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父母经常爱吵架 感到苦恼英语作文

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父母经常爱吵架感到苦恼英语作文全文共3篇示例,供读者参考篇1My Parents Argue All The Time and It Makes Me SadMy name is Jamie and I'm 10 years old. I'm in the 5th grade at Oakwood Elementary School. I like school okay, but there's something that makes me really sad and worried a lot of the time. My parents argue and yell at each other constantly. It happens pretty much every single day.In the mornings before school, they'll start bickering about things like who didn't load the dishwasher right or who failed to pack my lunchbox properly. My dad gets mad that my mom doesn't have his work clothes ready for him on time. My mom gets annoyed that my dad tracks dirt into the house. Just silly little things, but they blow up into huge shouting matches."You're so sloppy and disorganized!" my mom will yell."Well you're a huge nag! Get off my back!" my dad shouts back.By the time I'm eating my cereal, they're both in a foul mood, glaring at each other coldly across the kitchen table. I feel uncomfortable and tense. I can't wait to escape to the school bus.When I get home from school, the fighting often continues. My parents argue about chores, bills, my dad's long work hours, or my mom's spending habits. The shouting and negativity fills the whole house. I try to retreat to my bedroom, but I can still hear them through the walls. Sometimes I put a pillow over my head to block out the noise and just cry.On evenings and weekends, it's even worse. That's when the biggest blowouts occur over more serious issues like finances, my parents' busy schedules, one of them wanting to go out while the other wants to stay home, etc. The anger, harsh words, and insults fly back and forth at maximum volume."You're never home and I'm sick of doing everything around here alone!" my mom rages."Well I work ridiculous hours to pay for this house and put food on the table for you and the kids! A little gratitude would be nice!" my dad hollers back.Things sometimes get physical too, with pushing, shoving, or objects getting thrown around. Once a glass got knocked off the counter and shattered everywhere. That was really scary. My little brother started crying hysterically until my parents finally stopped raging at each other.Afterwards, they give each other the silent treatment, stomping around angrily and slamming doors. The whole environment is just thick with tension, bitterness, and unhappiness. It's exhausting and depressing to be around. My brother and I feel like we're walking on eggshells, trying not to spark another war between them.Honestly, I'm afraid for my parents' marriage. I worry they're going to get divorced because they clearly can't stand each other a lot of the time. The thought of my family breaking up along with the constant fighting makes me feel anxious and sad. I've started getting stomachaches and headaches from all the stress.At school, it's hard for me to concentrate on my work because I'm preoccupied thinking about the situation at home. I'll be sitting in class, supposed to be learning about fractions or the solar system, but I can't focus because I'm wondering what's awaiting me after school. Will my parents be going at it again? My grades have started slipping because of it.I miss how thing used to be when I was little and my parents were still affectionate towards each other. They used to hug, cuddle on the couch, and tell jokes that made everyone laugh. We'd go on fun family outings to the park, putt-putt golf, or attractions around the city. When my parents got along, our whole family was much happier.Now the negative energy affects everything. Holidays, birthdays, and special events don't have the same warm, joyful vibe when Mom and Dad can barely be civil to one another. My friends have asked me what's wrong because I've been more withdrawn lately. I feel embarrassed about the constant conflict between my parents, so I make excuses or change the subject.Sometimes I wonder if the fighting is somehow my fault - maybe if I behaved better or got perfect grades, they wouldn't be so stressed and angry with each other all the time. But realistically, I know their problems go beyond just me and my brother. They've clearly got a lot of issues between them that have nothing to do with us kids.I've tried making suggestions before like, "Hey Mom and Dad, maybe you two could go out for a nice dinner and talk things over without yelling?" But my efforts get brushed off with comments like "Don't worry about grown-up matters, Jamie. Thisdoesn't concern you kids." But how can I not worry or be concerned? Their relationship troubles impact every part of my life too.All I really want is for the fighting and verbal abuse to stop. I want my parents to fall back in love and get along like they used to. I want our home to be a place of peace, warmth, and stability again instead of constant anger and conflict. I miss feeling happy, safe, and secure.I'm just a kid. I'm too young to get caught in the middle of my parents' marital problems and emotional wars. But I can't just ignore or block it all out either because the fighting goes on and on, day after day, frequently disrupting my life. I internalize it and it weighs on me, making me feel depressed and burdened beyond what a 10-year-old should have to handle.I wish I could make my parents understand how their constant screaming and hostility affects me and my little brother. We didn't ask for or contribute to the troubles between them. We just want them to work through whatever issues they're dealing with through calm discussion, counseling, or radical acceptance - not routine explosive confrontations. More than anything, I want them to realize that their behavior threatens to ruin our family and damage their own kids in the process.Because that's what this feels like - a slow, saddening unraveling of everything that's supposed to make a family whole.I try to be a good, obedient child, excel at school, and avoid causing any extra stress for my parents. But this situation feels beyond my control. At this point, all I can do is cross my fingers and wish for my parents to hit the reset button on their relationship - for things to go back to a time of love, peace, and happiness in our household once again. I'm just a kid longing for the family I know we can be but feels hopelessly out of reach these days. I'll keep dreaming of better days ahead when my parents remember how to get along. I miss those days dearly.篇2My Parents Fight All the Time and It Makes Me Really SadMy name is Timmy and I'm 10 years old. I'm in the 5th grade.I have a mom and a dad and an older sister named Sarah who is13. Even though we live in a nice house and my parents have good jobs, there is one big problem in our family. My mom and dad argue and fight all the time and it makes me and my sister really sad and upset.It seems like they can't go even a single day without having a huge fight about something. Sometimes the fights start early inthe morning before my sister and I even wake up for school. We'll come downstairs for breakfast and they'll already be yelling at each other in the kitchen. Other times, they'll be getting along okay during the day but then after my dad gets home from work in the evening, something will set them off and they'll start screaming at each other.The things they fight about are usually really dumb and silly. Like my mom will get mad because my dad left his dirty socks on the floor again. Or my dad will get annoyed because my mom spent too much money on new clothes or decorations for the house. Sometimes they fight about chores and housework, with my dad complaining that my mom doesn't do enough cleaning and my mom saying my dad never helps out around the house.But a lot of times, I'm not even sure what they're fighting about! They'll just start yelling these mean things back and forth at each other about completely random stuff. My dad will call my mom "lazy" or "irresponsible" and my mom will call him "sloppy" or "immature." The insults they shout make me want to cover my ears and run to my room.When they're in the middle of one of their epic screaming matches, they seem to completely forget that me and Sarah are even there. They'll carry on fighting for what feels like hours, justgoing back and forth, back and forth, louder and angrier with every comeback. Sarah and I will be sitting there at the kitchen table or on the couch, trying our best to make ourselves invisible and blend into the furniture. We don't dare interrupt or get in the middle of it because we know it will just make them angrier.Sometimes I'll retreat to my bedroom and put on my headphones to block out the noise. Or I'll go outside and hang out in the backyard just to get away from all the fightin. Sarah just closes her bedroom door and blasts her music really loud. We've gotten pretty good at finding ways to escape the awfulness when they're going at it.After they're finally done yelling, my parents will separate and give each other the silent treatment for the rest of the night. My dad will go to the basement or the garage and my mom will go up to her bedroom and they won't talk or even look at each other. That's when Sarah and I know we should avoid them and stay out of their way because they're both still fuming mad. The whole house feels dark and heavy, like a rain cloud is stuck inside.On nights like those, which happens way more often than I'd like, my sister and I have a hard time sleeping. We'll lie awake in our beds worrying and feeling scared, even though we've neverbeen hit or anything like that. We're just scared that one day, one of their fights will go too far and they'll decide to get a divorce. The idea of my mom and dad splitting up and not living together anymore terrifies me. I can't imagine our family being broken up like that.The worst is when they try to get us involved and take sides. Like my dad will say something like "Your mother is being completely unreasonable as usual, don't you think Timmy?" Or my mom will look at me and Sarah and be like "Tell your father he's acting ridiculous." I always try to avoid answering and stay neutral because I never know what to say. I don't want them to stay mad at each other, but I also don't want to get yelled at myself or make things worse. Sarah is better at that than me though. She'll usually just say something like "You're both being stupid" and then go to her room.Honestly, their constant fighting makes me feel embarrassed, depressed, and anxious all the time. I don't like having friends over to the house anymore because I'm scared they'll hear my parents screaming at each other and think my family is totally messed up, which it kind of is. I find myself wondering if this is normal and happens in other families or if it's just us. I'm too afraid to ask any of my friends about it though because it's really篇3My Parents Are Always FightingMy name is Emily and I'm 10 years old. I live with my mom, dad, and little brother Jack who is 7. Even though we live in a nice house and my parents have good jobs, there is one big problem in our family - my parents are always fighting and arguing with each other. It makes me and my brother really sad and upset.It seems like every single day, Mom and Dad find something new to yell and scream about. Sometimes it's over money and bills. Other times it's about chores and who does more work around the house. But a lot of the time, I'm not even sure what they are mad about! They just start going back and forth, raising their voices louder and louder until they are in a full-blown shouting match.When they fight, horrible mean words come out of their mouths that I know they don't really mean. Dad might call Mom "lazy" or "a nag". Mom might call Dad "useless" or "a slob". Those words really hurt my feelings when I hear my parents saying them to each other. Parents are supposed to love and respect one another, not insult each other so meanly.The worst is when the arguing gets so heated that things start getting thrown or broken. A few months ago, Dad threw his plate of food across the kitchen when he was mad at Mom about something. The plate shattered into a million pieces and there was spaghetti sauce all over the walls. Another time, Mom threw a lamp across the living room because Dad said something that really set her off. Whenever that kind of thing happens, Jack and I go hide in our rooms trembling because we get scared there will be more violence.After one of their huge blowout fights, there is usually a period of tense silence in the house for a day or two where Mom and Dad give each other the silent treatment. During that time, the bad mood and vibes make our whole home feel dark and gloomy, like a raincloud is following us around. I hate that feeling so much. Jack and I just try to stay out of the way and not make any noise or draw any attention to ourselves.Eventually, the fighting and arguing always starts up again though. It's like a cyclone that never ends. Mom and Dad will be going along okay for a little while, but then something sets them off and here we go again - screaming, yelling, crying, and threats to get divorced. Why can't they just learn to communicate betterand stop fighting so much? Don't they know how much it hurts Jack and me?At school, I see a lot of my friends' parents getting along so well. They laugh together, give each other hugs, and say nice things. I'm jealous because I want my parents to act that way too. Instead, my home life is full of Mom and Dad constantly bickering, arguing, fighting, and saying cruel things. It's become so normal that I've even caught myself copying them and arguing more with Jack, my little brother. I know that's not good and I need to stop doing that.Some days, the fighting gets so bad that I fantasize about running away or going to live with a friend's family just to get away from it all. But I know that's not really a solution. As much as the fighting hurts, I still love my parents. I just desperately wish they would stop fighting all the time and be kind to each other again like they used to be.My friends say their parents got counseling from a therapist to learn how to communicate better, and it really helped stop the constant fighting in their homes. I've thought about suggesting that to my parents, but I'm honestly afraid of how they might react. What if it made them even madder and caused more fighting? The thought of that happening is terrifying.Sometimes I Just want to scream at the top of my lungs "STOP FIGHTING! YOUR CONSTANT ARGUING IS MAKING ME AND JACK MISERABLE!" But I know that would either go ignored or maybe even Make the situation worse, so I keep it bottled up inside. Whenever they are in the middle of one of their blow-up fights, I want to intervene and break it up, but I don't. I'm scared if I try to step in, I might accidentally make them angrier or one of them could hurt me, even though I know they don't mean to.I've started keeping a little diary just to have a place to get all my thoughts and feelings out about the constant parental fighting. Sometimes I write poems or draw pictures about how it makes me feel sad, anxious, afraid, and angry too. Getting those emotions out on paper helps a little bit. I also try to spend as much time as possible away from the house and over at friends' places when the fighting is really ramping up. Having a break from it is nice, but I can never fully relax because I know I'll eventually have to go back home to that chaos again.At night, sometimes I sit in my room and cry quietly into my pillow after Mom and Dad have another bad fight. I pray and pray that somehow, someway, they will stop this terrible fighting all the time. I fantasize about what our family could be like if they got along better - maybe we could go on fun vacations, insteadof any time away being ruined by parental arguing. Maybe we could sit around and have peaceful, pleasant mealtimes filled with laughter and good conversations, instead of angry outbursts and thrown food. Maybe there could be more love and kindness between us all. It would be so nice if we could become a normal, happy family again.For now though, the fighting just keeps on going endlessly. It breaks my heart and makes me feel so helpless. I try so hard to be a good kid - getting good grades, keeping my room clean, doing my chores without being asked. I've always thought that maybe if I was just a perfect child, it would help take some stress away from Mom and Dad so they wouldn't fight as much. But it never seems to make a difference. No matter what I do, they keep on arguing and screaming at each other constantly. Sometimes it makes me feel like giving up.But I can't give up. Deep down, I know my parents still love me and Jack very much. And I love them too, despite how hard their fighting is. More than anything, I just want us to go back to being a normal, healthy, happy family again. I'll keep praying and hoping that one day, the fighting will stop and my parents will fall back in love like they once were. A kid can dream, can't they?I dream of peace in our household more than anything in this world. Only time will tell if that dream can come true.。

家庭暴力英语作文

家庭暴力英语作文

家庭暴力英语作文Family Violence。

Family violence, also known as domestic violence, is a serious issue that affects millions of people around the world. It can take many forms, including physical, emotional, and sexual abuse, and it often goes unreported and untreated. In this essay, we will explore the causesand effects of family violence, as well as some possible solutions to this pervasive problem.There are many factors that contribute to family violence, including social, economic, and psychological factors. In some cases, it may be the result of a cycle of abuse that has been passed down through generations. Inother cases, it may be the result of stress, financial instability, or mental illness. Regardless of the cause, family violence can have devastating effects on the victims, including physical injuries, emotional trauma, and even death.One of the most common effects of family violence isthe breakdown of the family unit. When one member of the family is abusive towards another, it can create a toxicand unsafe environment for everyone involved. This can lead to feelings of fear, isolation, and helplessness, and can have long-term effects on the mental and emotional well-being of the victims. In addition, family violence can also have a negative impact on children who witness it, leadingto behavioral problems, low self-esteem, and a higher likelihood of becoming abusers themselves.There are many possible solutions to the problem of family violence, but one of the most important is education. By raising awareness about the issue and teaching people about healthy relationships and conflict resolution, we can help to prevent family violence from occurring in the first place. In addition, we can also provide support and resources for victims of family violence, including shelters, hotlines, and counseling services. Finally, wecan work to hold abusers accountable for their actions and provide them with the help they need to change theirbehavior.In conclusion, family violence is a pervasive and destructive problem that affects millions of people around the world. It can have devastating effects on the victims and can lead to the breakdown of the family unit. However, by raising awareness about the issue, providing support for victims, and holding abusers accountable, we can work towards preventing family violence and creating a safer and healthier world for everyone.。

家庭暴力 英语作文

家庭暴力 英语作文

Family violence is a pervasive social issue that affects countless households.It is a behavior that can cause physical,psychological,and emotional harm to family members, and it is a serious violation of human rights.The causes of family violence are multifaceted,and addressing it requires a comprehensive approach.The Impact of Family ViolenceFamily violence can have profound and lasting effects on the individuals involved and the family as a whole.The immediate physical harm can range from minor injuries to severe trauma,and the psychological effects can lead to longterm emotional issues such as depression,anxiety,and posttraumatic stress disorder PTSD.Children who witness or experience family violence are at a higher risk of developing behavioral problems,poor academic performance,and difficulties in forming healthy relationships later in life.Causes of Family ViolenceThe causes of family violence are complex and can include:1.Economic Stress:Financial difficulties can lead to increased tension within the family, resulting in violence as a way of expressing frustration or anger.2.Substance Abuse:Alcohol and drug abuse can impair judgment and increase the likelihood of violent behavior.3.Mental Health Issues:Individuals suffering from mental health disorders may be more prone to violent outbursts.4.Cultural and Social Norms:In some cultures,violence within the family may be seen as an acceptable form of discipline or conflict resolution.5.History of Abuse:A history of being abused or witnessing abuse can lead to the perpetuation of violent behavior.Prevention and InterventionTo prevent and address family violence,a multifaceted approach is necessary:cation and Awareness:Raising awareness about the issue and educating the public on the harmful effects of family violence is crucial.2.Support Services:Providing access to counseling,legal aid,and support groups can help victims and perpetrators to seek help and break the cycle of violence.3.Legal Measures:Implementing and enforcing laws that protect victims and punish perpetrators can act as a deterrent to violence.munity Involvement:Encouraging community involvement in identifying andsupporting families at risk can help to create a safer environment for all.5.Early Intervention:Identifying signs of potential violence and intervening early can prevent escalation and the need for more drastic measures later on.ConclusionFamily violence is a grave concern that requires the attention and action of society as a whole.By understanding its causes and working together to implement effective prevention and intervention strategies,we can hope to create a world where every family is free from violence and can thrive in a supportive and loving environment.It is our collective responsibility to ensure that the home is a place of safety and nurturing for all its members.。

英文家庭矛盾作文

英文家庭矛盾作文

英文家庭矛盾作文英文:As a member of a family, conflicts and disagreementsare inevitable. In my family, we also have our fair shareof disputes. One of the most common issues that we face is the difference in opinions and beliefs.For instance, my parents have a traditional mindset and often impose their values on us. However, as a younger generation, my siblings and I have a more modern andliberal perspective. This leads to disagreements on various topics such as career choices, relationships, and lifestyle.Another issue that causes conflicts is the lack of communication. We often assume that the other person understands our point of view without expressing it clearly. This leads to misunderstandings and hurt feelings.Moreover, financial matters are also a source oftension in our family. My parents have a strict budget and are hesitant to spend money on things that they deem unnecessary. On the other hand, my siblings and I value experiences and sometimes splurge on things that are not essential. This leads to arguments and resentment.Overall, conflicts in a family are natural, but it is important to address them and find a solution. It iscrucial to communicate effectively and respect each other's opinions and beliefs.中文:作为一个家庭成员,冲突和分歧是不可避免的。

家庭冲突英语作文

家庭冲突英语作文

家庭冲突英语作文【中英文实用版】Family Conflict English EssayIn the tapestry of life, conflicts are inevitable, especially within the confines of a family.It"s a known fact that英语is a universal language that transcends boundaries, and thus, writing an essay on family conflict in English can be a powerful medium to express one"s emotions and thoughts.The purpose of this essay is to delve into the intricacies of family conflicts, highlighting the causes, effects, and possible solutions.在生活的丰富多彩中,家庭内部的冲突在所难免。

众所周知,英语是一种跨越国界的通用语言,因此,用英文来撰写关于家庭冲突的作文,可以成为表达个人情感和观点的有力方式。

本文旨在探讨家庭冲突的复杂性,着重分析其成因、影响及可能的解决方法。

The root cause of family conflict often lies in the diverse personalities and values of its members.For instance, parents might have traditional beliefs while their children embrace modern ideas.This generation gap can lead to misunderstandings and disagreements, ultimately resulting in a conflict-ridden family environment.家庭冲突的根源往往在于家庭成员之间不同的个性和价值观。

家庭暴力的英语作文

家庭暴力的英语作文

家庭暴力的英语作文Family Violence。

Family violence, also known as domestic violence, is a serious and widespread issue that affects millions ofpeople around the world. It can take many forms, including physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, andfinancial abuse. No matter the form it takes, family violence can have a devastating impact on its victims and the entire family.One of the most common forms of family violence is physical abuse. This can include hitting, kicking, punching, or any other form of physical harm. It can leave victimswith physical injuries, such as bruises, broken bones, or even more serious injuries. But the impact of physicalabuse goes beyond the physical harm; it can also causelong-term emotional and psychological damage.Emotional abuse is another form of family violence thatcan be just as damaging as physical abuse. This can include verbal attacks, threats, intimidation, and manipulation. Victims of emotional abuse may suffer from low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. It can also make it difficult for victims to trust others and form healthy relationships in the future.Sexual abuse is another form of family violence that can have a lasting impact on its victims. This can include unwanted sexual advances, sexual assault, or any other form of sexual coercion. Victims of sexual abuse may suffer from physical injuries, as well as emotional and psychological trauma. It can also lead to long-term issues, such as PTSD, sexual dysfunction, and difficulties forming intimate relationships.Financial abuse is a less recognized form of family violence, but it can be just as damaging. This can include controlling a victim's access to money, withholding financial resources, or using money to manipulate and control a victim. It can leave victims financially dependent and unable to leave an abusive situation.Family violence can have a devastating impact on its victims and the entire family. It can lead to physical injuries, emotional and psychological trauma, and long-term issues that can affect every aspect of a victim's life. It can also have a ripple effect, impacting children, extended family members, and even the community as a whole.It's important for everyone to recognize the signs of family violence and to take action to prevent it. This can include speaking out against abuse, offering support to victims, and holding abusers accountable for their actions. By working together, we can create a world where family violence is no longer tolerated and where everyone can feel safe and secure in their own homes.。

家庭矛盾英文作文

家庭矛盾英文作文

家庭矛盾英文作文英文:Family conflicts are a common occurrence in many households, and my family is no exception. There have been numerous instances where disagreements and arguments have arisen, causing tension and strain within the family dynamic. One particular conflict that stands out in my memory is when my parents disagreed on how to discipline my younger sibling.My father believed in using strict discipline to teach my sibling right from wrong, while my mother preferred a more lenient and nurturing approach. This fundamental difference in parenting styles led to frequent clashes between my parents, and it often spilled over into ourdaily lives. As a result, my sibling became confused and unsure of what was expected of them, and I felt caught in the middle of my parents' conflicting ideologies.The tension at home became palpable, and it took a toll on all of us. I found myself constantly walking on eggshells, trying to avoid triggering another argument between my parents. The atmosphere at home became increasingly suffocating, and I longed for a sense of peace and harmony within my family.Despite the challenges we faced, I realized that open communication was key to resolving our family conflicts. I sat down with my parents separately and expressed how their constant bickering was affecting me and my sibling. I encouraged them to find common ground and work together to create a more unified approach to parenting. It wasn't an easy conversation to have, but I knew it was necessary for the well-being of our family.Gradually, my parents began to see the impact of their discord on the family, and they made a conscious effort to compromise and find a middle ground. They attended parenting workshops together and sought professional guidance on effective discipline strategies. Over time, the atmosphere at home improved, and the constant tension gaveway to a more peaceful coexistence.中文:家庭矛盾在许多家庭中都是司空见惯的事情,我的家庭也不例外。

domestic violence

domestic violence

Domestic violenceDomestic violence (also known as family violence or domestic abuse) is a pattern of behavior which involves violence or other abuse by one person against another in a home or family setting. Domestic violence can take place in heterosexual and same-sex family relationships, and can involve violence against children in the family. It also includes violence committed by children toward either parent and other siblings. Intimate partner violence (IPV) is violence by a spouse or partner in an intimate relationship against the other spouse or partner. Intimate violence can take a number of forms including physical, verbal, emotional, economic and sexual abuse, which can range from subtle, coercive forms, to marital rape and to violent physical abuse such as female genital mutilation and acid throwing that results in disfigurement, maiming or death. Domestic murders include stoning, bride burning, honor killings and dowry deaths. Domestic violence affects men, women and children. Globally, however, a wife or female partner is more commonly the victim of such violence In some countries, particularly where there has been actual, or suspected infidelity by female partners, wife-beating is seen as justified by the majority of the population, and may be codified into law. Recent research has also shown there to be a direct and significant correlation between a country's level of gender equality, and actual rates of domestic violence.Both partners may also engage in abusive or violent behavior, or the victim may act in self-defense or retaliation. Whereas women who experience domestic violence, at least in the developed world, are often openly encouraged to report it to the authorities, it has been argued that domestic violence against men is most often unreported because of social norms and pressure against such reporting; those that do often face social stigma regarding their perceived lack of machismo and other denigrations of their masculinity.Domestic violence often occurs when the abuser believes that abuse is acceptable, justified, or unlikely to be reported. It may produce intergenerational cycles of abuse in children and other family members, who may feel that such violence is acceptable or condoned. Awareness, perception, definition and documentation of domestic violence differs widely from country to country. In abusive relationships, there may be a cycle of abuse during which tensions rise and an act of violence is committed, followed by a period of reconciliation and calm. Victims of domestic violence may be trapped in domestic violent situations through isolation, power and control, cultural acceptance, lack of financial resources, fear, shame or to protect children. As a result of abuse, victims may experience physical disabilities, chronic health problems, mental illness, limited finances, and poor ability to create healthy relationships. Victims may experience psychological problems, such as post-traumaticstress disorder. Children who live in a household with violence often show psychological problems from an early age, such as dysregulated aggression which may later contribute to continuing the legacy of abuse when they reach adulthood.[8] Domestic violence often happens in the context of forced or child marriage.[9Violence against womenCampaign against domestic violence in Uganda Main article: Violence against womenOne of the most prevalent human rights violations in the world is violence against women and girls. The United Nations Population Fund says that, "Worldwide one in three women will experience physical or sexual abuse in her lifetime."Wife beating was made illegal in all states of the United States by 1920. Although the exact rates are widely disputed, especially within the United States, there is a large body of cross-cultural evidence that women are subjected to domestic violence significantly more often than men. In addition, there is broad consensus that women are more often subjected to severe forms of abuse and are more likely to be injured by an abusive partner. The situation can be exacerbated if the woman is economically or socially dependent on the offender.The effects and causesThe social views on domestic violence vary from person to person, and from region to region, but in many places outside the West, the concept is very poorly understood. This is because in most of these countries the relation between the husband and wife is not considered one of equals, but instead one in which the wife must submit herself to the husband. This is codified in the laws of some countries – for example, in Yemen, marriage regulations state that a wife must obey her husband and must not leave home without his permission.In conservative cultures, a wife dressing in attire deemed insufficiently modest can suffer serious violence at the hands of her husband or relatives, with such violent responses seen as appropriate by most of the society: in a survey, 62.8% of women in Afghanistan said that a husband is justified in beating his wife if she wears inappropriate clothes. According to Antonia Parvanova, one of the difficulties of dealing legally with the issue of DV is that men in many male dominatedsocieties do not understand that inflicting violence against their wives is against the law. She said, referring to a case that occurred in Bulgaria, "A husband was tried for severely beating his wife and when the judge asked him if he understood what he did and if he's sorry, the husband said “Butshe's my wife”. He doesn't even understand that he has no right to beat her."The causes of domestic violence are not made clear through research, but there are several factors that can result in violence. One of the most important is a belief that abuse, whether physical or verbal, is acceptable. Related to that, growing up in a violent home or living within a culture that accepts domestic violence are factors. Other factors are substance abuse, unemployment, psychological problems, poor coping skills, isolation, and excessive dependence on the abuser.Biological and psychological[edit]These factors include genetics and brain dysfunction and are studied by neuroscience.[242] Psychological theories focus on personality traits and mental characteristics of the offender. Personality traits include sudden bursts of anger, poor impulse control, and poor self-esteem. Various theories suggest that psychopathology and other personality disorders are factors, and that abuse experienced as a child leads some people to be more violent as adults. Correlation has been found between juvenile delinquency and domestic violence in adulthood.[243] Studies have found high incidence of psychopathy among abusers.[244][245][246] For instance, some research suggests that about 80% of both court-referred andself-referred men in these domestic violence studies exhibiteddiagnosable psychopathology, typically personality disorders. "The estimate of personality disorders in the general population would be more in the 15–20% range [...] As violence becomes more severe and chronic in the relationship, the likelihood of psychopathology in these men approaches 100%."[234] Dutton has suggested a psychological profile of men who abuse their wives, arguing that they have borderline personalities that are developed early in life.[247][248]However, these psychological theories are disputed: Gelles suggests that psychological theories are limited, and points out that other researchers have found that only 10% (or less) fit this psychological profile. He argues that social factors are important, while personality traits, mental illness, or psychopathy are lesser factors.[249][250][251]Psychiatric disorders are sometimes associated with domestic violence, such as borderline personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, drug abuse, and alcoholism.[27] It is estimated that at least one-third of all abusers have some type of mental illness.[252]Many cases of domestic violence arise from the jealousy felt by one partner that they suspect their partner of being unfaithful or is planning to leave the relationship. Besides jealousy, the other partner may feel insulted by the rejection, which impacts on their self-esteem. Anevolutionary psychological explanation of such cases of domestic violence against a woman is that they represent male attempts to control female reproduction and ensure sexual exclusivity through violence or the threat of violence.[253][254] Though often jealousy is used as an excuse for the abusers behavior, most often it is just an excuse in order to exert more control over their partner and a blaming technique in order to isolate the victim further from friends and family. Violence related to extramarital relations is seen as justified in certain parts of the world. For instance, a survey in Diyarbakir, Turkey, found that, when asked the appropriate punishment for a woman who has committed adultery, 37% of respondents said she should be killed, while 21% said her nose or ears should be cut off.[255]Similar feelings may at times be generated in a situation where one partner is doing better than the other, for example, when the woman is more successful than the husband.[253][254]On children[edit]Main article: Effects of domestic violence on children3.3 million children witness domestic violence each year in the US. There has been an increase in acknowledgment that a child who is exposed to domestic abuse during their upbringing will suffer developmental andpsychological damage During the mid 1990s, the Adverse Childhood Experiences study (ACE) found that children who were exposed to domestic violence and other forms of abuse had a higher risk of developing mental and physical health problems. Because of the awareness of domestic violence that some children have to face, it also generally impacts how the child develops emotionally, socially, behaviorally as well as cognitively.Some emotional and behavioral problems that can result due to domestic violence include increased aggressiveness, anxiety, and changes in how a child socializes with friends, family, and authorities. Depression, emotional insecurity, and mental health disorders can follow due to traumatic experiences. Problems with attitude and cognition in schools can start developing, along with a lack of skills such as problem-solving Correlation has been found between the experience of abuse and neglect in childhood and perpetrating domestic violence and sexual abuse in adulthood. Additionally, in some cases the abuser will purposely abuse the mother or father in front of the child to cause a ripple effect, hurting two victims simultaneously. Children may intervene when they witness severe violence against a parent, which can place a child at greater risk for injury or death. It has been found that children who witnessmother-assault are more likely to exhibit symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Consequences to these children are likely to bemore severe if their assaulted mother develops post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and does not seek treatment due to her difficulty in assisting her child with processing his or her own experience of witnessing the domestic violence.Family violence prevention in Australia and other countries has begun to focus on breaking intergenerational cycles; exposing children to family violence is child abuse. Some of the effects of Family Violence on children are highlighted in the Queensland Government and SunnyKids awareness raising campaign. PhysicalBruises, broken bones, head injuries, lacerations, and internal bleeding are some of the acute effects of a domestic violence incident that require medical attention and hospitalization. Some chronic health conditions that have been linked to victims of domestic violence are arthritis, irritable bowel syndrome, chronic pain, pelvic pain, ulcers, and migraines. Victims who are pregnant during a domestic violence relationship experience greater risk of miscarriage, pre-term labor, and injury to or death of the fetus.Psychological[edit]Among victims who are still living with their perpetrators high amounts of stress, fear, and anxiety are commonly reported. Depression is alsocommon, as victims are made to feel guilty for …provoking‟ the abuse and are frequently subjected to intense criticism. It is reported that 60% of victims meet the diagnostic criteria for depression, either during or after termination of the relationship, and have a greatly increased risk of suicide. Women who are battered either emotionally or physically often are also depressed because of a feeling of worthlessness. These feelings often persist long-term and it is suggested that many receive therapy for it because of the heightened risk of suicide and other traumatic symptoms. In addition to depression, victims of domestic violence also commonly experience long-term anxiety and panic, and are likely to meet the diagnostic criteria for Generalized Anxiety Disorder and Panic Disorder. The most commonly referenced psychological effect of domestic violence is Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). PTSD (as experienced by victims) is characterized by flashbacks, intrusive images, exaggerated startle response, nightmares, and avoidance of triggers that are associated with the abuse These symptoms are generally experienced for a long span of time after the victim has left the dangerous situation. Many researchers state that PTSD is possibly the best diagnosis for those suffering from psychological effects of domestic violence, as it accounts for the variety of symptoms commonly experienced by victims of trauma.Daily activitiesWomen and children experiencing domestic violence undergo occupational apartheid; they are typically denied access to desired occupations. Abusive partners may limit occupations and create an occupationally-void environment which reinforces feelings of lowself-worth and poor self-efficacy in ability to satisfactorily perform everyday tasks. Survivors of domestic violence may experience a decline in the skills needed to carry out routine daily activities necessary to live independently in the community. This population often demonstrates difficulties in the areas of home maintenance, education, caregiving, and leisure participation. In addition, work is impacted by functional losses, ability to maintain necessary employment skills, and ability to function within the work place. Oftentimes the victims are very isolated from other relationships as well such as having few to no friends, this is another method of control for the abuserUntil quite recently, children had very few rights in regard to protection from violence by their parents, and still continue to do so in many parts of the world. Historically, fathers had virtually unlimited rights in regard to their children and how they chose to discipline them. In many cultures, such as in Ancient Rome, a father could legally kill his children; many cultures have also allowed fathers to sell their children into slavery. Childsacrifice was also a common practice.[357] Today, corporal punishment of children by their parents remains legal in most countries, but in Western countries that still allow the practice there are strict limits on what is permitted. The first country to outlaw parental corporal punishment was Sweden (parents' right to spank their own children was first removed in 1966,[358] and it was explicitly prohibited by law from July 1979. As of 2015, parental corporal punishment is banned in 46 countries.[337]。

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Domestic Violence: The Silent Killer.By: Mycek, Shari. Trustee. Mar2005, Vol. 58 Issue 3, p14-20. 3p. Abstract: Features Womankind, a support systems for battered women at Fairview Southdale Hospital in Edina, Minnesota. History; Services offered by the program; Information on the Sheila Welstone Center. INSET: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FACTS. (AN: 16401739)Persistent link to this record (Permalink): /login.aspx?direct=true&db=buh&AN=16401739&site=ehost-li veCut and Paste: <ahref="/login.aspx?direct=true&db=buh&AN=16401739&site=e host-live">Domestic Violence: The Silent Killer.</a>Database: Business Source PremierTitle: Violence against women by male partners and against childrenwithin the family: prevalence, associated factors, and intergenerational transmission in Romania: a cross-sectional study.Authors: Rada, Cornelia1 corneliarada@Source: BMC Public Health. 2014, Vol. 14 Issue 1, p1-29. 29p. 8 Charts. Document Type: ArticleSubject Terms: *VIOLENCE against women*PUBLIC health*VIOLENCE -- Psychological aspects*PARENT & child*DISEASE prevalence*CROSS-sectional methodGeographic Terms: ROMANIAAuthor-Supplied Keywords: Child abuseDomestic violenceFamilyIntimate partner violencePhysical violencePsychological violenceRisk factorsViolence against womenWitnessed parental violenceNAICS/Industry Codes: 525120 Health and Welfare FundsAbstract: Background Domestic violence is a public health problemwith negative consequences. We aimed to determine the prevalence of violence between parents and by parents against children, types ofintimate partner violence against women, the intergenerationaltransmission of violence, and to identify a profile of beliefs andjudgements regarding violent behaviour. Methods The data used for this article were sourced from three cross-sectional studies performed in Romania in 2009-2011. We sampled 869 respondents (male and female) with a homogenous distribution between environment, gender, educational level, and age group (18 to 75). From a 96-item questionnaire regarding family and reproductive health, this article refers to four items: (1)feelings relating to the family in which they were raised; (2) whetherthey witnessed violence between parents or were victims of violence by parents or other family members during childhood or the teenage years; (3) opinions relating to 10 statements on violence from MaudsleyViolence Questionnaire; (4) the manifestation of psychological,emotional, and sexual abuse from the partner in the family ofprocreation (FOP). The data were analysed by Pearson chi-square testsand latent class analysis. Results During childhood, 35% of respondentswitnessed parental violence and 53.7% were victims of family violence. Psychological abuse by men against women was the most common type of violence reported in the FOP (45.1%). Violence in childhood and adolescence correlated with the perception of the family of origin as a hostile environment and of violence against women as a corrective measure, and that insults, swearing, and humiliation by their partnerwithin the FOP is acceptable (p < 0.05). A profile of beliefs and judgements about violent behaviour indicated that the Impulsive reactive cluster is represented by men in rural areas, and by subjects who witnessed parental violence or were victims of violence during childhood (p < 0.001). Conclusions In Romania, the use of violence as a form of discipline or instruction of children and women remains a significant problem, with a higher rate of intimate partner violence than in other developed countries. Furthermore, implementing intervention mechanisms for psychological abuse is urgently required, as are education and intervention in high-risk populations. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR] Copyright of BMC Public Health is the property of BioMed Centraland its content may not be copied or emailed to multiple sites or postedto a listserv without the copyright holder's express written permission. However, users may print, download, or email articles for individualuse. This abstract may be abridged. No warranty is given about the accuracy of the copy. Users should refer to the original publishedversion of the material for the full abstract. (Copyright applies to all Abstracts.)Author Affiliations: 1Biomedical department, "Francisc I. Rainer" Anthropology Institute of the Romanian Academy, 8 Avenue Eroii Sanitari,O.P. 35, C.P. 13, Sector 5, 050474 Bucharest, RomaniaISSN: 1471-2458DOI: 10.1186/1471-2458-14-129Accession Number: 94500025Persistent link to this record (Permalink):/login.aspx?direct=true&db=aph&AN=94500025&si te=ehost-liveCut and Paste: <ahref="/login.aspx?direct=true&db=aph&AN=94500 025&site=ehost-live">Violence against women by male partners and against children within the family: prevalence, associated factors, and intergenerational transmission in Romania: a cross-sectional study.</a>'It's Not OK' shines a light on family violence.By: Surgenor,Gael. Communication World. Nov/Dec2009, Vol. 26 Issue 6, p42-43. 2p.Abstract: The article focuses on the establishment of the Campaign forAction on Family Violence, the "It's Not OK" campaign created byTaskforce for Action on Violence Within Families to address thecontinuing growth of social problems in New Zealand. The main objectiveof the campaign is to promote public awareness on family violence itsimpact to the society. The campaign has also three main elementsincluding community action, mass media and research. (AN: 45223844)Persistent link to this record (Permalink):/login.aspx?direct=true&db=b9h&AN=45223844&site=ehost-liveCut and Paste: <ahref="/login.aspx?direct=true&db=b9h&AN=45223844&site=ehost-live">'It's Not OK' shines a light on familyviolence.</a>_____Family Violence. By: Teel, Linda M.. School Library Journal, September 2011, Vol. 57Issue 9, p62-63, 2p Abstract: A review is presented for the in-service instructional DVD-video “Family Violence,” produced by KidsSafety of America.; (AN 525501820)Persistent link to this record (Permalink): /login.aspx?direct=true&db=eft&AN=525501820&site=ehost-li veCut and Paste: <ahref="/login.aspx?direct=true&db=eft&AN=525501820&site=e host-live">Family Violence.</a>Database: Education Full Text (H.W. Wilson)。

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