反馈也同样至关重要。

这绝非易事,因为员工总是太过于渴望去取悦他们的上司,而不去批评或质疑他们的上司。

我最喜欢的一个例子是来自华尔街的。

1990年,鲍勃鲁宾成为高盛公司的首席执行官。

上任满第一周,在查看公司账目时,他发现有一大笔在黄金上的投资。

他问为什么会投资黄金?结果答案是,因为您,先生。

我?他迷惑了。

显然是因为在头一天他在交易所视察时曾经说过一句黄金看起来有点意思,结果这句话就被传成了鲁宾喜欢黄金,然后就有人花了几百万美元来讨老板的欢心。

我也遇到过类似的挑战,当然比这事的影响要在小一些的量级上。

我刚加入Facebook时,我的职责之一是建立公司的商业运作但与此同时还不能破坏成就Facebook的那种工程技术驱动的文化。

所以我尝试做的一件事就是鼓励人们在和我开会时不要做正式的电子演示文稿。

最开始我讲得很客气,结果所有人都无视我的要求,仍然在做电子演示文稿。

大概过了两年吧,我就说,好了,我通常不喜欢立规矩,但我现在必须定个规矩,和我开会时谁也不能再做电子演示文稿了。

大约一个月之后,当我正要对我们的全球销售团队讲话时,一个同事对我说,在你上台之前,有件事你应该知道,大家对你规定的和客户会面不做电子演示文稿的规定很有意见。

我感到很震惊,我从来没有禁止过给客户做电子演示文稿!我只是不希望他们在和我开会的时候用电子演示文稿。

和客户展示产品时怎么能不做电子演示文稿?所以我上台就说,首先,我说的是和我开会时不用电子演示文稿。

其次,下次你们再听到坏点子就像和客户会面不做电子演示文稿这类请大声说出来。

哪怕你知道那话是我说的,请告诉我这是错误的!一个好的领导者知道大部分雇员不愿意挑战权威,所以领导者就有义务主动要求反馈。

我从电子演示文稿事件中吸取了教训。

我现在经常问我的同事有哪些地方我还能做得更好?我总是对那些敢于对我说实话的人心怀感激,并且当众表扬他们。

我深信只有你和你的同事并肩做战,只有当你不仅指挥而且也聆听时,你才能成为最好的领导。

以身作则当我刚入职场时,我观察那些身处领导岗位的人时会想,他们太幸运了,他们有那么大的掌控力。

所以你们可以想象得到,当我在商学院选修领导力课程时被告知,职位越高将会越依赖他人时,我有多么地惊讶。

说实话,那时候我认为教授讲的是错的。

其实教授讲的是对的。

我依赖我的销售团队,而不是反过来。

如果他们达不到销售目标,是我的责任。

作为领导者,我所要实现的不仅是竭尽个人之所能,而是要让我的团队中的所有人发挥自己的能力。

不同国家的企业运作都有其特定的文化特点。

但我相信有一些领导力的原则是世界通用的其中一条就是激发总是好过指示。

是的,在多数组织里,员工总是按照老板的指示来做事。

但是伟大的领导者不仅仅只是需要完全的服从,他们想要的是激发出员工心底的热情,完全的信任及真正的敬业精神。

他们不仅仅是要得到团队的智慧,而是要赢得他们的心。

如果他们相信公司的使命并且对你也信之如笃,那么他们就不仅仅只是把日常任务完成好,而且是以真正的热情来投入这些工作。

没有人能像我挚爱的丈夫大卫高德伯格那样赢得那么多人的心,他不幸在两个月前突然去世。

大卫是一个真正能激发人的领导者。

他为人和善、待人慷慨,思维深刻。

他提升了他周围每一个人的业绩水平。

他是SurveyMonkey公司的首席执行官,这是他帮助建立起来的一个极为出色的公司,他是为了我和我们的孩子才这样去做的。

我们的一个朋友、硅谷著名的风险投资人比尔格雷,写过一篇短文号召人们向大卫那样。

比尔写到,大卫向我们所有人完整地展示了怎样做一个伟大的人但是这并不让人有挫折感,因为大卫的伟大并不是好竞争的或威胁他人的,他的伟大是柔和的,触动心灵的,无私的。

他是领导者以身作则理念的经典标杆。

哈佛商学院弗朗西斯福雷教授曾经说过,领导力表现在,因为你的存在能使他人变得更好,而且当你不在的时候你的影响力还能一直持续。

就像大卫一样,你们也应该能在自己的职业生涯中为他人做到这一切。

向前一步中国有句话叫妇女能顶半边天,这个说法被世界各地广为引用。

女性在中国历史上及现在都扮演着特殊的角色。

当世界各国都在聚焦讨论女性的地位和发展的时候,我们曾在这里北京讨论过这个问题。

早在1995年,《北京宣言》和《行动纲领》,这两个号召女性全方位和平等地参与生活和决策的宣言和纲领,就由189个国家的政府在北京共同签署。

去年,在这一历史性宣言20周年之际,各国领导人重聚在此,向人们传递这一北京承诺:男女平等。

但是,尽管我们认识到女性的重要性及力量,当我们审视各国的领导层时,仍然绝大多数由男性主导。

在几乎所有国家包括美国和中国,只有不到6%的顶尖企业是由女性来领导的。

女性在各行各业的领导角色都少之又少。

这意味着,在做出影响我们所有人福祉的决定时,女性的意见无法被平等地听取。

产生领导角色性别差异的原因很多直接的性别歧视、女性需要承担更多的家庭责任、职场中缺乏灵活性,更为重要的是,我们带有的偏见。

虽然全球各地的文化千差万别,但是我们对于男性与女性的偏见却惊人的相似。

尽管女性的地位在中国及全球各地都在不断变化与演进,传统的预期与偏见却依然如故。

直到今天,在美国、中国乃至全球各地,男性总被期待去领导、奋进、成功,而女性则被期待去分享、融通、屈从他人。

我们期待男孩和男人展现领导力,但是当一个小女孩出头来领导时,英语中我们称她专横,中文则称之为强势。

其它一些社会因素也阻碍了女性的前进。

女性通常被职业社交圈排除在外比如关系以及正式的、非正式的对职业发展至关重要的社交活动。

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