辩论赛终极正文反方 (1)

Good afternoon, everyone. We are the opposite part.I am the leader of opposition. Today we are stand on the part " the disadvantages of campus love outweigh its advantages."

We will explain and prove our view from following reasons: First, college is a place for us to broaden our views and gain more knowledge. Fall in love with somebody will divide our study time to the lover.If we pay all our attention to our love affair,how can we develop ourselves? For example, both of them have classes, they have to adjust their time to find common spare time to get together. It means that we have to sacrifice some time to reach this goal. Additionly, many lovers often text to each other in class and make calls for a long time at night.All these will take up time and energy, thus also affect learning, which is the most important mission for students. Second, some students can not understand true love and our love can only last for a short time. According to the year 2005's Education Blue Book released by China Social Science Academy, about 88.8% of college students regarded campus love was a physical need and 96% college students who fell in love said good-bye finally. In other words, true love on campus is rare. For many students, either in love or still seeking for love, our main motivation and aim are to avoid boredom and add color to college life. Falling in love is just regarded as a fashion instead of seeking true love, most of the students just follow others blindly . We even can not give a reasonable reason why we fall in love with someone. Some people believe that having no girlfriend or boyfriend will make them lose face.Without true affection to each other,lovers always break up in a short time once they are tired of it. If we hold these attitudes towards our love, it is really hard to last a love. These mentalities are not healthy. What's more, we lack social experience.We cannot judge our other part very clearly, thus may lead to a quick separation. That's all. Thank you!

Question:

1.The definition of true love is different from people to people, I would be glad to hear your opinion about true love?

As I have mentioned above, most students do not have a better grasp of true love,

I am no exception. But I know true love is not for earning one's face, blindly following fashion and it is not found on the basis of ignoring our learning.That's all I want to say. Thank you!

2.But there were many people who loved each other and then got married, how do you explain this phenomenon?

Nowadays, this kind of case happen rarely in our university. According to some predecessors' experience, many of them broke up due to the reasons I have mentioned.That's all I want to say. Thank you!

总结Taking all these factors into consideration, we may reasonably draw a conclusion that the disadvantage of Campus love obviously outweigh the advantages. As a student, we should bear in mind our main task is studying. Life in campus is the most wonderful time in one’s whole life. To cherish it, we should use the limited time to learn more knowledge to prepare for our future. Besides, we must realize true love in college is rare because college students are not psychologically mature or able to hold the responsibility of love. These students are not independent in economic, not mature in personality and not perfect mentally yet. How can they afford the responsibility of taking another person while themselves need to be looked after? Then, many campus love only last for a shot time and many students fall in love many times..They do not regard it as a serious thing instead of playing games. This is incorrect value of love and value of life.

.What's more, when love relationship is broken, it will affect our emotions. Tragic events may happen such as suicides, murders, violent acts from unrequited love are not unfamiliar to people. If we do not handle well the relationship, it would lead to some blunders so that it destroy our whole life. Recently the pregnancy rate among girl students has has been increasing dramatically. On the basis of all these reasons, I must repeat claim that the disadvantage of Campus love obviously outweigh the advantages.

I’ll now quote a famous saying as an example to clarify my stand, “As a member

in the transfer crowd, there’s no doubt that we college student should lay emphasis on study, including all-round study of professional knowledge, communication art, self-planning, rational thinking and so forth. While it is right such character that provides young college students with a fundamental standard for life—always work at the useful and vital things, and be a realistic person.

Thank you for your listening! That's all I want to say. Thank you!

正方一辩问题what do you think should students do to balance study and love?

Good afternoon, everyone. I am the member of the opposition. The reasons also lie in following aspects.

First , college students do not have the ability to take responsibility of their loved ones. Responsibility means a lot, for example economically, we don't have the ability to earn money now, just get money from our parents which we spend on dating with opposite sex. So, what we are splurging is our parents' money. How could we waste the money from parents in enjoying the romantic and luxury life? Besides, it is a painful fact that boys obtain money needed for their love in an improper way. To please their girl friends, boy students always dress smartly, shop generously and eat out frequently; but when they can't find other quicker ways to make money needed than stealing or cheating, they are on the way to imprisonment. Mentally and physically, the most sensitive problem is the growing pregnancy rate among girl students. The young students are subjected to blame for being too young to put themselves under sensible control, we are in the special time that we want to know about sex, if we can't control us when we're together alone, we can't bear if we make the lover pregnant.

Second, when love relationship was broken, it will affect our emotions. Tragic events may happen like suicides, murders, violent acts from unrequited love are not unfamiliar to people. Though someone may think these kinds of things rarely happen, it is true that tragedies exist. And once any of them happens, sorrow, harm, and bad influence are not only brought to parents or relatives, but also to the whole school even the whole society. When failing to win desirable affection from their lovers, some girl students tend to commit suicide while boys resort to knife and poison for revenge. So, many students die of different kinds of love problems. These facts clearly show that many of college students don't have enough psychological knowledge and right attitudes towards love problems and can't deal with the problems in proper ways.

Question:

1.Don't you think that adults can't responsible for his own actions

2.W hat do you think of the responsibilities of college students towards their boyfriends or girlfriends?

Thank you for your questions, I think, so far as the age, college students are adults, but it cannot denied that we are still not fully responsible for our own actions, and to a large extent, we need to depend on our parents, especially in economic terms. College students don't have the ability to earn money now, just get money from their parents.

2.As for responsibilities towards their loved ones, I think they should help them,company them and motivate them to make efforts, rather than hanging out with them to kill time. They should set up a goal and try their best to achieve it.

正一：Are students willing to expose their shortcomings to others?

正二：How do you explain the cases that students kill themselves after their say goodbye to their boyfriends or girlfriends?

If it is as you said,why does the school ban or punish student who date with opposite sex?